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Drug Guide: Fibromyalgia Medications

Anti-depressant and anti-seizure medications

Fibromyalgia prompts doctors to prescribe medications from a variety of drug classes, because none of the medications used for fibromyalgia were actually developed for the condition or even approved by the FDA for treating it. Studies have shown relationships among fibromyalgia medications, anti-depressant medications, anti-seizure medications and the promising cross-results they can produce.

Nevertheless, the medications listed in this chart have shown effectiveness in randomized clinical trials of people with fibromyalgia. These include the antidepressant medications, such as amitriptyline (Endep), duloxetine (Cymbalta), fluoxetine (Prozac) and paroxetine (Paxil); muscle relaxants, such as cylobenzaprine (Cycloflex, Flexeril) and certain analgesics, including tramadol (Ultram). The combination of 20 mg Prozac taken in the morning and 25 mg amitryptyline taken at night also has shown effectiveness in easing symptoms throughout the day and helping to ensure sleep at night.

Recent studies using anti-seizure medications, such as gabapentin (Neurontin) and the drug pregabalin (Lyrica), demonstrated promising results in helping to ease pain, promote sleep and relieve fatigue.

You’ll find some other drugs used for fibromyalgia in the charts on analgesics and NSAIDs. For many people with this painful condition, an NSAID or analgesic, such as over-the-counter acetaminophen, provides sufficient pain relief; others take an NSAID or analgesic along with one or more of the medications listed here.

Mary Sheppard
18 Jan 2012, 08:50
I have been on Cymbalta for quite a while, but the side effects are so bad. How does Pristiq work? I also have OA and bipolar disorder along with fibromyalgia. I am currently on Ultracet q 4-6 for the pain. I need to come off the Cymbalta before it totally destroys my home life. Isn't there something else out there that one can take to help the depression and help the fibro? Someone please help! Thanks for your help in advance.
Sandra Bell
17 Jan 2012, 20:44
I really feel for all of you. I thought I had it bad until I read these comments. There are times that I feel like a guinea pig. If this med doesn't work we'll try this one or we'll add this one. I've seen so many specialists it isn't funny.

Although I was misdiagnoised for years - there were too many things wrong. I'm glad the answer is FM. However, my doctor says that he can't fix me. Stress is our enemy. We need to remain calm. The doctors understands this but does your family? Really understand?

Besides FM I have about 7 different things wrong with my back which basically "can't be fixed".

If I'm smart I'll take the time to you again about what has happened to you. There is always someone worse than you, or me.

Thank God you aren't the worst! He's there. Use His help!

My hearing and sight can be fixed.

Good Luck and God Bless you all!
Vicki
09 Jan 2012, 06:47
After reading the post from Donna Smith she wrote on 03 Jan 2012, 13:51 ..... It was like a flash back of everything that I had went thru with a few exceptions. I also am a nurse and slowly but surely lost my ability to hold down an easy flexible nurse position. I also have used work as my outlet ...for everything. Even as my children grew and grew out of the house I just immersed myself into my work. I loved my job as a psych nurse. I worked in acute care at first then down to outpt office work. And worked different levels in between. I lost everything when I was unable to work anymore...went from a two story 3 bedroom house to a dingy one bedroom dark apartment on the other side of town. For two years I sat in that apartment , unable to do much , and not wanting to burden my children , who where making their own way in their jobs or at college. I began getting more relief from my treatments , but still unable to work. I had to eventually move in with my ex husband, which was a god send for me. Thank you Jesus, he is a good man, we just could not live together anymore before. More and more I held the hand of God and I became a little better. I have learned that if I did have it to over again , I would be doing things to prepare myself for times when I was not able to do much physically. I also struggle with the fibro fog , but now am able to laugh about it. I also get out and exercise and get out in my community and get to know people. In this I also discovered that I did not know people in my own community, only people I worked with over an hour away from my home. It has not been all a pleasant journey, but a necessary one and I am grateful now to be where I am.
Donna Smith
03 Jan 2012, 13:51
I have been dealing with global pain since I helped boost my 440# patient in ICU and herniated a disc in my neck. The initial doctor said I had an entrapped shoulder nerve and refused to look further at my neck or take me off work. So for a year I limped along with chiropractic treatment which kept me working although I modified my work from ICU/CCUs as an agency nurse to agency nursing working industrial clinics. Finally, saw another ortho who said, "Oh you have a herniated disc where are your exays?" of course after that the focus was only on my neck although the shoulder pain never went away, I could now look up again. This is a 20 year old still open L&I clain and they have never fixed my shoulder and we are still fighting to get it fixed. Anyway the all over chronic pain came I don't know when, but is bad all the time and worse others. I have been on Ultram/tramadol since 1993. I know it can be addictibve to some people and make others ill but for me it just keeps the pain bearable, usually about a 5/10. I have vicoden for the worst times and have recently upped that to the 7.5s but my doc will only let me have two a day. Saw an arthritis doc who said fibromyalgia and my response was stop swearing at me I don't need an excuse not to get up in the morning. I am starting 2012 laid off from my very flexible job and work site as a public health nurse doing emergency planning for my department. I have always used all my sick time and my flex time to cover the worst pain days. Now I don't think I will be able to find a job I can work in. I am not complaing just sharing my fears. I wasn't planning to quit work but the cuts to public health funding took my job away. As a nurse there ares so many things I could do before but even the disablity insurance I had won't work for now as I can manage my ADLs. If I could not work while employed it covered me but when I am laid off i have to be unable to do ADLs. (activities of daily living, like dressing, toileting, preparing food)
I have a genuine fear of newere drugs because so many get pulled from the market after a year or two due to the corrupt FDA. The docs offer me anti-depressants but I don't feel depressed, I just hurt and yes some days I do get down but not often. Ihave always had and used work as a distraction. NOw who knows. I have been exploring this site today as part of my take care of me first decision and saw for the first time the mention of the brain fog from the pain. I said about 5 years ago Ihad lost alot of my ability to concentrate and the things Iwas doing took longer and were harder ot accomplish. I am now working on accepting that I probably won't ever work as a nurse again and maybe not ever work again. That's all I wanted to say except is is very nice to have a forum where I can speak about this and be understood.
Denise
19 Dec 2011, 10:59
I really resonated with many of the people who commented, but some of the issues that Janet reported were closest to what I experienced.
I worked as a Navy nurse for 18 years and was medically retired in 2007. I was a master's prepared clinical nurse specialist (cardiovascular) and was a critical care instructor. I also have a master's degree in human resources management. My last job was directing a 9 provider outpatient clinic.
My story began in 1999. I was running about 3 miles daily, did pushups and sit-ups, swam, etc. I started having numbness and tingling in the last two digits of my left hand. Long story short, I had an ulnar nerve transposition which didn't fix the problem. I had two cervical spine fusions (which did fix the problem), until one night in 2001 when I was doing some training in the ICU. I went to get a video off a shelf in an office and turned to say hi to my boss who was walking by. When I turned around, the bookshelf was falling over on me. It took 3 big guys to lift it off.
That event not only messed up my spine, but it also triggered the cascade of pain and other symptoms of FM.
Ultimately, after 10 years of dealing with this, I had to retire. I loved nursing and had plans to teach at a college after I retired. Now, I'm medically retired and on Social Security disability. I had to give up my nursing license last month because they now have a requirement for practice hours. I always said that they would pry my nursing license from my cold dead hands!!!
I'm finally ready to take my degrees, etc. off the wall and put them away because every time I see them, I get more depressed. I'm taking morphine once a day for the pain (among many other things). I was up to 3 a day, but was so goofy I worked my way back to 1. I've drawn a line in the sand with my meds as far as adding any more.
As a nurse, I never knew as much about FM as I do now. I remember the days when providers thought it was all in your head. Probably because it primarily affects women! I'm glad it is finally recognized as a valid disease. I agree that more research needs to happen with FM as well as pain control.
Linda
19 Dec 2011, 09:51
I have Fibro,OA, and Lupus and I was in pretty bad shape when I found my current Dr. He put me on Sevella and Boy was that life changing. I only take very low dose pain meds now and a low dose sleep aid and I sleep through the night now. I don't feel drug out the next morning and I have an active lifestyle again. Don't give up because there are doctors out there that can help you.
Gay Nell Rice
06 Dec 2011, 19:11
Arthritis and fibramyalgia could really cause alot of pain and problems in my life. But my MD said it best at my last appointment. He said 35 years ago when he first began in medical school fibramyalgia best Rx was antidepresents and exercise. He also said the best Rx for today was the same as 35 years ago. In other words; we need more research instead of narcotics and brain fogging meds. I do again agree with him on the exercise. Even when I am suffering with these horrible flare ups I have found just walking helps. Hot tubs to relieve some of the pain and stiffness. I feel like arthritis and fibramyaliga work together. I have recently had to have a Shoulder replacement surgery for arthritis. Over the years I have had several arthritic related surgerys. It seems this way to me; of course everyones pain is different. I do symphatize with anyone in pain. Just be careful what you put in your body. Every med has to go through the liver and kidneys. Just think about what could be. God bless you all!
Dana Byerly
22 Nov 2011, 00:58
I can relate to all of you ladies. ...I was diagnised with FM while working in a high stress job at a hospital. It got so bad that the docs I worked for were giving me two to three shots a day to get me through to do my job. I am retired now but do pet sitting to help with finances. Everytime I come home from a job I suffer a horrible flare. I don't understand this but it is all the time. I have been given tramadol, an antidepressant, Lyrica,Nabumatone and something to help me sleep. I hate taking all of these meds but I need them just to get through my day. I am hoping someday I can eventually get off some of them. I live alone so I know some of the pain is just the fact that I have to do things that "hurt" simply because I have no one to help me. I am going to evaluate my situation especially my diet and hope it helps. God bless all of you who suffer from this.
Janet
15 Nov 2011, 10:43
I just now found this discussion thread, & I read as far back as December 2010. I'd like to add a few comments that I haven't seen so far, as well as respond to a few of those who've left posts. First to Linda, from last December: your post was wonderful -- helpful & uplifting. So often it's easier for those of us with FM to focus on our problems rather than listen to others who have found solutions, even for themselves. So thank you!

To Shanna, you are so right about other people's reactions. I know one thing for sure: when you develop FM, you find out who your real friends are & who really loves you! I found out that I have the Very Best Husband in the Whole World! (Sorry ladies, but he IS the best!)

I developed FM in 2006 after an accident in October 2005. I thought that nothing had happened except that the curvature of my neck had decreased, after 2 years of chiro to get a nice curve back in it. With a couple of months intensive therapy, I got my good healthy curve back!

My first symptom that we have tied to my Fm was severe headaches. My doctor sent me for MRI & MRA, clear. So he started "experimenting" with different meds. I developed Severe tinnitus, which for me is best described as the sound made by the 13 year locusts when they swarm. lol Asked my doc if med for headaches might be cause, & he allowed me to stop the med. Still tinnitus. Sent for ear exam; okay, except for a bit of high sound loss, which is to be expected, since I was then in late 50s. Audiologist suggested wearing a small hearing aid in my ears to "sort of block the other sound," hmmm... I declined. Never have found out what caused that, or anything to fix it. But I must move on.

My very worst symptoms, which changed my life Forever, were extreme fatigue & a mental lack of clarity & focus -- not a good thing for a college professor of history & geography! I struggled through that period with my doc changing meds & finding one that helped. We tried Cymbalta, & I thought for a while it was helping. But then symptoms continued to worsen.
By 2007, I was having a horrible time trying to work. And this was a career I loved! I began to give my students incorrect answers when they called or emailed me about dates for exams & other things. I even mixed up history & geog students! They began to look at me strangely when I more & more frequently answered them wrong when they asked such questions in person. Luckily for me, I'd studied so long & hard for my Ph.D, & I'd taught for so many years, that when I put my PowerPoint presentations on the screen, I could sort of go into autopilot mode. Except for geography. As we all know, world events happen without warning. One week I had to change my outline three times, when studying a new crisis in the Middle East! So "fibro fog," which I've seen as the term for this mental confusion, in several books, made doing my job, making out lecture outlines, getting tests scored correctly, having tests ready to give on the day I was supposed to, taking the right materials to the right class, on and on, became a problem that just about overwhelmed me.

The other symptom was Extreme Fatigue -- I think it deserves to be in capital letters. My very first experience was in the shower. I was scrubbing myself down, thinking about what I was going to wear, enjoying the warmth of the water. I had just done my legs with the wash cloth & tried to raise it to the water to rinse out the soap. I could not lift my hand! Well, I could, & I did, but I felt as weak as the first time I was sent to give myself a bath after my hysterectomy. Not normal, I thought. I called to my husband, & he helped me get out of the shower. I had him throw a towel on his side of the bed & fell onto it. I just curled up & lay there. I think he thought I was having a heart attack, & I wasn't so sure myself. So after about twenty minutes, that feeling passed, & I got dressed for work. He insisted on driving me in that day (he'd already retired), & I let him! Those periods began to come on more frequently.
We live 35 minutes from my work, far out in the country, no commuting except by our autos.

Then I began to have spells where I would just fall asleep reading a book & drop it to the floor, waking myself up. I would fall asleep at the computer, & when I "woke up" I would be waking from a "dream" & I would be reaching out my hand to hand someone something or take something from them. I'd seen very ill people do this when in a semi-conscious state, just before dying. That really scared me! I've since learned that doctors say FM patients do not really "fall asleep," they have instantaneous, very short-lived episodes in which they actually have hallucinations! That made much more sense! I'd be texting my daughter, who lived in another state, & I'd go "out of it," and when I woke up I would have been writing gibberish. Once I even sent the text! I saw it immediately, & sent her another to tell her I was okay. But she knew I wasn't.

Then I had several of those episodes while driving to & from work. Scary stuff! One day, coming home, I stopped at a yield sign to exit the interstate to our main highway. The next thing I remember, I was 2 miles down the road & had crossed a bridge over a small creek. That was it. My husband began to insist on driving me to work most of the time.

To make a very long story short, I finally retired at the end of the school year in May 2008. As someone else mentioned, that was a very depressing time. I no longer had a livelihood, but more importantly, I no longer had a sense of self worth or any sense of a "job well done." I LOVED teaching! I hated retiring, but my students were leaving messages on Rate My Professor such as "Dr. Brantley has lost it...IF she ever had it." "She needs to get to a nursing home right away!" "Don't ever take a class from her! Unless you're prepared for 16 weeks of utter frustration!" I would cry when I read those things -- because I knew they were at least partly right. My students who knew & loved me (small community college, close bonds sometimes) were looking at me with pity. I couldn't get to work by myself, & on several days I couldn't get there at all. One day my husband went in and proctored a test for me. One of the students asked, "Mr. Brantley, are you a teacher, too?" He said, "No, I'm a mechanic." They thought it was hysterical! But I said short!

In Jan. 2009 I found a rheumatologist in Dallas (3 hours away, but who cared?). He was wonderful. He began to set me up with new meds, one at a time, starting with worst symptoms first, he said. But as he added on, I began to realize that most of my symptoms were getting a bit better. When I first went to him, I could not in truth tell him that I ever had a "good day," & my husband agreed.

So over the next year, we developed this set of meds, which has worked for me (I make no promises for anyone else.) For the extreme daytime fatigue, "fibro fog," & sleepiness, he prescribed Provigil; for a long time, I took 2 each morning, but now I take only one. For the many muscular pains of FM, and for the depression & anxiety I occasionally experienced, I take both Savella & Lyrica. He made me experiment with the dosage so I could find the "most" I could tolerate without side effects, steadily working upward & then back down in dosages. It took most of a year to get things organized. I also take Tramadol for pain, & he started me out with 2 in morning & 2 at bedtime. Over time, I had gotten down to 1 at night! I have recently experienced a flare that led me back to the 2 twice a day -- for a while.

For severe RLS, I take Ropinerole, which is the generic for Requip. I've seen some of you mention this. I hope it helps you as much as it helped me! I now go to sleep & sleep at least four hours straight, more often about 7. I wake up & can actually get out of bed! After about two minutes of walking & massaging, I'm in pretty good shape.

Just listen to everyone who tells you to learn to Pace Yourself in Everything You Do -- and I mean Everything! And Listen to Your Body! Now that I have retired, this is so much easier to do. I plan everything. If there's something coming up that I really want to do -- grandson's baseball games, for example -- I don't plan or do anything strenuous for a couple of days beforehand, or for the day after. Because the next day, I may well pay for all the walking, all the sitting, all the nerve-wracking experiences of the games. :) But now that I KNOW and ACCEPT that, I'm so much better!!

If I could have only found that rheumatologist soon after being diagnosed, instead of almost three years later, I might still be able to be teaching today. At the beginning of the semester, when I know everyone is getting new lectures together, getting their equipment set up, I am most depressed. When something happens in the news that would have impacted my geography class, I get this itch to re-work PowerPoints, but there are none to do! Leaving work has been the hardest part! But if I can feel better & function better, I guess it was worth it.

I love all of you who are going through the pains & trials of FM & all other chronic diseases. But it's good for us to have a place to share info, & just to "vent" sometimes. As one of our forefathers said, (I can't remember which one -- lol), "We must all hang together, or we shall surely hang apart." Or something like that.

