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Coping With Fatigue

Fatigue is one of the most common symptoms of rheumatoid arthritis, and it is sometimes the first sign of inflammation. Fatigue can make it harder to concentrate or deal with pain – it can even make people feel helpless. Like pain, fatigue is a signal that something is wrong. Coping with fatigue can help you feel better.

Fatigue may be caused by inflammation, overdoing routine activities, medication side effects, stress, depression or a combination. Poor sleep and nutrition, and absence of regular exercise also may also contribute.

Feeling tired all the time can lead to stress and depression. And, if you become physically run down, your immune system will be less able to fight infection and illness. By setting priorities, making smart choices and conserving your strength, you will still be able to do most of what is important to you.

Pinpoint causes of your fatigue

Your fatigue may be caused by physical, emotional and environmental factors. Environmental factors such as high noise levels, temperature variations, and even daily hassles such as dealing with traffic and waiting in line can make you feel tired.

Keep a fatigue diary

Keeping a fatigue diary can help you discover the causes of your fatigue. Note the times of the day or week when you feel fatigue and what seems to trigger it. Sometimes you may see an obvious solution to the problem. For instance, you may blame overactivity when you feel tired, but by reviewing your diary you may see that your fatigue is a sign of increased disease activity. 

Ask your doctor

Rheumatoid arthritis fatigue due to inflammation is often more easily corrected than fatigue that results from stress. The inflammatory cytokines (protein molecules) that are released in RA are the same chemicals that are released if you have a severe cold or flu. Your doctor can treat this type of fatigue by prescribing higher doses of your drugs or another drug to control the body’s inflammatory process. Once inflammation is under control, fatigue usually lessens.

It is also important to consider other potential sources of fatigue that your doctor can reverse. An example is anemia, which occurs when the body has too few red blood cells to transport oxygen effectively. One type of anemia, also called “the anemia of chronic disease,” is often seen in people with RA. Effective treatment of arthritis usually resolves this type of anemia. Another cause of anemia is blood loss from stomach ulcers, which may require iron replacement and other treatments.

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Linda M
05 Feb 2012, 13:46
Zully, it's too bad that you have RA at such a young age. You have a good chance of preventing joint damage and getting better at this point, though. No one can make your RA go away, but medications and rest and gentle exercise can actually improve your condition over time. It took me quite a while to believe that, and to begin finding out what works for me. For you, I'd suggest asking your doctor about supplements like fish oil and glucosamine/chondroitin - not all supplements are good and medically approved, but these are. Also ask about other RA medication that can be combined with methotrexate, which sometimes helps more than either one alone. Doctors don't always offer you all the possibilities at first, and you may have to learn a lot on your own. Keep trying till you find out what works for you. Good luck!
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04 Feb 2012, 06:46
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Jeannie Hernandez
11 Jan 2012, 21:12
Michelle,
RA is an auto-immune diesease. Your body immune system for some reason starts attacking healthy cells, that is why you keep getting everything down the pike.
You need to stay away from sick people, or wear a mask if you have to be around the youngsters at work...tell them its so YOU DONT GET SICK! I hate to make the reference, but it's like an aids patient...they have NO immunity, and ours us RA folks have a very low immunity as well.
Best of luck to you!
Rose
04 Jan 2012, 22:42
It is the hardest thing to wake up in the morning with the list of things I want to accomplish this day. Then hardly be able to move to get out of bed.
Christmas kicked my butt this year. My 15 y/o daughter got quite ill and had to have her gallbladder removed. I spent a few nights sleeping at the hospital with her and it started a downward spiral in my symptoms. I take Enbrel, Methotrexate, prednisone, provigil, high blood pressure med, thyroid replacement, pravastatin for high cholesterol.
It took a long time to get properly diagnosed because my RA is called serologiclly negative. That means that none of my tests are outstandingly positive. I couldn't get a referal to a Rheumatologist until my knee blew up like a balloon. He diagnosed primarily on the MRI results.
I didn't even know how much pain I was in until it went away. It was like being unlocked.
My advice to any one is see a good rheumatologist. Fight to get the medications you need. Do not be afraid of the new drugs, they can be amazing. I told my Dr. that I refused to be disabled and he said OK! I am having a bad flare right now and feel discouraged, but if you read the actual research, remission is possible!
I have always moved at light speed and I still have two jobs but I am realizing that I need to slow down.
Hang in there!