Have a wonderful holiday season, & God Bless Us Everyone!
Kelly
14 Oct 2011, 21:22
Fibromyalgia and ALOT of these "symptoms" mentioned on all of these comments have been proven to really be untreated Lyme disease. If you have been diagnosed with fibromyalgia, chronic fatigue, etc. Do yourself a favor and research Lyme and find a good Lyme literate medical doctor (llmd) and get tested. I wasted 10 years of my life being told I had fibromyalgia and the rest of this crap until I found out it was all being caused by an infection treatable with antibiotics. I now on the path to getting my life back!
"Kitty"
28 Sep 2011, 17:18
For Joanne Day, My psychiatrist prescribed Nuvigil for my severe fatigue. It is a medicine used for Narcolepsy and is not yet approved for the fatigue, BUT IT WORKS!!!
Rita Cornish
18 Sep 2011, 21:01
I have had FM for 17 years...I suffered terrible pain in my hips and legs...I tries many pain meds, not one helped me...Then I found a wonderful MD who was trained as a Fibromyalgia Specialist...We talked about pain...and the many other chronic illness, that come upon us with this horrible illness...He told me, there is really no pain med that helps most FM patients...He had me have an MRI of my spine and neck..I came out with the same symptoms on my spine that other women had the he had have spinal surgery...most of their pain go away...Well finally after a year he talked me into it..My pain has lessoned to almost no pain...This is a new Research find...and only for some people, There are certain perameters,I don't know any other doctors that have the knowledge, but he did and he was right...You might contact your doctor and ask about it or contact AFAssociation...they may have the info on this...no I am not a nut..I am a person who suffered as you do..I understand your pain..May you have a better tomorrow and please, NEVER GIVE UP!!! Rita
Juli L.
09 Sep 2011, 16:51
I've had FM since age 21. I am now 52. I too tried everything and have been through almost everything in some of each posting here.
Some advice I can give now: I used to panic when I had a "flare Up". But now I know better. If i'm tired I don't push myself. I plan my life around my illness. I don't care if someone doesnt understand anymore, I'm tired of hiding it.
What helped me more than anything was I accidently had to change my eating habits for a different health problem. After 9 weeks of no red meat (fish only tuna, salmon cod only), only whole grain bread, only non fate everything. Making vegies and fruits the main part of every meal. Honestly I'd have never believed this but it HAS made my inflammation go down. I've eaten whatever i wanted my whole life cause it was my reward for suffering...ya right...doesn't work that way.

I'm a believer now. I also bought a used Recumbent bike for exercise. I do it only 2 or 3 times a week but that's alot for me. I still take lots of pain meds and am always afraid of every new governmental regulation is going to black ball me or my doc. so far still good. I've been at my job for ten years and am very worried about making it til retirement. The job's mine, but my body may well not make it. I'd be very depressed if i didnt have a job though. Oh it'd be great at first but then i'd go stir crazy.
I've been treated like crap by doctors, relatives, friends and spouses. My daughter is the only person who truly cares and sees my real suffering. My job is tolerant because I push through so hard. I try not to let them see my limping or stiffness. My hips, back and wrists are giving out and it's also going into my eyes...(look that one up)..yep the eyes ...great huh?
But I plan alot of me time, I pamper myself and it helps a bit. It could always be worse..Really it could. I know now that when I have a flare...it will calm down. So I just wait...some days I'll say to myself..wow if i felt this good everyday it'd be a miracle. Those days are very few.
Find a Doctor who understands Fibromyalgia & who will treat you without over or under medicating you. Narcotics can kill you. Please read up on them, you don't want to never wake up. I've been taking them 32 years now. I'm very worried about what will happen to me when I'm old and frail (oh I guess i'm frail now)..I mean when I'm unable to take care of myself. Who will make sure I'm not silently suffering? Probably my daughter. Thank God. So I'm always thankful when I can lay in my bed and when the sheets dont hurt my skin. I have my cats who entertain me and make me laugh. I've finally been able to tell my Mom and she believes me. My sister has a friend who has it so she finally believes me. Who cares about the rest.
We are all in this together. There will come a time when pain will be treated without addictive drugs...they are researching this. For now just be gentle to yourself. You will make it.. I am.
Kimberly
09 Sep 2011, 16:20
I have had fibro since the age of 5. I have it very severe, but keep going and going. There are times I'd love to give up, but now I have an 8mth old granddaughter that I want to get to know. Anyway, this is for Joanne Day - you can find online support on the American Pain Foundation Site at: painfoundation.org; look under find support. For Sheila Manning, I'm leader of a fm support group and I have compiled a list of companies and rx manufacturers that can help with drug costs on our support group site at abqfibro.com. Hope this helps y'all!
Sharron Bou
09 Sep 2011, 00:12
For Sheila Manning, look on your prescription bottle and contact the manufacture of the drug. I Know Pfizer has several programs but whether your drugs are listed in their formulary I don't know.

God Bless
shelia manning
08 Sep 2011, 20:35
i would like to know where Tammy f finds the free medicines web stes?
Joanne Day
06 Sep 2011, 20:19
I have been reading all the comments above. I too have Sjogrens, OA, Fibro, IBS, degenerative disc disease and Charcot foot (left one.) I see a Pain Specialist& my Rheumatologist. Between the two, I manage most of the time. The dry eyes and dry mouth are the worst to control. I have found the biotene products and orbit gum but haven't found the other products, Salase, OriMist etc. I too, am so sick and tired of being told "you look fine". I hope I don't bash the next person who says that. I am looking for some online support groups since fatique prevents me from driving all over CT to find groups. Any ideas or help?

Thanks.
Tammy F
05 Aug 2011, 10:52
According to fibromyalgia research by John Hopkins hospital only 30% of fibromyalgia patients gain any relief from the particular medications approved for fibro-- and most of those that do usually find the relief is limited. But they have proven fibro IS real--even though many doctors still don't think so. Find yourself a good Rheumatologist and Neurologist--tend to be familiar with fibro more so than other doctors--although there are some of them that don't have a clue either. But don't waste time on doctors that haven't got a clue. The sooner you find a doctor or specialist that is up on the latest info the better your chances of finding at least some relief. And try to combine their treatments with alternative modalities until you find what works best for you: physical therapy, chiropractic, accupuncture, massage, hydro-therapy, dietary and herbal remedies, etc. And be prepared to have to change things if something that was working for you gradually or suddenly stops.

Oh...and if you have problems affording medications there are several drug companies that have programs and if you qualify they will mail your medications to you free of charge. Some doctor clinics will even help you with the paperwork and steps needed to apply.

God bless you each and everyone. And as always I pray they find a cure (or at least develop a treatment that works 100%!)
Kimberly White
21 Jul 2011, 10:52
I have had fibromyalgia for 27 years now. I was reading the comments under fibromyalgia a drug guide and I need you to let some of these people know this. #1. All drugs will react differently for different people. What works well for one may not work at all for another.#2. Those of you who are on Oxycontin and other narcotics, of the narcotics that I have tried, methadone worked the best, had the least amount of side affects and needed fewer increases over the years. However,as with all narcotics, you will eventually get to a point where any more increases and you could stop breathing and if you get to that point you will either have to stay on your dose or detox off the drug which should be done very very slowly and under a doctors constant care. #3 Those who are having cognitive problems and are trying to figure out which drug could be causing this, Fibromyalgia can cause cognitive problems but if you are on Tegretol, get off that first. My doctor (I was already on tegretol when I got her as a doctor)told me after I got off of it, that doctors call it dopatol because of the cognitive problems it gives people. When I got off of it. I got my mind back and even though I walk my dogs, I am mostly bed-bound, I am going back to college online now after 27 years because I can think again. It also helped with the depression getting off of it. But on the depression issue.#4 In addition to antidepressants like cymbalta and lyrica, I would suggest going through a program like the DBT Program that's Dialectical Behavioral Therapy.or Cognitive Behavioral Therapy in addition to the meds. It is another set of tools to arm you in your battle of depression.#5 Get toxic people out of your life and keep healthy supportive people around you as much as possible. If you have someone to help you 24/7 and can take on duties when you absolutely can't and you need help with motivation to exercise, then I recommend getting a small to med size dog. He/she will love you unconditionally and you have to take it for walks so you have the motivation. I know I wouldn't do it for myself but my dog needs to walk. And when it is totally impossible for me to do it my support person does it. Plus if you get a therapy dog it can help you by picking things up for you, Giving an alarm if you are having a bad spell. It is known that pet owners are happier than non pet owners. That is the end of the best advice that I have.
Good luck and good life to all of you. Love makes it all worth while.
Pam Vehrs
10 Jul 2011, 19:01
I have started to take Cymbalta. It works GREAT!!! There is very little breakthrough pain. I have severe osteoarthritis. I think this is the next best thing since Darvecet!
April Wegman
05 Jul 2011, 09:34
I have been in 3 major car accidents, so as you can imagine, arthritis has set in and in some joints is now bursitis. On top of it all I have had fibromyalgia for many years. To top it all off I have heal spurs in both feet.

The combination of pain medications I am on now my doctor and I have worked up to for at least 5 years now.

mobic 15mg (am), tramodol 100mg (am and pm), lyrica 150mg (am) and 300mg (pm)hydrocod/ibu 7.5mg (am and pm) and Treximet for the migraines.

This works well for now. As the problems progress the strength in the medications will increase.

Good Luck to all in finding relief and God Bless. ~April
Shanna
21 Jun 2011, 09:44
The pain can be nearly unbearable from FM - but the reactions when you mention it are nearly as hard to bear.
I work in the medical field and was told never to mention that I have FM at work or around co-workers, as it is considered a diagnosis given by some doctors to just give complaining patients a pacifier of sorts.
I am searching for a different doctor myself as I feel that my current one does not take my complaints seriously.
Currently prescribed Zoloft and told to take combination of Tylenol and Advil to ease the pain.
Most days are okay - but there are others that I hurt so much that I want to curl up in a ball and cry... but I don't, of course. Appreciate the good days and make it through the bad.
Bonnie C
10 Jun 2011, 16:57
Rather than go on about my pain, I would like to say GOD BLESS Susan and her son. She has a wonderful attitude and I think we could all take a lesson from Susan and her wonderful attitude.
Doreen
03 Jun 2011, 15:09
I've been living with FMS since diagnosed in 1997. I started seeing a pain specialist about 2-3 years ago and I'm doing the best now that I've ever done. I also have AO and RA to help matters along ha ha - NOT! When my doctor suggested low dose methadone to help my pain instead of the norco (vicodin without so much acetaminophen) that made me lathargic and did little to help my FMS, I did a lot of research and finally tried it. I no longer have to be drugged feeling to have relief from my pain. I don't even feel the low dose methadone in my system other than the fact that my pain is releived. I would highly recommend to anyone living with FMS pain to talk to your doctor about it. I take 10mg in the morning, 5mg mid-day and another 10mg in the early evening. Methadone has been found to be the only opiode that works on the pain for FMS. I still take norco when I have severe lower back pain from chronic OA with degenerative disk desease and that helps when it's really bad, otherwise I stay away from norco. I also take neurontin and robaxin daily and use ibuprophen to help with inflammation as needed (usually in conjunction with norco when my lower back is screaming in pain).
God Bless all of you who are living with this horrible illness, as you all know, it's very difficult to garner any sympathy or even belief that you're ill when there are no outward signs of being ill. People think you're crazy or a hypocondriac. But we know the real deal so screw all those who haven't got a clue! Good luck to all and I wish you some comfort and pain free time. Doreen :)
WD
01 Jun 2011, 20:13
Everyone, please researach Low Dose Naltrexone (LDN) for your pain and inflammation, not only does this LDN help with pain and inflammation, it has been a treatment for cancer successfully I may add.. Please look for yourself, on the internet as well as www.youtube.com God Bless.
susan
03 May 2011, 10:27
I have fibromyalgia and osteoarthritis. I also have a 36 year old son who is in a wheelchair (Cerebral Palsy). I have had so very many surgeries (hips, back, rotator cuff, etc). Along with those things, I have allegies to dogs, cats, trees, bushes, flowers, etc. My son is very, very smart, so I must do what is right for him. I try my best to take my meds (Paroxotine and Trazadone(at night for sleeping) and just keep going. He's the love of my life and
I love doing whatever he needs - including shaving him, cutting the nails, washing, feeding, etc. I feel I have no right to complain when there are SO many other people in the world who are so much worse than my son and me. Smiling releases endorphins into the brain and whether you mean the smile or not, it works, and soon you are feeling better. So try to smile, or better yet,laugh. After all, life is pretty funny when you think about it! :)
Debbie Brunner
25 Apr 2011, 17:03
I've had fibromyalgia since2000 and hep-C since 2001,I can't tell you how many pills I've been on since and still mothing works. I just strted going to a pain management Dr.he gave me a patch that didn't work so whats next again????? There are somedays i just can't take it anymore and it drives me crazy, so i pray.
deb
20 Apr 2011, 00:11
I see myself in almost all of these entries. How very sad.
I have tried all sorts of meds most that I have seen listed here and none with satisfying results. Some seemed to help for awhile and then quit working. I was diagnosed 3 years ago but now realize that I was sick for years before I had a Dx.
I finally was sent to a pain clinic where a doc tried a Fentanyl patch...and this has been a life saver for me. I have only read one post here from someone using a patch..and that surprised me since this was the only thing that has been really helpful to me.
The other thing that helped me was warm water therapy. I had PT in a pool and then kept it up by joining the YMCA that has a heated pool.

I'd love to live somewhere warm and dry with "high pressure" systems as the norm. I really hurt when the barometric pressure drops...ouch.

Thanks for posting ...remember that when it is awfully bad it will get better....but then ( boo hiss...) when it is good it will get worse. Live one day at a time. Praise God and trust Him with your health.
Carol
17 Mar 2011, 19:27
Hi Mindy,

The psychiatrist I'm seeing, he's working on multiple psychological problems I have. I've had insomnia for as long as I can remember, probably since the early 80s and that was two years after my Mum died in '79.
I've been on too many anti-depressants/anxiolytics to list here. I've tried Ativan for years, to help me sleep, but about a year ago, it gave me acid reflux.
Then my psychiatrist suggested IMOVANE and it seems to help me sleep along with...two tabs of RIVOTRIL.
I do have fibromyalgia but not to the degree that you have. My pain is mostly from osteoarthritis, the worst area, being my lower back.
You have SO MUCH going on, I feel bad for you.
I have the type of OA that affects how I sit. I have to sit BACK in a computer chair. If I lean forward, I can experience nausea and because I have a type of sciatica (piriformis syndrome...the nerve goes THROUGH the piriformis muscle instead of UNDER it,) I may feel numbness from my lowewr back down to my right foot.
Unlike you, I can't have surgery; if I did, I'd probably be paralyzed and end up in a wheelchair, so...I soldier on.
I have, over the months - 2010 - been in so much pain, that I just wanted to go to sleep and not wake up. Psychologically, the pain wear on a person and I've been health-related depressed for a loooonnnnnggggg time!

That's it for now Mindy. Hope to hear back from you.

You're from the States, me...I'm from Canada.
We have this site in commmon. :^))

Carole
01 Mar 2011, 15:34
I have had Fibromyalgia since 1995. I have been on about every antidepressant there is. In my case, I have very severe osteo arthritis also. I have had several joints replaced. My right knee has had 3 replacements. But many of my joints have been replaced including 2 back surgeries which now have a cage in my back, and cervical disc repairs. I am writing because the meds I am now on are helping more than any other ones have. I go to a pain clinic. Sometimes I have to have epidual steriod injections into my back but not too often any more. I also have occipital neuralgia which the Dr. put me on gabapentin (Neurontin). I was afraid of it because a neurologist had me on it once before and I had terrible side effects. So the Dr. treating me now started me on 100 mgs. to start. I am up to 1800 mgs. now and so far I have very little pain in my head. In fact, I feel that it has helped me with my Fibro. pain also. I am also on Lexapro, Mirapex, Oxycontin (only when it is really bad), Percocet for breadthrough pain, ibuprofen prn, clonazepam and Ambien Cr. 2 at bedtime.
It has been 16 years of the pain Dr. and a psychiatrist to get me where I am today. I am 69 years old, female. I don't encourage anyone to take Oxycontin as it is very addictable. I do not take it everyday but my Dr. said I need to take it every 12 hours so I get the full benefit. I realize what the Dr. means but I am not going to get addicted to it. God bless all of you that have these problems. Get your depression under control!!! My daughter passed away recently and Lexapro was my life savior. Keep going on the path to getting as pain free as you can. Just be CAREFUL. I wish you all the very best. Don't give up!!!!
mindy
16 Jan 2011, 05:29
i'm checking back in again..i've been on the ropinerole now for two weeks. thankfully no nausea, lightheadedness or that adverse reaction of being alert one second and asleep the next..just some instances of daytime drowsiness...but not that often. but so far no help whatsoever with the pain..which is the whole reason i am taking it. Right? in fact..is it possible my pain could be worse? it sure seems like it to me. also, i was ordered Celexa the other day..that is being mailed to me so i have not started that..for major depression/etc...saw on one report that possibly helps fibromyalgia too? is that so? anyone else heard that? problem i am truly having is i am two hours from the va medical center..so i feel like i don't have access to care in times of real problems..also it always happens i need something on weekends..don't know why that occurs but it stinks..no one is even in on weekends to call ..except 24 hour nurse line..and then would say they'd have docs call on monday or come in to emergency room..which is two hours away..so i can't. right now i am not supposed to be driving..due to that adverse reaction possibility..and so far have not driven..have received rides to medical appointments. the social worker has gotten me rides for major appointments to the medical center..and my fiance so far has been able to arrange to take his day off so i can get to therapy or a primary appointment which is only a half hour away. but i feel very isolated when i can't get where i need or want to go on my own..or it is when no one is there that i do not feel well. and i also am beginnning to feel the say will not find a medication that will work for me for the fibromyalgia..i think this is the last one my neurologist will bother trying if i tell him it is not working for me..so i'm afraid to say anything..as it is this is a trial..i don't have restless leg syndrome which ropinerole is normally slated for..and being used for a trial for refractory fibromyalgia..anyone know how long would be expected till a med should show it is helping for pain? i am not even up to full strength dose..i go up to 0.75mg tonight..and then next saturday to my regular planned dose of 1.0mg. i had started on 0.25mg two weeks ago. i just feel like i am a ball of pain..almost like things are broken rather than sore..u know down to the bone. my body screams. i just do not even know what to do anymore at all.
Leona
09 Jan 2011, 15:16
I came across this article in Arthritis Today several weeks ago and was interested in what it said about a drug to take prior to exercise. I want to exercise but always end up with painful flare ups. I've had FM since 1990 after a near fatal car accident in which I broke my upper and low jaws and injured my neck which required spinal fusion. I have tried lots of things over the years but what works for me is Trazadone for sleep and Vicodin. I've discussed with my PCP the use of Vicodin long term but since I only consume about 30 Vicodin every couple of months I have not become addicted to it. Yes, I could take Vicodin 4 times a day the way I sometimes feel but I'm worried about addiction. I use heat, rest, and stretching to get buy on as little Vicodin as I do. Vicodin dulls the pain but does not totally take it away.

I am now going to attempt Yoga Tai Chi for exercise and see how that goes. I tried aquacises but I have a bad knee so that blew that - took much walking in water. Today is a Vicodin and moist heat day for my neck and shoulders - oh what fun.

Today is a bad day as was the last 2 days. Today it is snowing. I was in Florida last week and I had very little pain. I live in Colorado and now know that high altitude affects my pain (makes it worse) and so does the barametric pressure (weather). If the barametric pressure is going down the pain is worse (follow this by looking in the newspaper for the BP and chart this with your pain). Low altitude and warm temperatures are better for me.

I have three daughters; one daugher has RA, one has FM, and the other probably has RA yet to be diagnosed (swollen hands). My brother has RA, my mother has OA and my father had bursitis. These diseases are genetic in some way. They all relate to the barametric pressure as I do.

I worked for 30 years, recently retired and started my own business and now work part time. I keep going and stay active despite what is going on. FM takes a toll on my husband - he gets depressed about my need for rest and simply cannot comprehend what the pain feels like. He knows other men who have wives with FM so he at least has an outlet to discuss things from his point of view. By the way, my husband broke his neck (5th and 6th verterbraes) in the car accident and has no lasting pain or paralysis. I guess I wasn't that lucky - if you call that luck.

Good luck to all of you with FM and my advice is keep up your own research - it just may one day lead you to something that really works.
Kim
05 Jan 2011, 10:59
Be very careful with lyrica. I took it and became very dizzy and fell constantly. My doctor insisted that I continue and I ended up with a suicide attempt. I took myself off the drug, changed doctors, and besides the fibromyalgia I am fine.
mindy
29 Dec 2010, 19:31
I stumbled upon all these comments tonight and felt less alone and i thank all of you for that. i was diagnosed with fibromyalgia less than a year ago though i have been suffering with it for some time i feel. i also have major depression , anxiety,panic attacks and PTSD, asthma,chondromalacia,i've had three torn tendons in my wrists{dealing with one now-using hot wax treatments at home and a brace}, and osteoporosis{had two breaks already unprovoked-cannot tolerate biophosphate meds-had been on fosamax and actonel in the past},few months short of what they say is menopause..u know it has to be twelve months without a period--it's been 8 now. anyway, i have tried cymbalta and lyrica.for the fibromyalgia..both had to be taken off because of adverse reactions. i've been on so many antidepressants in the past years..though none for over two years that there was really nothing for them to put me on next and my neurologist said he really had nothing..and i was and am in agony and am able to get almost no sleep..i cannot find a spot to lay on that does not hurt. i called him again and he called me back. i am a disabled veteran and get my care from a veterans hospital so it was nice that he took the time to get to me the same day. we talked and he said only thing was savella and he would not put me on that as it was about same as cymbalta and that caused such problems and he did not prescibe it due to its adverse reactions. he offered a different route. he said there is a med that is usually used for parkinson's and now being slated as new med for refractory fibromyalgia ..in a 2005 woman's health article..one of next fibromyalgia meds..also used for restless leg syndrome..did i want to give it a shot. well i do not really know if i have restless leg syndrome as i do not have the twitchy legs at night..nor do it sleep..for me..my legs ache terribly when i am still during the day as they get stiff from being in the same position..and really hurt terribly. i have to stretch them out and still they hurt. he is sending me out the med in the mail it is ropinerole..don't know if it is the name or requip..another name for it..and i do not know the dose yet..though he said it would be only at night for me. it is more of a trial for me..i think it is like research still for it.for refractory fibromyalgia. but me..i can not look a gift horse in the mouth..i am in agony day and night and sometimes have to use a cane now..which i must say i am stubborn and often times don't. i am also on klonopin and topamax and vitamin d and calcium and a multivitamin and soon i will be adding a antidepressant as i meet a new psychiatrist in a few weeks..which he should have a grand time finding one for me with my history and with the interactions.there are not too many left to choose from for me. i sure hope he has some ideas and suggestions as i have been so depressed and hopeless. i thought that the lyrica i was on at the time had caused my cognitive issues of memory problems and becoming overwhelmed and not being able to keep appointments on time..etc..and now i am finding it has not gone back to normal..and i have been off it awhile now..so i do not know if that is the depression causing the cognitive issues. there were a few years in between where i was not on any psych meds at all and was doing okay..but having moved from new jersey to virginia almost a year ago now exactly has been a huge adjustment and also all the pain too..and more happening in my life..well it is time to go back on an antidepressant and even i know that..and i already have been put back on my anxiety med..which is an interaction i know now for my new fibromyalgia med that is coming soon in the mail i see. side effects i am concerned about with the ropinerole that i read about and researched..i used to be a Registered Nurse..are possible hallucinations, and in every article is states to be cautious about daytime drowsiness..but one thing in particular caught my eye..where it stated that u could be totally alert and then fall asleep while talking, eating, or driving. that scared me. so obviously until i see just how this med effects me over say a month i will not be doing any driving at all. also something about impulse control, that being something like gambling, drinking, shopping..etc..but overdoing it. i am not personally bipolar..but this med tends to cause in some impulse control it says. and one thing i read that alot of others said who had been on it is it causes nausea and sometimes vomiting. what i've found helps with meds like that is just to eat something with it. cymbalta said the same thing and i never had an issue with that's problem and i'm hoping for the best with this as well. as with all side effects they do not mean they will happen to all people and i am really praying for once that maybe this will be the med that helps me..cause i have to say i really cannot stand the pain any longer. i do not know what to do if it does not work or i have too many issues with the med that i cannot continue to take it like the others. cymbalta didn't help me with the pain even though it caused me problems too..lyrica did help somewhat for the pain but caused lots of cognitive issues and peripheral swelling of my feet, ankles, and calfs and i was beginning to gain weight.one thing i definitely do not need at all. i've felt pretty isolated here and do not know that many people and i thank god for my therapist and a few friends i've made but they do not live too close and are not available to me too often..except by phone in the evenings..and i've been lucky that the social worker with the va medical center has arranged for me to get rides to the medical center as it is two hours away..though my therapist is only a half hour from me and so far i have been able to get there myself, i've arranged for transport from my neighbor and also my fiance for getting to my therapy while i am getting used to my new fibromyalgia med and also my new antidepressant..just until i can drive once again myself..and i hope that will be soon as i am not someone who likes to feel tied in to the house..even if i want to stay home i do not want to feel like i have to..i'm sure everyone knows exactly what i mean. i know i've been rambling on alot. and i thank everyone for listening to me. anyone with any info on either ropinerole for fibromyalgia or an ssri {not prozac, zoloft, or paxil--i've already been on them in the past} please i would love to hear from you and your experience. thanks.
Carol
23 Dec 2010, 12:13
My health probs. include OA, fibro, osteoporosis, congenital scoliosis and a type of sciatic, plus, myofascial pain (Cathy) mostly exacerbated my emotional stress, celiac disease only officially diagnosed a yr. ago this mos. (Patte) thyroid nodules (Megan). I have an annual ultrasound to make sure my little bundle of nodules - both sides of my thyroid - don't develop into pre-cancerous growths. So far, so good.

I also have dysthymia, a low-grade, yr-round depression, reactive depression (my physical health limitations, including loss of independence, clinical depression, seasonal affective disorder, social anxiety disorder, general anxiety disorder, OCD, probably PTSD... & multiple phobias as well as pyschological problems. I firmly believe that my physical problems would be MUCH easier to deal with, without ALL the about mental/emotional & psychological health issues.
I take Cipralex for depresssion/OCD/anxiety; Rivotril to stop my mind from racing and it makes me only slightly drowsy. I just tried CYMBALTA for pain & depression. After less than six days, had to stop due to chronic side effects, redness/itchiness. Now back on Cipralex. For pain, I have a product for arthritis but it makes me drowsy to the point of wanting to sleep. Because I suffer insomnia (anxiety) I take IMOVANE. The product mentioned above, DOES relax my back muscles but I can't help BUT fall asleep. I take Rivotril, once in the a.m. and once for mid-afternoon, then again at 10 p.m. at night
I know there people a LOT worses of than I am...but that doesn't help me and what I'm going through. I've been in such overwhelming pain in the past, that I wanted to go to sleep and not wake up.
Kerry
16 Dec 2010, 23:51
Ive been using a Natural Product that has been addressing my Pain caused by arthritis and other chronic inflammatory illness's. I'm virtually pain free and have been for about 9 weeks. Email Kerry for more info kerrya@sasktel.net
cathy
15 Dec 2010, 12:22
TO ALL THE FOLKS OUT THERE WHO SUFFERS FROM DEBILITATING LIFE-ROBBING CONDITIONS SUCH AS FIBROMYALGIA/CHRONIC FATIGUE SYNDROME/MYOFASCIAL PAIN SYNDROME: Believe me, there is light at the end of that dark tunnel. Like you, I tried everything in the book but attitude is sooooo important. And don't let nonbelievers get you frustrated or down in the dumps. They don't want to hear and believe what you have to say and are all in denial. Mainly this involves your own family. Live and let live. Plan some time for youself every day (even if only 20 minutes), find a simple hobby you can enjoy and try and find the positive in your life istead of looking for all the negatives. Yes, life is tough, but we will make it. There are always folks out there that are worse off than we are. Count our blessings. Set priorities and limitations, and learn to say the word NO. If someone doesn't like like, too bad. Let them walk a mile in our shoes! Just be thankful for what we have. I personally have found that natural supplements are a million times better than medications, because their side effects often outweight the benefits. Talk to your doctor or do some research. There is alot of good information out there. Good riddens to all!!

My name is "outtasteam"!!
Linda
07 Dec 2010, 12:52
I have had CFS and fibromyalgia for 23 yrs. I have my good days and my bad days, but everyday I have quite a bit of pain and fatigue. THe things that have helped me the most are:
!)Physical therapy w/ and excellent physical therapist. A poor PT can make things worse, esp if you have someone who keeps pushing you to do more, more, more.

2)Pace yourself!!! I may have a relatively good day today, but if I try to do too much, I may go downhill tomorrow.

3)Find a good therapist. Esp if you are dealing w/ a lot of stress or people who don't believe you a sick. It can make a world of difference to know there is someone who can really hear you.

4) Learn how to de-stress. Meditation can be extremely helpful. Yoga helps you get in touch w/ the places in your body that are esp tense and helps you learn to relax your muscles. Very good for gently stretching out tight or stiff muscles.It's really is helpful!

5) I take gabapentin (3 times a day), zanaflex( ususally at nite, it makes me v drowsy), and tramadol w/ tylenol (twice a day). i've tried quite a few other meds, but that seems the best combo for me. I don't tolerate a lot of the antidepressant-type meds v well.

6) A hot bath often seems to help quite a bit, and I've done therapy in a heated pool, too. Really feels good, but I also suffer from vassodepressor syncope (drops of blood pressure) caused by exercise, heat, etc, so I have to be v careful NOT to over-do.

7) I have a bit of energy in the a.m., and I plan my activities accordingly. Cooking, cleaning, appointments, etc.

8) If you are having a bad day, rest!! as much as possible. Do some v gentle stretching to ease pain. I stiffen up when I am resting, and must gently loosen up frequently or the pain becomes worse.

9) Watch what you eat. Red meat esp can raise your inflamation levels and make the pain worse. Eat small, frequent meals, esp fruit and veggies. Omega 3 fatty acids (fish oil) and the spice turmeric are supposed to reduce inflammation levels.You will notice a difference in how you feel over time. WE all want pain relief, now if at all possible. But all we have is time and w/ a very healthy diet and gentle stretching exercise, you should notice a difference.