samia
09 Dec 2011, 18:13
HI,
I am 32 years old and was diagnosed with RA last year after a long time of trying to figure out whats wrong with me. I am always tired and weak and can t even sleep. I feel restless all the time. I started ENbrel couple of mounts ago and it works I did feel better the first couple of weeks i started it. I am now sick again and can barely get up because I stooped Enbrel after some problems with insurance approval. Enbrel is short term but it helped me lot with the fatigue the pain stiffness and energy. I know that enbrel is expensive and some insurances won t cover it but try and ask your doctor. If you can t afford Enbrel try to contact ENBREL.com website and they will help. You need to take enbrel with metotrexate and folic acide. I am not on steroid again because I had to stop enbrel.
I just wanted to share my experience maybe I will help someone. I know what it feels like. No one understand how we feel even if you explain it.
I wish best of luck to all.
I you need to contact me my e-mail:
samiajawab@yahoo.com
Juhaszova
07 Dec 2011, 06:00
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Zully
06 Dec 2011, 23:54
Hi my name is zully and im 15 years old i was diagnosed with RA a few months ago and Im kind of new to this and im currently taking methotrexate . I feel horrible! im always tired and this year i cant even try out for my softball team :( Im always asleep in my classes i can barely walk this is killing me... i was wondering if you guys have any tips and more info on this. Please email me at zullygarcia1996@yahoo.com i just need help im new to this. And what should I expect in the future ? D:
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13 Nov 2011, 06:38
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Ruth
08 Nov 2011, 13:57
I'm 65 now but at 7 years old, I couldn't go upstairs without pulling myself, step by step. I went into the hospital for an evaluation and the diagnosis came back as Muscular Dystrophy. I walked into that hospital but came out in a wheelchair, that's how quickly things progressed. When I was 11, another doctor said I had juvenile arthritis and got me up and walking with braces & crutches and some therapy, I eventually got rid of the braces and crutches, walking with a limp. I've had flareups over the years, some were pretty bad. With one of these flareups, the rheumatalogist said the tests showed I had RA. You are all right: others can't imagine what it's like. I've been on prednisone and methotrexate which takes away some of the inflamation but not all. Joint pain is a given most of the time. Diagnosed with a thyroid problem as well and have recently developed 'trigger finger', which is worse upon waking. All we can do is find a doctor we trust, try meds to see which ones work the best & try to hang in there.

Oh, and pray - I'll leave no stone unturned and it's served me well in the past.
Linda
22 Sep 2011, 19:40
Michelle, RA causes fatigue - but so do anemia, fibromyalgia, sleep apnea, stress, etc. My advice is to see your doctor about other factors possibly adding to your fatigue. Some medications contribute to a weakened immune system; maybe it's possible to change your medication to one that's not likely to do that. A doctor - particularly a rheumatologist - may be able to give you the explanation your boss needs to hear. It's hard to believe, but mild exercise can help with fatigue and sleep issues. I wonder, too, whether there's anything that can lessen your exposure to viruses, flu, etc. - other than avoiding the classroom! Maybe hand sanitizer readily available to all, an air cleaner at home and in the classroom... I hope something works for you. Wishing you the best!
Michelle
14 Sep 2011, 07:39
Hi, my name is Michelle and I was diagnosed with RA at nineteen after being constantly fatigued. I am a teacher now and the fatigue is worse than ever. I love my job so much, but I am constantly getting sick (chest infections, viruses, flu etc). Does anyone know if there is a link between RA and a weakened immune system?? It is hard to explain to the boss why I am sick so often. Many days I come home and crash and can sleep for up to 14 hours. Other days I feel like I might fall asleep in class. Are there any tips to help me stop feeling this way? I eat extremely well, and take vitamins but I can't stop this fatigue or constant illness. Please, please help me!
Lorrie
07 Aug 2011, 13:07
I was extremely sick at age of 9,by the time I was 11 it was diagnosed RA it was agressively treated (experimental amounts I'm sure) of aspiirn & INH for TB**For the young people on here who have recently been diagnosed..I do know the feeling ,scary, anger...etc its not fair.I tried to keep up and I missed out on alot BUT dont EVER give up to it.I couldnt do PE teachers gave me F knowing my condition didnt even consider that tried.I was late for classes cause I couldnt get accross campus...but I tried. I got into swimming and found that was best for me.Just do as much as is physicallypossible for you.Take care of yourselves. I am an old bag now as my kids would say,(49) have all the things that go along with RA,my kids thought I was a "fun" mom cause I crawled around on the floor with them as babies...little did they know.I have head dr's amazed that I am NOT wheelchair yet with the mess my bones are.I have afew places over at the beach my family calls Moms spot" because its one more place where I have fallen on my face (or butt).I refuse to give in give up ~ I only recently started to actually ask for help because I have been to stubborn to.I had an Aunt Ruby who was the most beautifulexample of courage she had RA & I remember she & I being the same height as me at age 9 and seeing her stubbornly putting on a full supper for the entire family when we visited,she amazed me because she had fixed each and everyone of us something that was our favorite.Her hands were so crippled and she just moved along as if it were nothing to show us her love. I remember pitching in and thinking that summer I was diagnosed "If she can do it ,I can do it!" ..( the two of us zonked out right out afterwards in easy chairs though) After all these years I have new challenges and I deal with it as best I can..Oh and to the Drs who act like its some big surprise or such a far fetched diagnosis..they are clueless to the amount of fatigue & pain,one RA "specialist"I went to actuallysaid I didnt have RA ~amazing~I guess the box of cereal he got his doctorate in didnt explain remission period because the following week tests were positive and off the charts high. Found out later he was student intern ...As a matter of fact I took a bad fall last Feb and have had pain in arm it was treated like sprain.April found out its not healing because the "sprain" student intern dr claimed was fractures.Now I have large lumps on that too. extremely painful.Live learn.God bless to all
Linda M
03 Aug 2011, 23:11
Colleen - and others: I feel your discouragement, and sympathize, having been there myself. Now I'm finally making some progress after several years and many tries at finding help. Here, in short form, is what I find useful: gentle movements in a warm-water pool; Tramadol (for pain), Baclofen (a muscle relaxant), and one of the antidepressants (some are now approved for use in fibromyalgia and chronic pain). A good doctor or nurse who will work with you is very helpful - keep trying if you haven't found one yet. Find things that are nutritious and easy to eat if you have very low energy. Keep in touch with others who can understand - websites like this, support groups, psychologists. I wrote a longer version of my experience in the comments section of this website's article on Pain and Weather. I offer you my encouragement!
colleen
21 Jul 2011, 21:32
Hi my name is colleen i am 18 i was diagnosed with RA at the age of 13. i dont know much about it at all, when i first found out i had i my doctor told me i have the count of a 50yr old women. the last couple of years ha really been a stuggle i would say pain, fatigue, and depression an a scale from 1-10 would be a 20. i sence i have graduated i sleep at least 18 hours a day a when i wake up i feel like i was hit by a semi-truck. i keep losing weight i now weigh 85lbs and im still losing. if theres anyone that could help it would be greatly appreciated...please and thank you