10)Pray. Find your spirituality, wherever your faith leads you. It does make a difference in how you yourself and the world.
patt
07 Dec 2010, 09:46
I have had RA/OA for over 20 years.about 10 years ago was diagnosed with "fibro".Since all measures to define my specific type of RA/OA have been unsuccessful,my fibro is different too.I have tried gold injections,Cymbalta,Lyrica,pain injections, Methotraxate, motrin,Alvil,Roxicet,and on and on.My Doctor thought that Methadone might help,but I too was so afraid of the stigma attached, I dumped it. I now take Flexaril,Indocin, & MS Contin every day.Still it gets unbearable when I lay down at night.
My Husband thinks that I am ADDICTED,and wants me to try herbal supplements,and go to another doctor.I think this is gonna end up with me in a world of hurt,that he doen't understand .
anybody else in this type of situation.Will herbal remedies work?
Emily
02 Dec 2010, 09:26
I have fibromyalgia and osteoarthritis. I currently reside in the horrible state of arkansas. I take Lyrica, cymbalta, muscle relaxers, high blood pressure meds, high cholesterol meds, calcium supplements, coq10 supplements, and no pain meds. Here in my state the board that controls the doctors and what they may do has decided that you just about have to be on deaths doorstep to have heavy pain meds. I do not take them all the time just the days the pain is so bad all I do is sit and cry. I am not sure where to go for help as I have been to several docs even the rheumatologist and no one will prescribe the lorcets. Anyone have any ideas for me? Thanks and just no that we are not alone. If we unite, then we can get so much more done about our conditions.
Lori kramitz
28 Nov 2010, 13:20
After reading everyone's story I could say it helps to know that others suffer the way I do but there is no help. I've been thru numerous operations and doctors till Im sick of all of them. I've been on every drug mentioned in the articles here and then some. I've had 4 surgeries for disc problems and deteriation of my spine. I have nerve damage in both arms and hands. I've been thru every shot test and surgeries that I can tolerate. After all of this Im on my second attorney after filing for my diability for the 3rd time and nothing ever is correct when it comes to filing for disability. It kills me that we pay into the system for our disability but some person who has never met us or talked with us decides our fate with that system. This should be against the law.
rena
23 Nov 2010, 00:04
For the last two years i have been plaged with migrains and pain through out my body Docs have thought i was just seeking pain meds. August of this year i was told it was FM and knowing that now i wounder if the fact that there are days the pain is so bad that i do need pain meds stronger then over the counter. will the Doctors realise that iam not a junky But a 48 year old woman with real pain and treat me for my condishion
Patte
19 Nov 2010, 10:58
I was finally diagnosed with Fibro in 1992 and it took awhile to find the right Drs. I changed to female doctors and that was helpful as the men said it was all in my head. One thing I found out was that I was gluten intolerant and that the inflammation from eating gluten led to fibromyalgia and that there is also a link between thyroid problems and gluten intolerance (I had early onset Graves and they removed my thyroid) - all these are autoimmune problems. Once I stopped eating gluten a number of problems went away including migraines and stomach problems. The muscle and pain problems haven't. For me, working with my drs on identifying different aspects of illness helped a lot. At one time I went off all meds and started over, and that helped a lot. I now take Effexor in the morning and Klonopin and Tramadol at night along with T4 and T3. Most drs only look at T4 levels and prescribe that. Your body is supposed to synthesize the T3 by mine doesn't. Also, I don't rely on blood test levels for my thyroid med levels but treat syptomatically which means that although the blood test is in the normal range I can still by hypothytroid. I was diagnosed when in early 40s and I'm now 61. Exercise helps and pacing myself.
Nicole
18 Nov 2010, 19:52
I have Rheumatoid Arthritis, Endometrious,Fibromyalgia,high blood pressure,and high cholesterol,and TMJ. So I have a lot of muscle aches and pains, joint pain through out my body,and a family that doesn't understand my limitations and sometimes think I'm lazy. Three years ago I had a pulmonary embolism in both lungs. And a blood clot in my left leg. I almost died. So with all the medical problems I have I take 16 medications just to function. Some people have no idea how much pain I'm in. I don't hide it. But I was diagnosed w/ RA 2 yrs. after I started having feet problems. At that time I was 13. I was told that I'd be in a wheel chair by the time I was 18 yrs.old. I'm now 37, and never have had to use a wheelchair. I just had to prove that doctor wrong. So the reason for these comments are as follows: 1.)never give up, attitude is everything, 2.)find a good doctor, 3.)find medications for U, not one a drug rep is pushing 4.)exercise, just do what you can, 5.)and most importantly pray, God will get you through everything.
Tina K
18 Nov 2010, 10:53
I have been diagnosed with FM for about 10 years. I am a 43 year old with dibilitating migraines, degenerative disk disorder (not bad enough for surgery) 3+ bulging disks, arthritis, depression and anxiety. I feel like I've tried just about everything under the sun, either for the migraines or the FM/Pain. My muscles have always been tight and massages feel good but are short lived relief and expensive. I've tried steroid injections, epidural and trigger point. I was on stadol NS for my migraines but was using it for pain. Then Methadone, and hated telling people I was on Methadone, they make assumptions. The worst thing for me has been the doctors. It's hard to find good ones. I've seen several that when they oculdn't help me after 3-4 visits they didn't want to see me any more. I saw one rheumatolgist that after 5+ years, finally just said "Maybe you need to lose some weight; get some exercise" too little too late! I lost about 35 lbs and kept it off for years; but gained it back and then some thanks to Lyrica/Cymbalta. Doctor seeking is labeled as DRUG seeking. I've had doctors make me cry by treating me as an addict. I've tried Elavil, Paxil, Prozac, Savella, Celebrx, Arthotec, Flexeril, Parafon Forte, Zanaflex, Valium, Soma, Ultram, Ultracet, Fioracet, Vicodin, Methadone, Stadol NS, Topomax and other anti-seizure meds, Provigil, vioxx (actually helped, but taken off the market), and more. I'm currently on Percocet 5's 3x day, ultram 3x a day, flexeril... I'm still in so much pain that I miss 3-6 days of work per month and am late more than that. I learned that I can use the Family Medical Leave act for intermittent leave so my absences don't count against me. I applied for disability, but I'm not optimistic at this point. I can't even do the dishes. 5 minutes after standing at the sink, my back/neck hurts so bad I can barely breathe. I'm always optimistic when someone says "have you tried" but the hurdle of naysayers and nonbelievers is definitely frustrating. I can't imagine what's next.
Phy
17 Nov 2010, 13:16
Wow ladies. Sorry you are suffering so much but it is such a relief to find out I am not alone. It is amazing how many folks have both lupus and fibro. My mom had lupus and although I tested negative, I am sure I have it. It seems like a syndrome. The childhood ptsd, the cholesterol, h bp, osteoarthritis, etc. Depression is getting to me right now. Am a recovering alcoholic also. Thank you so much for puting these notes in here. Bless you all and good luck.
Shosho
16 Nov 2010, 10:28
@IRISHLASS: I love your attitude, I share the same, as well as many of your medical issues. I have had Systemic Lupus, FMS, Hypothyroid, Ulcers, IBS, HTN, Major Depression, 20+ Kidney stones, multiple bowel obstructions, too many surgeries on joints, organs, and nerves to list and YET... I consider myself to be a very BLESSED person! Despite having to take chemo for nearly a year for kidney problems, I gave birth to a healthy (albeit 7 week premature) baby girl 10 years ago, who IS JOY! Despite being divorced once, and widowed twice, I found the LOVE of my life 4 years ago, and we were married in September. Every day is a new adventure, sometimes in the realm of health (and dentistry since Sjogrens made me lose most of my teeth before age 45), and on more pleasant days in the realm of travel, seeing the great creation and meeting new people! I am 100% CONVINCED that ATTITUDE is EVERYTHING. I have pain every day of my life, and sometimes it's too much for me to get dressed, but those are JAMMIE DAYS, and when my daughter was small we made a picnic and ate it in bed watching Blues Clues. Life is what we make of it!!! If we become self absorbed, whiners... life will be miserable. I always consider myself to be healthy, and when I have to see a new dr. and give my medical history, feel somewhat surprised that it looks so bad on paper! I've been disabled from a job that I LOVED (as a PA) , that once was the joy of my life, since 1992 now - but... I've found NEW JOYS and every night when I pray, I recount the blessings of the day!!! There are always more blessings than sorrows if we count them, even if the blessing was that I managed to get out of bed that day despite the pain!
PEOPLE, COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS! We have medicine, we have food, we have shelter, we have family, we have freedom, WE ARE BLESSED!!!!
Love and very gentle hugs (sometimes a hug brings tears to my eyes tho' I love them all the same) to you all!!!!
Shosho
Charlene
10 Nov 2010, 09:45
I have been suffering with chronic pain and migraines for years.I recently saw a reumatologist who diagnosed me with Fibromyalgia and Osteoarthritis.I am unable to take any of the fibro meds because my brother committed suicide and thoughts of suicide are one of the side effects with all of them.I am currently taking an anti infammatory prescibed by my ruematologist and vidoden prescribed by my primary.It helps me tolerate the pain but does not get rid of it.I've tried muscle relaxers but I just can't function on them.The last time I took one was at night and I slept 12 hours and was unable to drive the next day.I use heating pads and hot baths but my muscles are like cement 24 hrs a day.Because I am unable to work as much I can't afford massages or accupunture.Does anyone have any suggestions on how to get my muscles to losen up?They are like rocks all the time.The pain and headaches are unbearable :(
IrishLassUSA
02 Nov 2010, 23:36
Opps, forgot to mention have had osteoarthritis of my back upper left quadrant since 2003, and in Oct, 2010 was told I have now have it in my low spine, L4, L5, and S1. So now my osteoarthritis can join my polyneuropathy and see which will battle for attention from me and body. In the interim, life will continue to thrill me and amaze me, and I am sure never disappointment me - even in the realm of health challenges. So is life!
IrishLassUSA
02 Nov 2010, 23:29
Since 2004 I developed foot pain, had three foot surgeries on my left foot to remove neuromas and damaged nerves but the surgeries were a short-term fix as the agonizing pain in foot keep returning. Since 2003, I have a total of 8 surgeries which in 2009 included nerve and muscle biopsy of the leg (same leg with the foot that had 3 surgeries) no diabetes, no vasculitis found....but I still had pain, referred out to pain management clinic. Then FINALLY referred to a neurologist who conducted EMG and Nerve Condution Studies then diagnosed me as having mononeuritis multiple - a chronic neurological condition which cause polyneuropathy so as of 2010 I live with two hands and feet that dont function properly even though I have had numerous surgeries, take two Lyrica tablets and two Tramadol tablets each day. At 58 years of age, I live with constant and varying levels of pain each day....the mornings are truly the worse...but I do live a full day doing what I can, when I can. I dont take daily naps, I work a few days a week at my jewerly business, enjoy my family, take walks when I can, maintain friendships, and never allow this condition a reason to make me a mental or physical wreck. The condition is only a part of me, and not the whole or total focus of my days or of my life. I have never once felt sorry for myself, needed to take anything for depression or anxiety...as they are not anything I have experienced, I wake up each morning knowing I am blessed, be a good day or a challenging day. I look to see how I can be of help to others, and do what I enjoy within my new limits. Live life fully, what ever that means to each of you. I truly love my life no matter how challenging it can be at times. I look around count my blessings, as their are so many people far worse off than I. Take care all, be gentle with yourself, and enjoy life as it truly does beat the alternative.
Bettelou Snell
02 Nov 2010, 12:30
Everyone is talking about the pain issue, which is certainly understandable.
My pain, IS IN MY head, I take Paxil & Lerica 1 50ml in afternoon. Pail,seritonin
reuptake, & Lerica is the the norephnefron
together block the pain recepters.So these med.come together to block Pain IN OUR HEADs
The Lerica I ads. I hate because they give
People the idea that pain alone if FMS Pts
only problem.
What about LBS,chronic fatque,Fibro-fog,
loss of concentration. Sleep problems. I was a Health care Proffessional.Thank you.
eiaea
02 Nov 2010, 10:26
Have had FM since 1993. In all that time I have been on elavil,xanax,fiorcet, flexeril,baclofen, soma, depakote, darvocet, vicodin, percocet, effexor, rx motrin, tramadol, trazodone, ambien, ambien cr, lunesta, remeron, valium, clonazepam, oxycontin, and morphine. I'm sure there were others, just can't remember them all. Right now I am taking 60 mg of morphine 3x a day, clonazepam 2x a day, baclofen 4x, effexor 3 tabs in a.m., and ambien at night. I currently am dx'd with fm, osteoarthritis in knees, bursitis in hips, depression and anxiety. Had many drs say it's all in my head, had a horrible pain dr that treated me like an addict and counted my pills at every visit. My PCP doesn't listen. The rheumy I went to says he can't do anything for me. The ortho guys give me cortisone shots in hips and synvisc in the knees, but I am coming close to the limit on those. They did approve a handicapped tag for my car. My new pain dr is amazing and works very well with me. Have had to quit last 3 jobs due to stress and pain, was able to get unemployment because drs said the jobs caused me to be worse. Now unemployment is all gone. Have been trying to get SS Disability and turned down twice. Applied for an administrative law judge hearing. How am I supposed to drive or work on all those meds? And if I don't take them, the pain gets worse, and then take the meds and they don't work as well because the pain got out of control. I am 50 yrs old and am living in my mom's basement. Without her and my retirement, I'd be under a bridge. Thanks for letting me vent. I'll be back another time.
ANN MIZE
29 Oct 2010, 23:18
I have been diagnoised FM,Lupus, Restless Leggs,2 operation on neck for herniate disc,reflex,Neuront in my feet,divicites. I am just in a mess. I take soo much medicine that I wish I could just through it all away but no way. I take 3 BP,(2)plaquenil, Cholesteral medicine,Cymbalta,fexril,ultam,ultcet,reflux med,Elvail,baby apsrin,tricor,colondine and I have to be careful because I am so allergic to so much medicine so I am scare everytime the put me to sleep.
My doctor told me the first time he told me that I had Fm. to keep a postive mind and do not play for symathic and that has been the best med that I can take.
Patricia
29 Oct 2010, 22:18
Hello, I was surfing the web looking for recomendations to relieve my pain and came across all of you. I just finished reading most of your stories and I can say I know how you all are suffering. I have systemic lupus for 30 years, no thyroid,cardiomyopothy, sleep apnea, fibermyalgia, type 2 diabetes, and god only knows what else. I lost my husband of 40 years this past May. We lived in VA and I moved back to NJ to be nearer my children and family. Through all of this it seems my pain is getting worse and worse. I just found new Dr"s here in NJ. and they all seem to be interested in my medical problems. I have to say I haven't had more than two hours sleep a night in the past few years, boy am I exhausted. My new DR. took me off of Ambien and gave my Nortriptaline at night. He also put me on Lyrica and Cymbalta. The past few nights I have slept about 3-4 hours, but then I wake up. Sometimes I wish I would fall asleep and never wake up, but the pain won't allow that to happen. I wonder why we were chosen to live our lives with this pain. What can we do????
Karen K. Babineaux
19 Oct 2010, 15:14
Oh I almost forgot I also have barrets to boot!
Karen K. Babineaux
19 Oct 2010, 15:09
Hello I have Fibromialgia, Systemic Lupus, COPD, Asthma, IBS ,Hearing loss, High blood pressure, and Thyroid problems. I have gained weight from the steirods making me so hungry! And I have the pill face to boot! I do watch my eating habbits as much as possible but nothing helps me loose weight. I am in cronic pain in every joint and mussel in my body at all times and cannot sleep well at night and its not my bed! I have recently changed my meds for the fibromialgia from Lirica to another and it has helped me with my sleep and constant pain, but I still have some. The lirica made it alot worse and made me feel like I was going to die all of the time so I stopped taking it and called my doctor. I have been to 6 different Rheumatologists trying to get things livable. I suffered for 47 years one doctor even giving me sugar pills until I was told to get off all pain meds for 4 weeks and then re-take the lupus tests "That's when they finally found I had Systemic Lupus! because even asprin will mask the lupus tests and they will find nothing wrong! I spent thousands of dollars to find this out and 47 years of living with horrible cronic pain and sleeplessness. Now at 53 years old widdowed and raised 2 sons alone now a emtpy nester and a I can sleep for almost 8 hours and the pain is livable.
Connie Schneider
19 Oct 2010, 11:47
I am 67 years old. I have had Fibro since I was 40 something, major depressive disorder since I was 16, osteo arthritis (most everywhere), Asthma and COPD, low throid, 60% hearing loss in both ears, degenerative disks in c2,3,4,L3,L4,L5, spinal stenosis, arthritis in the facet joints in the lower spine and experience lots of pain, carpule tunnel in both hands, left thumb joint needs replacing (had the right thumb joint replaced 10 yrs ago and it's wearing out). I think that's all. I take lots of meds, but don't mind, because they keep me sane and reduces the pain.
Anyway, this is what I have, not who I am. I'm a mother, grandmother, friend. I play in my garden when able, go to church, join in group activities, work out at Curves, stretch to maintain flexibility and balance. Also, do crafts. FB is great to keep tabs on my 5 grandchildren (all teens). Husbands are usually not sympathic - mostly because they want all the attention. Tell your husbands to 'get over yourself'. Just keep doing what you ladies are doing. Finding a great Dr. isn't easy, but keep trying. Love to all, God Bless.
susan walker
15 Oct 2010, 20:47
I have been suffering with fibrmaylagia for 7 years,very frustrating because I cannot tolerate any anti depressent meds.Driving my husband crazy because he can not help me. Spent a fortune running around to Doctors,any one try a food elimination diet or Sam-E or 5htp.I do notice more pain after alot of gluten,salt or sugar.I feel for anyone that is suffering like this especially with children.I hope they can come up with a cure for this.
Janetta Hitt
08 Oct 2010, 12:20
I also spent years with chronic pain before anyone would believe me. I did warm water exercise, and loved it. I have had both knees replaced and gall bladder removed. I have been told by my neurologist that I need carpal tunnel surgery. It would only stop the nerve pain from getting worse, and it is my predominate hand, and I had planned to do crafts and stitchery after my retirement. No such luck. I also have CF and it is worse after seeing a doctor. There is Fibro Fog and short term memory problems. Now doctors are beginning to treat these things. They still act like they are doing you a big favor and you are just an old lady wanting attention. I have had these problems for about 20 years, but was diagnosed by a Rheumatologist in 2003. I was a licensed Child Day Care Provider for 32 years prior, and I hated to give up my children, but couldn't put them at risk. I also have a long list of meds I take, and not sure they work, but was afraid to take Zymbalta, because an online friend began to take it, and I lost him. Many of the doctors are moving out of our town, so I spend a lot of time looking for a caring doc. I am also diabetic, have low thyroid, High BP and Chloresterol, as well as Childhood PTSD Severe. I try to say, "It will be better tomorrow", or "I will take it one day at a time". Thanks for letting other people know I have some of the same things they do, and hear what they have tried. God Bless Us all, and Music helps too.
Laura
28 Sep 2010, 16:02
After looking at all of you post, I realize I am just beginning to feel the pain from FM. I was diagnosed a few months ago, butsuffered for seveal years. Many of you are older than me. I am 34 and feel like 70 at times. I also have a thyroid problem. I am on 9 different medicines icluding Mobic, Celexa, Flexeril, and amitriptyline to name the main ones. (not including ones for my digestive and thyroid. Many of your stories, I could relate too. The one that got to me the most was Tasha's story. It sounded like my story exactly. My husband just says that I am hypercondriac and its all in my head. I am going to get him to sit down and read this so that he will understand that it is hard for me and tat it is not in my head. I think the hardest part is taking care of my 4 year old. He doesn't take a nap during the day and although I am so tired during the day I have to stay up, then my husband complains that i want to go to bed early because i am so tired. What is a girl to do. This is bad, but I will be glad when he gets in school so I can take a nap if needed. God Bless you all.
lynn
21 Sep 2010, 15:28
i have been having such a pity party thinking it has to just be me--i have lupus since 89--fm 91--to many meds to list--my shoulder has had 4 mri in the last two years--they cannot figure out what is causing it--have to be careful with any meds because kidneys are shot--lyrcia helped but it made me feel drunk all the time--doc said i was crazey--some nites i want it to all end but i think of my hubby &i will not do that to him--doc does not want me to take anything stronger than darvon& norco says in a year we would have to keep increasing to stronger meds--i wonder what they would do in our shoes--i am 45 and want my life back!!!i started crying when i read these commets--everyone is in my prayers--thanks for letting me vent!!!!!!!!
BB
19 Sep 2010, 21:42
Have had fibro since 2003. Wasn'tsure what was going on, and it took forever for the docs to diagnose me. To make matters even worse, I have 7 (seven) different types of headaches going, degenerative disk disease, arthritis in the neck, back and hands. I am also dealing with depression, bi-polar disorder, high bp, high cholestrol, sleep apnea, acid reflux, irritable bowel, some other gasto problem...can't even remember, there's so much going on! I haven't had a good nights sleep 12 years, I don't know what it feels like to have anywhere near 8 hours of sleep. I eventually had to leave work due to the pain and incapacitation. I have been in non-stop pain since 2003. I'm really amazed at how we all try to keep going in spite of what's happening with our bodies. I'm also embarrased to say that I was relieved when I got to this site and read all of the comments, that all of this was not in my head (as I'm sure many of you have been told) and I was not alone in my battle.
Tasha
18 Sep 2010, 20:36
ive been suffering with theese pains for the past 3 yrs and thought i was going mad, earlier in the year i was diagnosed with fibromyalgia and didnt know what to think, i take 70mgs of anatriptolene and i guess it takes the edge off the pain as if i forget to take it one night i suffer for days after. i try hard not to moan about my pain as i know people think its in my head i also try very hard to carry on with life as before but its impossible. i have constant pain mainly in my hips, wrists,feet and fingers and my arms go numb to my elbows,i have recently started to drop things and seem to have no control over my grip,i have 2 jobs and 3 kids and a house to run and at times its impossible and just dont know what to think but i always try to fight through it.ialso have a thyroid problem and many symtoms are the same so for 2 yrs i just put it down to my thyroid. i find it very difficult to sleep as my hips r so painfull to touch and so are my wrists and fingers i also find when i am tired the pain is so much worse and at times i cant walk or get up im so glad to have found this site and know that im not going crazy, ive been referred to a rhumatologist so i await what he will say
Bob
09 Sep 2010, 16:45
Tammy,
Please keep us up to date. I am on medication due to an accident in January of 2005. I presently take hydrocodone and lyrica along with cholesterol and BP meds. I was prescribed lyrica due to nerve damage.
I also have Lyme's Disease which I believe flares up at times. I may also have fibro. I haven't been officially diagnosed with it but have the symptoms.
My pain management doctor wants me to join a gym in the fall. For now she is happy that I am doing yard work. I have to join a gym that has a pool and a stationary bike as lifting weights would have to be done lightly.
Hope you are doing better!
Bob
Cindy
08 Sep 2010, 15:12
I was finally diagnosed with fibromyalgia in 2005. I also have a bulging disk, hypertention, sleep apnea, carpal tunnel and had my thyroid removed last year because of cancer. I am now cancer free but still have daily pain but my combination of medicines help me live a productive life. I hope this might help someone else.

*Cymbalta 60 mg x 1 (morning) for pain
*Etodolac 600 mg ER x 2(in morning)for pain
*Lyrica 75 mg (1 morning & night)for pain
*Trazodone 100 mg (bedtime)trouble sleeping

Cathy Jean
08 Sep 2010, 02:51
i have had fibro. for years and was just just dianosed about two years ago..taking many meds, the only ones that even touches a bit to help is opana,40mg,4@a time every 8 hours. lyria did nothing but make me feel drunk light headed and dizziness,same with savella 100 mg. twice a day. dizzy and blackouts lie a drunk who was bombed woud feel. i sometimes think-i'll just get worse and worse until i can't functionmanymore.
Phyllis
17 Aug 2010, 22:54
Reading all your accounts makes me realize how good I really have it. Even so, it ain't easy.

It was five years ago I finally admitted to myself I was hurting even worse--every day--than I had been with my inflamed gall bladder. To make matters worse, the pain spiked each day at about 1:00, just as my worst class came in--I was teaching hormone-crazed 8th graders. I hung in for four more years and finally had to quit. And that hurts.

After being diagnosed and prescribed for, I started falling asleep every time I sat down, even if that was behind the wheel of a car. Scary stuff. And my brain had disappeared. I couldn't think straight or remember the name of anything. Not good for a teacher. I finally went back to my neurologist, who took me off almost everything but Lyrica, upping the dose to eight a day. I stayed awake now, but the mental confusion was even worse. I had to experiment until I found I could take two a day and still think. It seems like it's not doing any good, but if I forget to take it, I suddenly discover it was doing loads of good!

Add in ulcerative colitis and arthritis to the witches' brew, and you can see what a jolly good time I'm having. Still, I can manage to do most of what I want, and I praise God for that.

Lauren
17 Aug 2010, 10:14
I was just diagnosed with fibro the beginning of this year. I took a list of symptoms to my doctor and she checked the pressure points and diagonsed the fibro. I also suffer from depression and take Cymbalta which also helps with the fibro. I have patella disease in my knees along with arthritis, high blood pressure and cholesterol,anxiety,GERD, Rotator cuff problems both shoulders, Degenerative disc disease, bulging disc and arthritis everywhere.I am currently taking Ultram and Celebrex along with several other drugs. I tried going with out the celebrex on the advice of my rheumatologist, however I didn't even last the day. I don't like being on all these drugs, but what choice do I have? My rhematologist doesn't feel she can do anything more for me so has referred me back to my pcp.
My pcp is wonderful and has know me for years. She really listens to my problems. I have had 8 surgeries in 4 years. I had carpal tunnel surgery though the pain was in my thumbs. I really had CMJ joint arthritis but my first doctor wouldn't operate saying I was too young. (I was 50). Went to second dr and he wouldn't even touch my thumb base because it was so swollen saying I needed the surgery right away. So I had it done on both thumbs 1 year apart. (1 year healing time) I have tendonitis running from the base of my thumbs up the inside of my arm and he gives me a cortisone shot each year in both. I have arthritis in my wrists so when I use my cane I hurt my wrists from the pressure I use on the cane. I got stuck in a movie theater the other day. Had to do what I call my Dad's rock and roll to get out of the seat. And public bathrooms are a disaster. Because of my knees I can't get up. My husband found a tolilevator which goes under your toliet and raises it 5". We had been looking for handicap toliets but they weren't high enough. A friend on FB from Canada takes shark cartilidge because she can't afford Celebrex. I will start taking it this week. I also take Vitamins D, B-12, C, Calcium and fish oil pills.
My hands are very weak along with my wrists, I can't even lift a gallon of milk. I am no longer the person I once was and I hate it, but am dealing with it. My husband is wonderful about doing everything around the house. I do do some things, but usually suffer after. I've found I can only go to one store, if I do more, I'm really done. My youngest son (23) doesn't get it. I can't open those stupid bottles of medicine plus I can't read the directions even with my glases on. And I'm afraid because of the fibro fog I am doing things and forgetting that I've done them. I am currently looking for cleaning products I bought and can't find. LOL, what to do? Have to laugh or I'll cry.
Angel Wilson
03 Aug 2010, 19:37
Well I have FM & get migraine headaches & have a thyroid condition, besides having a kidney that is disappearing..lol. I had been on Lyrica for almost a year and it din't help much. They doctors have put me on Neurontin, I take it with Flexaril & Hydro's to help with pain. I take a migraine medication also. I am happy since the doctors started listening to me..cause there for awhile they didn't. I also suffer from Deteriorating disc disease or (DDD)
of my T-10 & T-11 vertebrae. I started having problems when I was young. I am hoping with the new medications and how I take them will make my life a lil bit more like it used to be, I was always a active person. But in the past 2 years it has gotten much worse.
sabra
21 Jul 2010, 11:42
BE CAREFUL WITH TOPAMAX! I took it for 5yrs and have short-term memory loss.

I too have FM and migraines. I am a RN (45yrs) and let me tell you...even when you have a lot of contacts within the medical field, it is hard not to feel like a drug seeker.
As I read all of your comments, I feel as though you know how I feel with my daily chronic pain....Thank you!!
I wish I could find a doc (in Dallas) willing to treat me with something bedside zoloft! I do take Mobic and tramadol for mild to mod. pain..with some relief but, I think if the severe pain was under control... and you only took pain meds when you really needed it...depression would not be so much an issue?? Pain is depressing?? I, like so many people,I just drag myself out of bed in the morning and put a fake smile on my face, and go to work. I am a nurse and love taking care of other people...maybe one day someone will take the time to take care of all of us with FM :)
I know if I did'nt believe in God above I could never have gotten this far!!!
Ej
20 Jul 2010, 21:39
I've had FMS/CFS for 23 years. 99.5% of doctors didn't believe it was a medical condition, but rather a mental one. There have been times it calmed down, and other times I thought I was surely dying of something....and many times I wished I would. I worked until 5 years ago, putting everything I had left in me into my job, until spinal stenosis totally took me down. I had surgery, but have not been able to work since. Only one doctor in half of Georgia finally diagnoised my condition around 1993. He started me on small doses of prozac, melatonin, and Rx grade motrin. After several years of no one believing anything was wrong with me, that was a good start. I also have a low metabolism, so I'm one of those people who gain weight sleeping (joke), but serious have gained about 100 lbs in those 23 years. I now take soma 3x day/trammadol 2-2x day / hydro at night/ ambien / arthrotec 2x / and a multitude of vitamins, heating pads, and a stationery bike. My best advice to you younger folks is this; regardless of how badly you hurt exercise is so important. The lack of exercise is the main reason so many of us are also struggling with arthritis and bone disease. It's hard to do when you hurt so badly, but once you lose that core muscle it's next to impossible to get it back. I feel pretty much useless most of the time. Cooking every other day and keeping my kitchen clean is about all I can get done. The meds don't seem to help, but do without them and you can sure tell a big difference. Insurance doesn't cover any name brand meds, so I suppose I am handling all the meds I will be able to try anyway. The arthrotec alone is around $300 mo. So, please do the exercises, water aerobics also if possible. It seems impossible at the time, but will help you so much in the long run with muscle, bone, and additional pain from other problems. God be with you.
Tammy MacDonald
08 Jul 2010, 10:11
Hi, I'm 41 and been DX with Fibro/CFS/IBS/ 7 years ago. I suffer with wide spread pain, migrains,and much much more, I have been on most of the medications that have been listed hear but like most of you a good thing with fibro dosn't last!

I have a great supportive DR who I'snt shy to try new drugs or to send me to new specalist, getting to the reasion of my post.

This knew Dr is trying very new way of treating FIBRO this is what he has in store for me.

First thing first, presently my medication is as follow:

For my migrains: topiramate ( anti sezier)200x2
naprox 500x2
cymbalta 60x2
amitriptyline 150mg
oxy when needed

On my first visit he was shocked to see how much meds i was on and was concerned about my CFS. When I had my sleep study done it showed that i do not get my stage 4 sleep, it showed i had over 200 awakinings, that is my healing sleep and with out that how can i feel good, so that day he added cesamet 0.5mg small dose but lowed my amitrip 25mg so far so good.

Then he ordered ultersoud on all my joints, he said that do to being in pain for so many years and left untreated, my shoulders have rounded and my head has moved forward it's like 3in off. (Something like that)
He is going to start Botox Injections first on my forehead to control my Migrains
and hopefully get me off the topiramate. Then Injections in the shoulders to help pull them back to give the joints a rest and hopefully reduce the pain in the neck and shoulder area, these Injections last about 3 months, his goal is to Botox all the joints so we can reduce my medication. He also talked about a procedure called Platelet-rich plasma therapy for my lower back and kidney pain. You can Google this, there is too much info for me to write about, it sounds promising, but like everything ealse i try not to get my hops up too high, but at this stage of the game I'm willing to try anything. He also has me seeing a Naturopathic and the chiropractor, he has also did a complete blood work up, so time will tell, I go on Monday to see the Naturopathic and the chiro and do the blood work. Once that is done, those assesments will be forward to Dr Ko and we start treatment, I'll update my progress if anybody is interested.

Maybe my treatment can provide help, even if it is only one person, to know I can prov
ide some pain reduction would be amazing!

Tammy
Leanne Williams
15 Jun 2010, 13:57
I've some college education; & I come from a family of nurses & M.D.s. Therefore, I can explain to an M.D. what I'm feeling in terms they can understand. I'm in agreement with Dr. Judy Goldstein - you must become educated and proactive in your healthcare. If you have an M.D. that does not respect your proactive approach, then you need another M.D. I also agree that one should know the potential side effects of every medication they are taking. The Physicians Desk Reference (used by M.D.s themselves) will give every potential side effect. However, please keep in mind that one medication may work for one but not another. I notice that the vast majority of individuals who have contributed to this site are women; however, gentlemen do get Fibromyalia but not as many. What I am attempting to do is find a common denominator amongst us that could help M.D.s treat us. I have a question for each of you. Has any one of you sustained direct (i.e. an assault) or indirect (i.e. an auto accident) physical trauma in their lives? I would really like to hear from you @ banditchampblue@yahoo.com.
Yolanda
15 Jun 2010, 11:19
I have been on all does drugs as well. Nothing works.

The doctors say I do not FM. I was told a pinch never or they just don’t know.

Then I went to Walter Reed Hospital in Washington DC. They did an MRI – CT SCAN – XRAYS. They said that the fluid level in my upper back to my neck has diminished and my Vertebrates are smashing each other and the nerves are touching each other.
That is the reason for my pain, and that surgery would take my pain away.
They even explain how the surgery would be done; they would be going thru the front of my neck.

First they were going to do surgery, then they change there minds on one woman’s words, she is not even a doctor She works for the Neurology Surgeon.

This nurse. Sat down and showed me the pictures of the damage in my back that was in July it took 4 months and several emails and phone calls later, she called and said that they were not doing surgery, and that she never told me they would.

I requested a change of hospital hoping that, the doctors there would do the surgery and fix me. I would be happy if only 20 to 30% of my pain went away.

They sent me to Bethesda Naval in Maryland. The doctor there sent me to therapy and
Pain Management, they gave me 8 trigger shots of Novocain in my back and arm that didn’t work, so they tried acupuncture they put 5 needles in each of my ear , they were beautiful to look at and painful to lay on or answer the phone. The little needle fell out in a week and I am still in pain.

Oh I was also given Lyrica, people run from this drug I gain 35 from 2/15/10 to 4/18/10
It put the weight on me so fast it didn't make any sense. It helped a little not much.

I hurt so bad that all I can do is go to work and go home and take pain pills to easy the.
The President of my company has walk by my desk and I would be asleep because, I would take a Gabapentin, this is the latest of pain meds I am on.

I am always in so much pain I have to sit up in my bed to roll over, I sleep with 8 pillows 3 to elevate my head and the others to prop up my arms, because I am in so much pain my arms hurt so bad that I can not even pull the cover over my self because my arms get so weak.

I have no life; I can’t go any where for long because of the pain I am in all the time.
Sometimes I think death is easer, but I have a family and would not do that to them.
So I struggle everyday to get up and keep going.

,
Cinda Crawford
03 Jun 2010, 17:43
Taking drugs long term will NOT get you very far with Fibromyalgia. There are no prescription drug cures. Lifestyle change helps some people. Working to improve your overall health will help, too, because there's a good chance you may level off and won't get any sicker. The biggest and most dramatic help that I found was with a different type of healing & it worked very fast for me! You're welcomed to read the whole story and listen to a doctor interviewing me about my healing experience at
http://www.getwellhealth.com/cindas-interview/. Sending you best wishes for your improving health, Cinda Crawford
Alison Summers
18 May 2010, 17:50
I have recently been diagnosed with FM but now knowing how long I have truly suffered from this, it's been over 6-7 years. I've been to physical therapy for bursitis, pain between the hip and pelvic bone, also have carpel tunnel, back issues, plantars fascitus for over a year, a lump in the arch of my foot with a bone spur in my heel, and neck issues.

About a year ago (before being diagnosed), I started doing bioidentical hormones and it helped me over the past year. I do the Sottopelle pellets (all natural plant based) Testosterone with a little Estrogen) where they are injected it in the hip so the hormones are absorbed naturally as your body needs them. I started out where I had to go every 3 months, the doctor tries to gradually spread it out to 4 months and then 6 months. I do feel this has helped a lot. I once did have to cancel an appointment and wait until a month later and that's when I felt the FM really kick in and hit me hard. As long as I don't go to long and let my body tell me it's time for more testosterone, I am feeling ok - still have pain but not the horrible joint pains and fatique I experienced the past 2 months. I've noticed that after getting my hormones inserted, it took me about 3-4 weeks before it started to kick in.

I'm still new to researching FM, but I do think this has helped me a lot. It is worth the research. The main office is in AZ I believe, but there are many doctors around the US that now administer it. My doctor is out of north Dallas but comes to Temple, TX to work with all the Austin crowd.

http://www.sottopelletherapy.com/hrtTestimonials.html

PS - anyone you know going through menopause, they should really look in to this as well. Seen many lives changed with this.

Bless us all - good luck.
Cynthia
04 May 2010, 22:23
After reading about all the medications that everyone takes for fibromyalgia, it occurred to me that I have been on all of them at one time or another, except for lyrica. It also occurred to me that the only ones getting any good out of fibro is the drug companies. I don't believe that any of the drugs I took helped me very much, but it was better than doing nothing. The medical community doesn't seem to know what causes fibromyalgia. Not sure I believe this either. I started going to a chiropractor about 6 months ago and I feel better than I have in years. I feel fibromyalgia is caused by compressed nerves in your spine. Being adjusted by a chiropractor is the only thing that has truly helped me feel better. I have suffered for 20 years with fibromyalgia pain along with arthritis, chronic fatigue and degenerative disc disease along with sleep disorders. Medical doctors only offer drugs or surgery. Why couldn't one of my many doctors suggested that I try a chiropractor for some relief? If your brain controls everything that goes on in your body, and your spinal cord is the message system between your brain and your body, it only makes sense that if your spine is out of alignment, you will have pain. If your nerves are compressed, you will have widespread pain. Try to find a good chiropractor, it is the only thing that has helped with my pain. I also feel good about getting off many of the medications, which are truly toxins in your body.......
Louise
20 Apr 2010, 09:33
I have tried Lyrica and got really bad side effects. I now take 60mg Cymbalta and Savella in the morning and 30mg Cymbalta and Savella in the evening. This seems to be working and my doctor is suprised that I could take both. He called the manufacturer and they said it would be safe to take both and I also asked my pharmacist and he said to watch my blood pressure with the savella, it tends to raise it a little, but if I get relief I can live with that. I also take Voltarin for my arhtritis and percocet when I really need it.
judy l
23 Feb 2010, 16:43
I've had FM for 19 years. I've had aches and pains here and there for as long as I can remember. I have just about every symptom that goes with FM & CFS. When I would complain to my family, most would roll their eyes and call me a hypochondriac. My pain is real, and I know now I'm not crazy. Many times my house doesn't get cleaned, the laundry goes one more day, and frozen dinners will have to do because of the exhaustion I feel all of the time. I've learned when I can't get to sleep the tv is my best friend. I have a different husband now than before and he understands. And I don't complain to family anymore, I tell them I feel great. But anyone with FM knows it's just an act. So with the grace of God and new friends like you, we will all make it. Thanks for listening and God Bless.
Jaye
19 Feb 2010, 06:50
I've been diagnoised with Fibromyalgia, Epstein-Barr, Cytomegolovirus, Lyme Disease, Chronic Fatigue and needless to say I take a large amount of drugs. I have taken Cymbalta for almost 3 years now. I also take Ambien CR, Valtrex, Valcyte when my insurance company will approve it, doxycyline, darvocet and a large amount of suppliments. I wish there was something that relieved the pain continually but am greatful for the relief I do get. Its just the sleep I wish I could get under control. I just keep trying.
Marylee Bourke
17 Feb 2010, 16:36
Very interesting ...reading all these posts since many
of the letters could have been written by me. I was not diagnosed with FM until after being rearended when I was 72. I realized, I had this since 1954...or earlier..only on one ever diagnosed it then.
Now I have a reoccurance of other symptons that are putting me aat risk for a heart attack. I am going on 77 and will have more cardiac tests on Mar. 1. I will not be able to do the regular stress test. I have been depressed off and on all my life and hid it. I also wished to die many times..now I do not wish to. I fear that I may have created a self-fullfilling phropecy.ugh Mose everyone seems to be aware and are taking reasonible care of themselves. To me that is the key..I have ignored all health challenges for the most part.
..Blessings to all...namaste mlb
Susan
15 Jan 2010, 20:14
reply to Megan Lindberg:
lol-
I have to pull teeth to get Vicodin from my doc in N.C. He thinks I'm going to sell it I suppose..... NOT- I need it myself and only use it when pain is soooo bad. Have Ortho Arthritis in knees, toes and fingers along with Fibromyalgia. Also have it in neck and lower spine. Take Cymbalta 120 a day, Nexium, Wellbuterin as well as Ativan as needed. Recently went off both sleep meds and have since lost over 30 lbs. and have to accept 2-3 days of no sleep until I do sleep. I'm okay with that as am not working. Was given disability 2 years ago for Fibromyalgia and PTSD. Am getting Psycotherapy once a week and when I can afford it Chiropractic care once a week. Those 2 help in their own way. I seek out shows on the comedy channel as often as I can. Have to laugh and exercise when I hurt but know it's all for the best. Am looking forward to moving back to my state where I can get warm water therapy for my knees when they are replaced.
tonie
05 Jan 2010, 13:22
I have been diagnosed with FMS and RA for over 7 years now, but have probably had it for 20. I was told it was bursitis, tendonitis, etc. But as I have aged, naturally it has gotten worse. I am currently on 120 mg Cymbalta daily and Klonipin for sleep. I take a lot of other things for the Ra, but I take lots of good suppliments to help my body. I have a chemical free home, and try to eat good chemical free foods. I am a member of a great blog site where we share lots of good info and have a shoulder to hurt on when we need. I highly recommend that if not this one (http://www.everydayhealth.com/blog/life-with-chronic-pain/) then find one you can relate to.
patricia
05 Jan 2010, 12:34
I had whip lash in 08. They say that was what caused my fibro.??? I was diagnosed bi-polar in 05 with boarderline personality disorder. I am also an alcoholic with polymyalgia. I have bone spurs, OA, degenerative disk and osteoperosis. I suffer from P.T.S.S. That's stress not shock syndrome. I have always had a sarcadian sleep disorder and a bunch of other stuff including memory problems. Guess how old I am. Fourty-seven. Drugs; 11. Nothing seems to help. I want hydrocodone. My doctor won't prescribe it for me. No narcs because of my past drug problems20 years ago! So I suffer. I am about to go doc shoppin'. Don't know what else to do.
Peggy Gelder
28 Dec 2009, 08:33
Hi everybody! I have had Fibro for at least 10 years and tried eveything that there is to try. I am currently on 10/325 Vicodin 3 times a day and Flexiril at bed time. I am so taking water aerobics and I see a Chirpractor once a week. I am happy to say that this has made living managable. I would like to take a supplement for my joints, my mother takes these and swears by them. Unfortunatly hese are not covered by medicade. Is there a supplement that is? I would be grateful to find out that there is!
Pam
20 Dec 2009, 14:36
This is for Linda Hilton who asked about the Fibromyalgia and Fatigue Centers. I joined the Patientslikeme.com site - there are several posts regarding the centers. Most of what I recall is people who paid close to $10,000 for various blood work and supplements; none of it covered by insurance and their symptoms never went away.
Dr. Judy Goldstein
10 Dec 2009, 11:50
Thank you, Megan, for the helpful information on books by Drs. Cousin and Starlanyl and Teitelbaum. I have suffered with FM for over 4 years. The biggest problem (besides the pain, of course) has been not to be taken seriously by doctors.
I am not a medical doctor. I have a doctorate in educational leadership, which gave me the opportunity to learn how to research. I have researched FM and drugs and supplements. A good web site to visit is lifebeyondpain.com, which will recommend supplements that help.
I took Cymbalta for over 2 years before I stopped. There are many severe side effects with Cymbalta: mood or behavior changes, anxiety, panic attacks, trouble sleeping, or feeling impulsive, irritable, agitated, hostile, aggressive, restless, hyperactive (mentally or physically), more depressed, or having thoughts about suicide or hurting yourself. There are also drugs that should not be taken with Cymbalta that the FDA does not list on their web site (http://www.drugs.com/cymbalta.html)lists them.

I strongly recommend that each of you use the reliable web site drugs.com to research the side effects of each drug being taken. I also recommend that you make a 1-page medical history (on the computer). If you do not have access to a computer, ask a friend or your son or daughter to do it for you. At the top, type in your personal info and medical insurance. List your surgeries, major illnesses, etc., and the date. At the bottom, list the drugs and supplements you take, their amount and how often taken.

Remember your doctors work for you. You may have to search for one who helps you. You may have to use doctors in different specialties, which I do. That is why your medical history is so important. Your doctors will be impressed by it and will take you more seriously.

May God bless you and guide you.

Judy

John De Armond
02 Dec 2009, 21:34
I've suffered with Fibro 23 years now, back when it was called Fibrocytis, been thru so many different meds and combinations of drugs I've lost track. Plus couple the Fibro with DSD, or Degenerative Spinal Disease, its been to put it mildly, been hell to manage. Right now I'm on Meloxicam an NSAID, Ultram a Pain med, Flexiril a muscle relaxant, Xoloft an antianxiety drug, and extra strength tylenol. This combination doesn't make it stop, but makes it bareable and I manage to still work and get out and enjoy riding my Harley on most days.
Laurie C
01 Dec 2009, 12:03
I have had fibro for 10 years now. I was on heavy meds for about 7 years then after a bad breakup with an ex I was able to go off everything but my Zanaflex for 2 years. I found I had more stress than I knew and that aggravated the fibro. The move from St Louis to Tucson helped too. But in the last year the combination of plantar faciitis and nerve impingement in my neck has cause my fibro to rear it's ugly head and I am now back on the meds. I recently started Savella and have had very good luck with it. There is a double bonus too. This drug also helps depression. It is actually an antidepressant used in Europe and a side affect is decreased appetite. I have lost 15 pounds in the last month due to the combination of the Savella and my Oxycontin. I eat less and can exercise now. Lets hope this continues! Have a great day all!
Renee
18 Nov 2009, 10:57
I love reading all the comments and hints from all of you.....makes me feel like I am not "alone" with Fibro. I have just gone on disability from teaching....which was my passion, and created SO much heartache for me. AND, I was very good at my job.
I have had FM since 1997, so have found what works well for me. I admit I do very little exercise, as I am active during the day doing chores (in limited stages), watch my grandson, walk in the mall or stores, or work in the garden. Sounds like things a lot of you can't do....well, me either....but I say "I have Fibro, but it DOESN'T have me"....it's my only option. A positive outlook far outweighs the bad I face every single day....and I HURT A LOT!

My med list includes tramadol 2x a day, Celebrex 200mg. once a day, cyclobenzaprine, Clonazapam, Lunesta and Nexium...all once a day. In addition, I take calcium, magnesium, zinc, vitamins A,B,C, and D, fish oil, Lidoderm patches (applied to the skin for 12 hour periods), and HEAT! Do not use cold packs....they are not the right routine for fibro patients.

My insurance gives me 60 visits per year for physical therapy. I use them Jan-Mar and Oct-Dec as those are the cold months in Ohio.
I found a place that really works with me one on one, and actually does massage where I need it, gives ultrasound, and the most wonderful part...an aquabed...nothing is more wonderfully relaxing than laying on a bed of warm water while the roller balls move up and down underneath the bedding to massage the body. See if you can find a place that has these treatments....they are priceless and have saved me!

I pray all of you out there will find what helps you the most. It has taken me a long time to "get there"....my doctor is a leading specialist who actually HAS Fibro, so he understands what I tell him. He has written more than 10 books.....his name is Dr. Mark Pellegrino. I also read a book called "Women living with Fibromyalgia", don't know the author....got it out of the library, and it really was "my story" if you will......I actually used that one for my family to understand what I am dealing with.

Many blessing to all of you. The Lord has been my salvation. Without prayer, I think I would have gone crazy by now, or been dead. DON'T give up on yourself! If you don't feel you are getting the best care, MOVE ON!!!! God bless!!!
pam powers
17 Nov 2009, 15:23
i ws diagnosed with fibromylgia 2 years ago amd this year diagnosed with oathis year, the pain of them both is unbearable, its all i can to do to get up and go to work. I noe find myself depressed alot, i take lyrica, marcotics, antinflammatories, and depression pills, its scary because now i have to worry about my liver, its like fighting a losing battle.
Linda Hilton
15 Nov 2009, 15:47
I am looking into a Fibromyalgia clinic who has a branch in Raleigh, NC. It's called the Fibromyalgia and Fatigue Center. Their treatments are expensive and they sell supplements. I cannot find any information positive or negative about this group. They have clinics in different cities throughout
the US. I went for a complimentary visit last week and what they say sounds good but I cannot shake the feeling that these clinics are not what they say they are. I really want them to be. But.......... I would appreciate hearing about anyone else's experiences.
Rita LaRocco
10 Nov 2009, 21:42
great reading all the information on Fibormyalgia, Osteoarthritas some of the medication Doctors want to prescribe are narcotics, and dangerous ones. I find with these two medical problems seems most of us do have this as we age. I was told I have both Fibormyalgia and Osteoarthritas, the Fibro came about after I had Shingles really bad five years ago, the pain from that is awful. And thats where it attacks me with the Fibrormyalgia and I am done for the day. I take one 50mg of Lyrica, I do nothing but sleep the whole day, but so far I have gotten to the point this only happens about once a month if I am under a lot of stress. I do not like narcotics as they are habit forming. In my area so many elderly have died litterally from taking too much mix and match, and going to too many different doctors. My advice is find a good Rhumatology Specialist I take Piroxicam 20mg once a day and two Tylenol twice a day as needed. Also a good primary care doctor who listens, and feeling good about yourself and being happy, one has to keep after family members to try to understand that this is a bad medical problem that they know very little about other than my doctor tells me this is all I can do for you. I have started having the synvisc shots and that has helped me 99% as far as some of the pain and getting around. My heart goes out to all of you as I understand the suffering this medical problem does to our every day living. I have come to accept it and do what I can thats it. Rita,
Dorothy
08 Nov 2009, 19:51
I would like to say thank you to everyone for their comments but especially for trisch cross for hers. I read her comments and it was like reading my every day life history. I was diagonsed with severe ra and fiber two years ago. I lost my job with the post office, my home in fl and had to move up north and move in with my sister. I went to pain management in fl but am in the process of getting into one here. Right now I take cymbalta, embrel, methotrexate, mobic, presidsone, and methadone and percoset for pain. The methadone I have been on for a year now and its still helping me immensely. I would not be able to get around the little bit that I can if it was not for the methadone. Alot of people are misinformed about methadone, thinking that it is a drug only used to get off of heroin, but its not, I take 30 mgs a day and take the percoset for break thru pain. My doctor up here wants to switch me to Humira. Not sure I want to do this because I have come a long way in the last two yrs. At least I can walk to the bathroom and not crawl. I had to come to the realization that my whole life has changed and I have to accept that I am not going to get any better and have to deal with it. Thanks for listening. God Bless
JC
24 Oct 2009, 16:16
Starleo,

Sounds like possibly you could have a disability discrimination on your hands. If the other office close to you has a division with the same work and the boss is unwilling to change your location, however, if there is no opening that is a different story. Is it possible to talk to someone at the location close to you to see if there is someone willing to swap with you? You may want to talk to a disability rights attorney.
Starleo
21 Oct 2009, 21:48
I am in desperate help! I work and live in Cali. I travel 150 miles round trip to work everyday for the past 10 years. I have fibro, IBS, Migraines, CFS and yet i try to remain a part of the working society. Here is my deal: My job is 75 miles away, my doctor released me back to work w/the restriction that I could not ride/drive in a motor vech for more than 30 mins/miles. I asked for resonable accomodations, there is a worksite where i leave that is 7 miles away. My employer is telling me they cannot accomodate my request to work at the 7 mile work site 3-4 days a week because the essential functions of my job are needed 75 miles away! This is so bs. The essential functions: scheduling appointments, answering phone lines, relieving the receptionist. Trust me when I say I do way more than that! I am a project manager, payroll clerk, notary just to name a few. I work for one division in a department that has divisions in the work location 7 miles from my house. Okay granted the boss wants me to be in the job 75 miles away but i cannot do it. My doctor only released me w/the restriction that i could not commute
Now my job is telling me that they only have to accomodate me at work not my commute. UM HI! If I cannot get to the 75 mile worksite due to back and neck pain what am i suppose to do? PLEASE HELP ME!
Stanley
15 Oct 2009, 11:13
Well, I am a guy and have issues for about 10 years now, I have kept a pad of symptoms and had to show the chiro, rheum, family doc what all I had with all of my symptoms. Nothing works better than aspirin although I take pain blocks for degen arthritis, it also helps the fibro. Cymbalta and Lyrica are on the menu along with some prednisone and some vicodine on a prn basis. Trazedone and Transzene. I wish he would use valium too. The only thing is that tho we want too, we cannot give up. Too many are counting on us and God no where allows a person to quit. Goog luck/blessings to all.

Stan
Steve Pielstick
09 Oct 2009, 12:14
I was diagnosed with fibromyalgia in 2001.I have found out about a device that helps most any kind of arthritis.It is called an Infrfo-red light therapy treatment.It was released by the F.D.A. for treatment of arthritis and related conditions.It works by gettin rid of the toxins in your system and increasing circulation,making you feel better.It is even covered by Medicaid and medicare.It costs $80.plus shipping.I have one ordered and have been told that it works great.I would like to knoe if other people have heard about it.Good luck and thanx.Steve.
Lou B
05 Oct 2009, 10:37
I have lupus, fibromyalgia,necropenia, IBS,
chronic fatique syndrome, restless leg syndrome,acid reflux, and some nerve damage in my hands & feet. I also have severe migrane headaches that last for days. My pc doctor is trying me on several different drugs now. I take Cymbalta, provigial,arthrotec,plaquenil,skelaxin,nexiumklonopin, ultram, and I still have been in extreme pain. Especially during cold and rainy weather. I cannot ride for very long distances. If I overdo I am sick for 2 or 3 days or longer. I catch colds, sinus problems, mouth uclers on frequent basis which the ent doctor told me was due to a condition called stomachtitus. He said due to the necropenia I cannot fight off infections because my immune system also is very low. I have tried all types of physical therapies, also pilates, accupressure, and water exercises. None of these seem to help. I have also had injections for the pain in my back. I am primarily affected by back and leg pain. Some days I cannot get up and down without help or pulling up on something. I am now having problems with my insurance company not wanting to pay for my meds and my copays have all gone up when I have to go to the doctor. My rheumatologists is doing all he can think of to help me. I have a hematologist that has been looking for answers to help me in my problems of pain and the ulcers that keep recurring in my mouth. The doctors tell me I have to learn to deal better with stress because that is what causes all of the flare ups in my fm,lupus,stomachtitus, low white blood counts
etc. I have family who are not supportive at all. One of my sisters tells me I should quit taking all that meds I take too meds that is what is wrong with me. I told her I would trade bodies with her any day. I too had to retire from a job I had been working at for 30+ years. I too feel isolated because none of my former friends even call me or come to see me. I also have had a lot of stress in this past year. I lost my mother, 2 of my aunts, my uncle, my brother-in-law, and 2 cousins to death all in a time span of less than 7 months. How do deal with stress with all of this going on? I hope none of you have to go thru what I have these past 3 years.
Monica
08 Sep 2009, 07:35
Hi all,
I have Fibromyalgia - and it shows up in my legs - there is constant pain - but once a month and it never fails - for a week or so, the pain becomes magnified 2 or 3 times over-
and my energy levels go from: "Yes I can do everything and all at once too," to "I can't do one more thing, or I will fall asleep standing up!" My mood goes to somewhere between, "Don't bother me, talk to me, just leave me alone, and I really don't care!"
This is hormone related, cause ever since I had my hysterectomy, I have been unable to feel "normal" or have regular energy flow and not feel pain
I take Cymbalta but only then. I also take Trazodone, and Effexor and Tylenol -
Fibromyalgia is an awful condition - and I really wish more research was being done and more option were being given and that my Insurance would cover Chiro. appts, and other alternative options for help. Now, my biggest help comes from my faith in God, who has guided me so far, and I am grateful for that blessing - because it and He and a wonderful family keep me going! Feeling supported and appreciated and understood is very important for this condition, and I pray that all my fibro friends would experience that!
Trish cross
27 Aug 2009, 10:57
Hi all you fellow sufferer's, I too have had fibromyalgia for the last 9 years, took two years for the DX, also have neck disc's and back and leg neurophy. Tried every drug out there, finally went to pain management, best thing I ever did! I have been leading a pretty normal life, on disability for the fibro/cfs but can drive, do some chores and talk a walk 4 days a went at the park. I do get very bad flare ups if I over due. I have always taken a low dose 50 mg of trazodone for night sleep and works great with a skelaxtin muscle relaxer, I take wellbutrin xl 150mg daily,(side effect is weight loss not gain) tried cymbalta but only worked for a short time with lots of side effects. Can't take lycria or neurotin due to bad reactions. For pain I wear the Duragesic patch 50 mg and get ephidurals in my back every 4 months, this has been the pain relief that works best! Patch helps with the fibro pain and the shot takes care of the back and leg pain. Methadone worked well also but could not deal with the side effect of drowsiness, would fall asleep reading or watching tv or just sitting. I have not had to increase my dosages for over 2 years, less damage to the liver, don't have to worry about my pill running out while I am out somewhere or waiting for it to take effect. The patch stays on for 72 hours and gives you 24/7 pain relief, then you change it again for another 72 hrs or every 3 days. I get 10 a month. They do give me norvo 5/325 which is a low dose pill for any break thru pain which only happens sometimes on the third day when patch is wearing off. Ladies please see if your doctor will send you to a pain mangement clinic, there are some bad ones out there but I finally found one that knows what they are doing. They are experts on pain, went to med school for it. Primary drs do not know that much about the right combination for pain and most are too scared to give out more than vicodan or another in the same class. Our pain is bad and needs to be addressed, when I have a flare up I just want to die, as it seems like it will never stop, but then I remember that it always does pass and next day may be better. To the ones out there who still work outside the home I congradulate you as don't know how you do it. I tried for a year going to part time with a day in between for rest and still was in alot of pain so filed for disability. Giving up your jobs and the social time spent with co-workers is another side effect of this horrible monster inside us who rears its ugly head anytime it feels like it. We have to go thru so many losses with this, loss of our jobs, our indepedence, our friends, our spirit, sometimes family members don't get it either. We can't enjoy outings with others so they give up asking after awhile. I would get panic attacks just having to commit to a dr appt! The what if's start - what if I am in pain that day, what if I can't drive or my Ibs acts up or I am dizzy or any of the many other symptions we get. Once out with my elderly mom shopping, her with dementia, my pain pill ran out and boom just like that I could not get my muscles to push that darn grocery cart any further without alot of pain, thats how fast they stiffened up, had to leave the cart, go next door and buy water to take a pill, wait for it to start working, go back pay for my items and drive home with my poor mom who was always worried about me. Hope some of this helps someone. Email me if you wish and have a good day. Trish
Sally Harrold
09 Aug 2009, 18:05
I'm so glad to have found this site. I too have fibromyalgia, osteoarthritis, osteopenia, etc. I had three vertabrae fused in my neck back in 2001 hoping that would help with the pain but it has only increased the amount of spurring on my spine. In 2007, my body shut down from the amount of pain killers I had been taking on the orders of my rheumatologist. I went into withdrawl and wound up in the hospital where they recommended a program that saved my life in more ways than one. In this program I got off all narcotics and learned that chronic pain is just that: chronic. This is pain I will have forever so I'd better learn how to live with it. We were taught deep breathing techniques that really do help. We learned some yoga, did guided imagery, bio-feedback, therapy with a counselor. And a large portion of the program was physical and occupational therapy; learning different ways to do things that hurt, a better way to deal with things at home or your workplace so that you don't have to be in any more pain than is absolutely necessary. And we learned that exercise is our only hope for keeping pain at bay...we have to keep moving. People came into the program in wheelchairs and left walking. Canes were left behind. After this program, if you were willing to put the work into it, you left with a much better life ahead of you. I know I did. I'm still on some medication (including good old Lyrica and the 30 pounds it put on me,) but no other narcotics. I can't say everything is rosy, but at least I'm functional and not in the haze I lived in before.

I know there are many programs for Chronic Pain patients. I don't know what this website's policy is about sharing specific ones, but I don't think it could hurt to share something that works. There were people from all over the country in the program when I was there. It is the Cleveland Clinic Chronic Pain Rehabilitation Program. Check them out.
Michele Holmes
04 Aug 2009, 21:00
I am so glad to read the other comments from fibro victims. There was a time when I felt the doctors thought the pain was "all im my head". I was diagnosed with FM in 2007. I do believe that I had FM for many years before but did not know it-just considered the pains to be from my arthritis, bursitis, tendonitis, etc. I have been thru numerous meds, now started the new FM drug Savella. Hope this one helps without the awful side effects. Has anyone ever had Opana ER for chronic pain? I just started that, too! It is so hard to describe to others how I feel everyday. I can't work anymore, I never know how I'm going to feel from one day to the next. Somedays, just to get a shower and get ready to go to the doctor elevates my pain level. Somedays, I can't stand to ride in a car(I had to quit driving 2 years ago due to my chronic pain and "brain fog"). I haven't slept in my bed for over 3 years. I try to ease my pain with a TENS unit, ice packs, and too many meds.
Thanks for letting me vent.
diana
19 Jul 2009, 11:17
I have been diagnosed with fibromyalgia and OA. My current doctor, rheumatologist, is putting me on the cherry supplements. He says it helps about one third of his patients. I have tried cymbalta, which did help some but I did not like the other side effects. I am trying alot of Omega 3 and vitamin C and Vitamin D. If I find anything at all that helps I will let everyone know. I am very tired of pain and I don't want to get addicted to vicodin(so far that is the only thing that seems to help on bad days).I even went to a fibro and fatigue center, but they just threw too many pills at me.
Amy
10 Jul 2009, 13:19
Just an FYI - there is a brand new med on the market for Fibromyalgia, approved by the FDA in the spring. It is called Savella and I have been taking it for about two months. I really like it and so far have not seen any effects, but it has definitely increased my energy level. Be forewarned - I felt a lot better the first few weeks, and was amazed. That feeling does not last, but the medicine is working. (I have had Juvenille Rheumatoid Arthritis for 30 years and Fibromyalgia for about 10 years. Previously took Cymbalta and then tried Lyrica but there was too much weight gain.)

Savella - ask your Dr about it!
JL
07 Jul 2009, 15:29
I really do appreciate reading all of your thoughts, fears, successes and failures. I have FM, RA and OA. The IV infusions and constant meds do keep me working as I must carry the medical insurance for my family. I have a totally understanding PCP who helps keep the pain level at a 6 or so. I work in the medical profession myself, so I know first hand about the reactions and totally incorrect assumptions by the medical world that those who need pain meds are addicts or worse, must be selling them. They are the people we look to for answers and some betray the trust and hope we put in them.I hope that someday the predjudice against people who have chronic pain won't be as it is now.
I did try Aqua therapy ( physical therapy done in heated water, about 91 degrees F) on the advice of my PCP. I had been having so many flare ups of FM that I had to try something. I am amazed at the difference since I have started this. I have more energy, less pain, ( it's not gone but better!)and more mobility than I've had in years. I was able to work up from 20 minutes to 60 minutes of exercise. But my insurance will only pay for so many sessions so when they run out I'm back to square one. The public pools in my area aren't heated and with the RA and OA, I can't exercise in cold water. Occasionally the schools will have open swim night and they are heated but it isn't often enough to help. I can do a few exercises in a hot tub but the heat has to be turned way down to avoid overheating. Does anyone have any other ideas of how I can continue my water exercises that I haven't thought of? Any help would be appreciated.

Thanks!
Verna
07 Jul 2009, 12:54
My PCP (primary care provider) oversees all my meds, including what other doctors suggest or prescribe, so interactions are lessened. I forgot to tell him about the supplements, though! When I went on narcotic meds with acetominophen (like Vicodin) Rx, I got Tylenol poisoning 10 years ago, so I only take it in emergencies. Then the doctors tried straight Hydrocodone; it made me feel woozy without much pain relief. I deal with several degenerative and inflammatory conditions, so I needed something just to have quality of life. What I found through my PCP was a low-dose Hydromorphone 2 mg (Dilaudid), with a Tramadol 50 mg 2-4 times a day, helped me function without drowsiness. Lyrica didn't help and I had big side effects; I will ask my Dr about a low-dose gabapentin for the neuropathies. I have had major side effects from Cymbalta and Effexor; Tri-cyclics (like Doxepin or Elavil), Baclofen and all the benzodiazapenes (like Klonopin), but still needed a low-dose antidepressant I could take with the pain meds. Busparone is the ONLY one that does not list interaction with Tramadol, and 5 mg 3x's daily realy helps.
Kathy Donoghue
07 Jul 2009, 12:11
I thank you all for what I have read today. I am not alone out here, I now feel more confident to speak out to the doctors I am working with. I am also going get some of the books Megan Lindberg mentioned. I have had problems for many years and thought it was my destiny since my grandmother's had pain and we were told we just in something handed down along with the family name LOL they were from the old country (Belgium & Poland)and told you are just getting old is what I was told.

I had been in an accident on the way to high school with my best friend and her parents. Older car no seat belts then and we were in the back seat we got rear ended and we both he to go to have neck treatments and the doctor said then I would have trouble later for the rest of my life. I was only 16 then. I have been in another rear-ender with my hubby in 1989 which broke both our seats and threw us in the back seat. Last treatment to my neck (2008) was to heat the nerves endings so they shrink in the 2, 3, 4 vertebras so the pain and the headaches would stop. My shoulder pain, frozen shoulder treatments twice 2004 right, 2005 left shots and therapy. Just had a doctor do the push teat and I have all sensitive points except one she confirm FM finally I know a name to my pain which travels my body and comes and goes. Feet for years sharp pains one doctor said I had neuropathy no diabetic problems been tested for that every year.
Well I just unloaded said it all, thank you again for listening too.

Etta
07 Jul 2009, 10:32
I was diagnoised this year with fibromyalgia and RA last year. I had went to the ER here and the Dr. that was on call acted as if I was a drug addicit this was before I was diagnoised he said that it was diabete nerve pain as if I did not know what was hurting me and I told him this was not diabete pain. When I went to my RA DR. he diagnoised me and he put me on gabapentin it helps some but not all the time, but he took me serious. My pain is above and below my knees and elbow sometimes I can't pick-up a small glass of water it hurt so bad, but by the grace of God I can make it.
ALLENE EEK
05 Jul 2009, 11:27
I WAS AT MY JOB THE LAST 11 YEARS AND FELT LIKE A LIVING HELL WITH MY PAIN. I HAVE HAD FOOT SURGERIES KNEE SURGERIES AND FEMALE SURGERIES. IN BETWEEN I FOUND OUT I HAD FYBROMYALGIA AND BURSITIS ALONG WITH TENDONITIS. I HAD SURGERY FOR CARPEL TUNNEL THEY SAID WAS DUE TO WORK RELATED. I WAS GOING TO DIFFERENT DOCTORS AND THEY ACTED LIKE MY DEPRESSION WAS THE CAUSE OF MY PAIN FOR A LONG TIME. I BELIEVE THE PAIN WAS PART OF THE CAUSING OF PART OF MY DEPRESSION. I THINK FOR A WHILE THEY THOUGHT SINCE I WAS IN PAST VERY ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIPS THAT WAS THE REASON FOR MY DEPRESSION. I JUST WANTED TO GET THROUGH THE DAY AT WORK. I LOST MY JOB SINCE BY BOSS CHANGED HIS MIND AND WOULDN'T LET ME WORK FOR LESS MONEY AND MORE HOURS INSTEAD OF GETTING LAID OFF. I WAS HAVING A HARD ENOUGH TIME PAYING THE BILLS WITH LESS HOURS AND MORE MONEY. NOW I FEEL WORSE SINCE I LOST MY JOB AND PUT EVERYTHING I HAD INTO THE JOB AND WOULD HAVE TO PUSH MYSELF TO GO TO WORK AND SOMETIMES WOULD GET HOME AND HURT TOO MUCH TO DO HOUSEWORK. HAD TO DO LITTLE BY LITTLE AT HOME SINCE I WAS WORE OUT WHEN I GOT HOME. MY LAST PREGNANCY MY THYROID WAS ALWAYS CHANGING AND MY MEDS. COULDN'T TAKE ANYTHING WHILE I WAS PREGNANT AND DON'T KNOW HOW I GOT THROUGH IT DAY AFTER DAY. I HAVE BEEN ON CELEXA, NEUROTIN, VICODIN, SYNTHROID. I ALSO HAD BEEN ON OTHER ANTI-DEPRESSANTS OFF AND ON SINCE 1992.
carolyn
28 Jun 2009, 10:44
Jean wrote "I have fibromaylga and it has caused me to have a burning mouth and lips--bottom of feet burns and different places on my body burns. Has anyone else had these symtons? If so, how have you been treated for this?"

Jean I'm not sure if what I've experienced is the same as what you are describing. Occasionally I'll have what I call a flare. I will suffer so much pain that I can't even lie in bed and I toss and turn even more than usual trying to find a comfortable position. I'll experience a fever and then I'll have a sunburn-like burn on an area of my body, usually on one side, usually on my hip, thigh and buttocks. The burn will be painful just like a bad sunburn. I'll be achy for days afterward. And yes doctors think I'm crazy when I tell them about it.
Ruben Ortiz
25 Jun 2009, 18:43
I have been having problems with doctor, pain, and emotions. I feel that when I go to the doctor I don't get the time I think I need. The pain is getting worst. I can't stand it and I am tired. My emotions are all over the place. My doctors have change my pills once again. I am on three lyrica and two trezix three times a day. My blog is ortizjrlifeandhealth.blogspot.com
Jean Schroder
20 Jun 2009, 11:22
I have fibromaylga and it has caused me to have a burning mouth and lips--bottom of feet burns and different places on my body burns. Has anyone else had these symtons? If so, how have you been treated for this?
The Drs think I'm crazy when I tell them about it. I have heard that maybe this is a
B12 vitamin defiency. Any comments on this
is welcome. LJS
Angelina Williamson
18 Jun 2009, 20:53

To those out there in pain I totally understand.We just have to hang in there
What does not kill us makes stronger even though it hurts ,mostly it has hurt the ones I love the most. My story started at childhood and it has continued to the present. The way I have dealt with this illness is thru exercise ,walking even when I cant walk I use a walking cane . I take meds of course but some are either to strong or allergic to it . The most thing that has helped me the most is warm water exercise.
Try it if all possable it helps you relax
and even sleep better and its a lot cheaper then drugs.... Peace to you all !!!
Susie
16 Jun 2009, 15:06
Thanks to all for sharing. I feel gifted reading experiences that I identifyed with.
This is a great space! Thanks to Arthritis Foundation.
Linda Swavey
16 Jun 2009, 13:36
I have just been diagnosed with Firbomyalgia and Chronic Myofascial Pain, the dr. won't listen when I try to explain that I can't move and to walk or even try to pick up something as light as a glass of water brings tears to my eyes because it hurts so bad. She finally gave in and put me on Lyrica and Vicodin and I woke up the next day feeling like I had been on a 20 day drunk and I don't drink, I made an earlier appointment and she with great disgust changed the medicine to Neurotion and Oxycotin 20mg I walk around in a fog and hurt but no one listens I am at the point of just giving up no one believes me when I try to explain the pain I am in and the Doctors treat me like I am just drug seeking. I'm tired and hurt so much nothing is worth it any more. I can't walk it's taking me 20 min. just to write this. Help me please if you know any thing that will help please write me. I am done
Megan Lindberg
10 Jun 2009, 19:02
I forgot to give you all this little factoid to consider:
The tears of joy and laughter are actually *chemically different* from the tears of anger and sadness. Now that IS something to think about, huh? I learned this from my favorite physician, my dear husband Roy.


And while I'm here again, I'd like to give you all (especially our newbies) The Three Books You Really Need (IMHO), Personally, I look at them as the "FibroBible in Three Volumes" and to date, I haven't found any better as these for a core library. If you find a really good book to add to these, do let me know, please?

My "FibroBible":

1. Dr. Norman Cousins "Anatomy of an Illness"
Amazon has it used for under $5.00 and new for $11.16
This is the wonderful book that I spoke of before and the one which will teach you how to really use laughter as healing medicine. He discusses other things as well, but simply laughing tops them all.

2. Dr. Devin Starlanyl "Fibromyalgia & Chronic Myofascial Pain- A Survival Manual"
Amazon has it used for $5.99 and up and new is $14.93. You want the Second Edition.

If this is all new to you, Starlanyl's book is going to be of extreme help is answering so many questions. I've gotten three physicians to actually buy it for themselves as well as replaced four copies that I'd given to friends with FMS (and my own doctor! In the early days, neither one of us knew much and this book really helped us both.) IMHO this is the real 'bible' of FMS.
Groundbreaking when it was first published, it covers just about everything: identifying all the tender points everywhere, all the symptoms, including the goofy ones which are hard to explain to someone else, identifying tender points,coping emotionally and the physical effects emotions play upon us... learning to work from the negative to the positive affirmations, even how your own living space is arranged re the impact of your environment, dealing with crises without feeling like running away yourself ...lots and lots of good and useful stuff you hadn't even thought of!
A quick quote that I'm sure will sound disgustingly familiar to us all:
" 'At some time in their lives,everyone has had allergies, post-nasal drip,swollen glands, runny nose, sore throat, stiff neck, morning stiffness...' and so forth. These doctors are missing the point entirely." Oh, how true!
No sufferer of FMS can do without this book. (my unprejudiced opinion, of course)

3. Jacob Teitelbaum "From Fatigued to Fantastic" Get the Third Edition on this one.
Amazon again, used is from $7.95 and brand spanking new it's $10.37
Teitelbaum leads you through a true healing path. From the Amazon review: "This new, completely updated third edition incorporates the latest advances in science and technology to help alleviate the baffling, often dismissed symptoms associated with severe, almost unrelenting fatigue." A extremely helpful book on coping with the kind of fatigue we suffer with.
If you have all three, you've got some formidable stuff to work with and to help you develop an individual program that has a real chance of working. YOU are putting it together, not some guy in the health club. Use Amazon and get all three used for under 20 bucks and in paperback. If you have one, "Fatigued to Fantastic" is available on Kindle as well.

That's it and now I promise, I'll shut up for a good long while!
Laugh and love,
Megan
Megan Lindberg
10 Jun 2009, 17:26
Wow!
Hello everyone, My name is Megan. My little fun list includes FM, OA, Osteoporosis, and some kind of generalised neuropathy that won't allow for knee surgery, or at least that's what the 3 ortho surgeons I consulted with told me LOL! Frankly, I think it all came about from hitting a tree at about 30mph when I was a kid, but that's another story.

First of all, I have to say how much I admire every single one of you for hanging in there with these debilitating, and let's face it, very irritating, disorders. For so many of us, simply trying to GET a DX over all too many years has been a struggle. Add the current attitude of "Wow, you want PAIN medication??? Yup, you're a druggie, I just KNOW it!" Well, I asy "Yay for us!!!" because we refuse to give in to these idiots who play that little game.

For those of us who can get away with using just Vicodin, you're lucky. But the Tylenol that it's paired with is where the danger lies as Tylenol is what attacks the liver. Be careful with what your total Tylenol load is, ok? I was up to 22 tabs a day of the stuff and my doctor flipped but it was due to the Tylenol load much more than the opiate. Now, with that said....

Quite a few years ago I read a book by a doctor named Norman Cousins. Can't recall the book's title, but I never forgot the lessons within it. Cousins was a firm believer in laughter as a positive healing force in coping with any kind of illness, right down to the ubiquitous common cold. He wrote this now well-known tome (so why can't I remember the title? Hmmm... fibrofog??) Aha! Checked him out in Wiki and here's what the entry is... the book title btw, was "Anatomy of an Illness". If you haven't read it, give it a go, worthwhile. OK, the Wiki entry...(this is not the entire thing, go read that on your own)

"Cousins also served as Adjunct Professor of Medical Humanities for the School of Medicine at the University of California, Los Angeles, where he did research on the biochemistry of human emotions, which he long believed were the key to human beings’ success in fighting illness. It was a belief he maintained even as he battled heart disease, which he fought both by taking massive doses of Vitamin C and, according to him, by training himself to laugh. ... Late in life Cousins was diagnosed with a form of arthritis then called Marie-Strumpell's disease (ankylosing spondylitis), although this diagnosis is currently in doubt and it has been suggested that Cousins may actually have had reactive arthritis. His struggle with this illness is detailed in the book and movie "Anatomy of an Illness". (Ahhh, cool, I'm gonna find the film!)

Told that he had little chance of surviving, Cousins developed a recovery program incorporating megadoses of Vitamin C, along with a positive attitude, love, faith, hope, and laughter induced by Marx Brothers films. "I made the joyous discovery that ten minutes of genuine belly laughter had an anesthetic effect and would give me at least two hours of pain-free sleep," he reported. "When the pain-killing effect of the laughter wore off, we would switch on the motion picture projector again and not infrequently, it would lead to another pain-free interval."

Hmmm... certainly something to think about, isn't it? Here this guy has heart disease that's literally killing him and he thinks laughing a lot is going to fix it? Well, it did.

Now, if you read back through this or through any website that has a good message board dealing with all our stuff here, how often does anyone ever mention any of the *emotional aspects* of their healing? Rare as proverbial hen's teeth, believe me!

Right now one of my very best and closest friends is in the terminal stages of lung cancer, now in her liver as well. She was diagnosed one month ago yesterday. Her decision to not go through all the chemo nightmare is a sound one in my mind. She is terminal and she knows it. So does her partner of 17 years. Her chosen method of healing? Laughter. She has asked every single friend she has to please "Just keep me laughin', girlfren'!" And we all are doing our best to do just that for this lovely woman, getting her to laugh her ass off every single day she has.

Cousins hit it right dead on. Laughter does help one heal. Think about this because in its simplicity, there is a profoundness that is really rather incredible. Laughter heals.
Even for me dear friend, laughter is reducing her pain daily, and that has a lot to say for it, doesn't it?

When one is laughing, there is no room for self-pity or sorrow. Laughter does not allow pain to sit beside it. Real heart-felt laughter gets those little good guys, the endorphins, hopping and hooting and making us feel gooooood! Considering that each and every one of us carries around our own little natural supply of painkilling dope, why not learn to use it and use it well?
Laughter reduces stress, helps fortify the immune system, allows one to sleep better AND more soundly, and has the additional side benefit of giving everyone around you a happy person to be with. And it's free! Can be used at any time and anywhere.

Ok, getting serious now... obviously laughter alone is not going to be the be-all and cure-all. It IS an excellent adjunct to whatever your routine therapy may be, and you may even find that after a while, you'll experience a reduction in your pain. That's just what has happened to me.

I was diagnosed with FM and the nerve thing in June of 1993. I've been through every kind of painkilling drug (usually in way over the top amounts that drove my doctor nuts, like 6-8 tabs of Oxycontin and the aforementioned 22 tabs of Vicodin (wow..)in a day... think that was what had him sending me to a totally worthless pain clinic but more on that in a minute...)and all of the stress reducers and the sleep inducers and the "I'm going nuts" reducers, etc. I had my very own pharmacy! And for the next nine years I lived in hell. Trying anything and everything to reduce the pain and get some kind of sleep. At one point I wouldn't have cared if I had to sleep in my garbage can, just gimme a few hours, pleeeeeeze?

Of course we all know what life is like when you're living at a constant 6-8 on the good ol' 1-10 pain scale... whatever that is, it is NOT living. My little daily dose had something like 16 pills and one horrible liquid shit that I don't remember what that was for. Yeah, I'm livin' now...... I knew I had to do something and no doctor was going to give me what I needed but then I didn't know then what it was, either!

But, I was very lucky in having this wonderful MD (retired now, if he wasn't I send all of you to him) who did not laugh at me, who did believe me and who did support me in anything I wanted to try. I'd just read Cousins' book so you know that's was the route I wanted to try, just see what happened. Took some time, in particular for me to REALLY believe in what I was doing!

It worked. And has been working ever since. My only pain med is methadone (which, btw, is an excellent pain med with little to no side effects at all) If you tolerate it, you may want to try methadone for yourself. And I take premarin for the night sweats and vitamins, that's it. Hmmm... thinking about it, which is worse? Pain or hot flashes? Are they the same thing???? Laughing through a hot flash is a pretty rough haul, but doable!

Every day I laugh. And every day I find the joy in simply being alive and all my senses about me. I can walk. I can talk. I can hear and see and feel. How thankful I am for these things! I live in a country which lets me decide what I wish. If you don't believe this, go abroad. And I am so thankful for the little things in life which bring a smile to my face!

So what are you thankful for? What are all those things in your own lives that bring smiles to your faces? How often do you laugh out loud? Oh, and one more thing? I also live by the motto "Don't give up, and don't give in." That also has gotten me through a lot of bad stuff. But most of all, laughter IS the best medicine. Think about that! LOL!!!

Thanks for your patience in reading this much longer than I thought it would be message!

Megan

Speak with Kindness
Walk in Beauty
Give with Grace
Love with Laughter
Know the Rapture of Life
For This Moment is Forever
Jenny
03 Jun 2009, 13:59
I had fibro, degenenerative dic, 4surgerys even a spine stimulater put in. I am still in pain. I feel for everyone. Only Narco works,but all pain docters want to take me off of it. Nothing else works. Jenny
Donna Hopkins
02 Jun 2009, 16:27
Hi! My name is Donna, I am new to all of this.
After reading all the notes I felt a little better about things. I have Fibromyalgia also it took them years to figure out what I had. I
would get so frustrated because I felt that no one believed me; I was making everything up
I was going to the hospital once a week for shots. Then when the medicine came available
they put me on Cymbalta and a pain med which is good for nothing. I also take meds. for stress,depression,acid reflux, arthritis in my back and knees. My neck is what bothers me the most. It hurts to get up in the am because the bottom of my feet hurt, there are times when i can barely walk. I don't eat because everytime I eat I have to run to the bath room. They pains are terrible--I have IBS. Does anyone have any suggestions on what I could eat and be able to keep it in my stomach for awhile? I don't eat but
gain weight from the meds. i never sleep.
To: fgg@gmail.com I would like to hear from you. I have no one that understands what I go threw every day.
Thanks to everyone who reads this.
June A
02 Jun 2009, 13:04
It is very hard to have fibro because others can not see that you have it and the tiredness is sometimes overwhelming and hard to explain I also have RA and osteo and polymyalgia and degenerative and fractured my back from a fall and had the cement treatment and find I just must set the timer and work for 40 if able and rest for 20 min. if I want to get through the day without suffering and nmy husband will be comming home soon from short term nursing home again he has been there at least 15 times in the last 7 years but this time I told everyone I can not be his main caretaker anymore- he has not been nice to me for many years and am going to have daily aides which are expensive-it is so nice to be able to join in this site-just knowing you are not alone is a relief.
Teresa Neumeyer
31 May 2009, 03:02
I have been diagnoised with fibromyalgia by a Specialist in Florida where I leaved for 28 years. He gave me Pain med.'s for the extreme pain i had. And I went in every 2 months and he gave me corisone shots which seemed to help. I was then going to my family Doctor, and he was giving me medication to help my pain, and a anti flammatory. I'm living in North Carolina now and had to chg Dr's. I have eposoides where my body retains water, so I am on a salt free diet and still having different test done. TeresaNeumeyer
Joyce Fields
23 May 2009, 01:18
I can identify with Carole re drug allergies. However, I find that mine are more severe side effects. Try leaving off sugar (including substitutes),wheat, and red meats.

And exercise. No matter how you do it, do it. You will be glad you did and keep your core muscles strong. When you get my age and have been thru multiple surgeries, you will be glad you had your body in good shape.

I have Systemic Lupus with nephritis (35 years), Fibromyalgia, osteoporois, osteoarthritis, 2 hip replacements (both have been revised) and two back surgeries.
Dianna
21 May 2009, 04:01
I was diagnosed in 1992 with fibromyalgia and they knew very little then, there was only a pamplet for my DR. to go by. lol. I have Spinal Stenosis, OA, Degenerative disc disease,diabetes etc. I go to a Pain Managment Clinic where they are not afraid to use the triplicate pad if needed. I just went on Cymbalta since I get depressed, anxious, and have diabetic nerve pain. Cymbalta is supposed to help all those plus fibro. I've had 2 disks replaced in my neck and need more done, but no rush on my part. I am hard to medicate, Flexeril did nothing, and vicodin helped but they caution long term use because of liver problems that can occur. I am really excited to see a web-meeting place. No one can really understand the pain and fatigue, how sometimes your better and sometimes you can't touch your feet to the floor or stand to be touched at all. Before the pain clinic, I was lucky enough to have a doctor who beleived in me for about 10 yrs. Hes still my primary but they seem to really be cracking down on poor doctors who just want to help their patients. Now I've seen the other doctors too. the ones who look at you like you are just running from dr. to dr. to get drugs. Give me a break. Facts are we are sooo unlikely to get addicted or even catch a buzz! I want to figure out how to get a bigger spotlight on this HORRIBLE DISEASE! Thx for listening...........
colette
19 May 2009, 21:04
h its so nice to here that other pepole understand what im going threw.
I have been going on now for about seven years of suffering,it brings meto tears half the time. I cant wait to gion the suport group that they have, just to talk to someone who uderstands.

Thanks for listening

Been There

Colettte
Cher
19 May 2009, 12:56
I was diagnosed with Reflex Sympathetic Dystrophy in 1993, followed by Fibromyalgia in 1995. There is no point in going through all the things that have flowed from those two! I take Neurontin & Skelaxin 3x daily, with Vicodin 4x daily. I took Cymbalta until my insurance decided I didn't need it. It really helped me on a lot of levels with depression as well all the nerve pain associated with both RSD and FM. How do I fight my doctor being afraid to prescribe some of drugs that have really helped me over the past 16 years (Soma was one of the few drugs that helped me sleep) and fight with an insurance company that only sees the bottom line?
It is hard enough to not be taken as a nutcase by the general public because they can't "see" my disease - without having to deal with a doctor who knows better but is afraid to give me what will help - and an insurance company that wants me to take the medications they decide I need rather than the medications that work.
Wow. I feel better. It was nice to stumble in here and find others who are struggling like me and who understand just what FM is all about. Thanks for listening.
Carole
19 May 2009, 09:32
I have osteoarthrisits- am allergic to most drugs so no relief for that or FM- neck, arm, and back pain can be excruciating-they say to excercise- but how when I get home from work and collapse?
Barbara Nieznanski
06 May 2009, 16:33
I have spinal stenois and fibormyalia and nothing works for me yet. They tired me on Lyrica and I was so tired I couldn't get up, the Prozac helped for depression but did nothing for pain. I wish they could give me something that helped.
Jeanie Ashton
05 May 2009, 17:57
I was diagnosed with fibromyalgia a few years ago. Cymbalta did nothing for me. Lyrica affected my vision severly. Celebrex has been a wonder drug for me for pain. If only I could find something for fatigue that doesn't contain caffeine or anything like that.
robin harmon
28 Apr 2009, 22:07
Thank you so much for all the wonderful info. I am 43 and have been told in the last couple of months that i have fm.
Diane
25 Apr 2009, 12:37
When someone says Fibromyalgia isn't real I want to murder them as they have never witness or felt the pain inside their body. I too have had to do trial and error. Both Cymbalta and Lyrica weren't for me no toleranace. I am on 40mg Prozac and Neurotin 3x a day. Flexiril and Darvocet when pain is really bad. Not sure how long Darvocet is going to be available as of the recent warnings out about it. My neck is the worse and jaw. Keep on praying.
Sylvia
21 Apr 2009, 09:14
I have had FM/CFS for 30 years, and when I went to the Harborview CFS clinic, they put me on a low dose of methadone. i have been doing well on that for the last 10 years, it helps me be functional, and with very little side effects. I haven't tried Cymbalta, or Lyrica, mailnly because my daughter tried Lyrica and gained 10 lbs on it in one month. She is taking Cymbalta now, and she is feeling better. I might give that one a try, but like most of us, we are chemically sensitive and hate to try new meds.
I think if you can't get any relief from the new meds for FM, then go back to the true pain killers like Methadone.
Jennifer P
19 Apr 2009, 04:00
I have taken Elavil for over a year now...and it seems to help me. I can function at 85-90 percent most of the time. My neck is my worst area. I have Crohn's disease and so I cannot take any asprin related medications....so Vicodin is my bad pain med. I get along with the Tylenol Rapid Release Pills. It keeps me going most of the time. I have some osteoarthritis and two slipped discs in the lower back...
Teresa Ferenz
13 Apr 2009, 12:38
Started an on-line Fibromyalgia group on=line on ning and I'm looking for people to come join us, it's a place to get support, find friendship and talk with others in the US about our chronic illness.

The group's address is as follows:
http:://thefibromylgiagroupgals.ning.com

or email me at: fgg@gmail.com for more information.

Join us.
Boyd L. Demchyna
09 Apr 2009, 07:15
I was just recently diagnoised with advanced arthritis of the neck( the doctor that diagnoised my condition said my neck looked worse than his 100 year old mother). I have been treated by my family doctor for the past four years. I was begining to think I was a hypocondrate. Does this condition often go misdiagnoised?
Thanks,

Boyd
Michele Molesky
07 Apr 2009, 10:26
I have been on medication for over 10 years now after suffering a broken neck. I now suffer from chronic pain on a daily basis. I was prescribed Cymbalta and Lyrica last year and,initially,had very good luck with it. I also several other prescriptions with it. I began suffering terrible leg pain and my eye sight began to suffer after about 6-8 months. I also had a VERY large weight gain (due to the cymbalta). One of my doctors had done some of the trials for Cymbalta and concurred that the Cymbalta was responsible for the weight gain (I am not a big eater). If my memory serves me correctly the Lyrica has a history of eyesight possible side effects and the Cymbalta can cause leg pain (or vice versa). I had to wean myself off of these drugs, Lyrica wasn't so bad but the Cymbalta was horrific! I was sick for 2-3 weeks! I was only on it for 6-8 months and I was not addicted, (I've been on other narcotics and had no problem coming off of them-oxycontin!) but this was terrible. I have terrible pain, but i would never put myself through that again, I hope no one goes through what I went through!!! I hope it was just a fluke.
Caroline Miller
30 Mar 2009, 12:42
Cymbalta, Lyrica, Volterin, and Flexiril are the most helpful and the best combination of meds that I've found in about a 10 year period of searching.

I am currently taking a liquid supplement that I will not comment on at this time since I've been on it for only two months. A lady with very severe symptoms tells me that she came off all her fibro meds after about 6 months. The jury is still out as far as I'm concerned --- what works for one person does not necessarily work for another . . . whether it's meds or supplements, exercise, or whatever ... this condition requires a "keep on trying", "mixing and matching" until the fit works --- at to some degree !

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