you can also reach me at my email shoatscolleen@yahoo.com
Teresa
15 Jul 2011, 23:04
I Have had RA since 1996 only certain foods set me off with pain and being tired i can't take the RA meds because i am a kidney donor i gave my brother a kidney in 1981 does any one know of anything will help the pain and tiredness i am getting more of now? thanks
Vee
12 Jul 2011, 00:48
I am 35 years old ,diagnosed last year with RA and high blood pressure . Most meds I cannot take as I have just one kidney ,which isnt all that healthy , so I take Celexoib for pain , that works for an hour or so but then after it has worn off I am stuffed as I am on one tab a day . I use magnesium spray on my joints but then again temporary relief -take multivits and evening primrose oil tabs to TRY and ease the fatigue , it is something I need to try and get around as it is hard to cope .
Mary
10 Jul 2011, 06:44
I was diagnosed with psoriasis at 12 years old and psoriatic arthritis in my 30's. I am now 53. The medications help some with the pain and inflammation, but I agree that the fatigue is extremely disabing as well. I know that exercise is difficult to even imagine, but it helps me as much as any medication does. I've learned to look at it as what can I do rather than what can't I do. I'm a fighter and I won't give up.

I keep an exercise chart and aim to exercise a certain number of minutes every week. I pay myself a penny a minute for every minute I exercise. If I reach my goal that week, I throw in an extra buck or two. It's amazing how quickly it adds up and how much of a mental boost I get from it as well. A one minute walk counts. Stretching counts. Everything counts. I searched the internet and found dvd's for exercising while sitting in a chair. Chair yoga by the Stronger Seniors series is great. It's a 50 minute routine, but can be done in much smaller segments as a time.

Exercise doesn't have to be what other people subscribe to. It has to fit each person's life and circumstances. It helps me live better and sleep better.

AnnieBee
04 Jul 2011, 15:57
I am sitting here crying because I thought I was going crazy. I was diagnosed with RA a couple of years ago and did the plaquenil route but inflammation just got worse. Finally, 2 months ago, started on methotroxate and I feel even worse. Pain is gone, but fatigue is HORRIBLE. I just go back to bed and I am missing my life!!!! Thank you for helping me realize I must be an advocate for myself and get some help. This is absolutly horrible and I don't want to continue like I feel now. I will keep you posted.
Tami
24 Jun 2011, 23:48
Hi All... I've read a lot of the posts and believe this is a good way to vent. Most family and friends don't understand the full impacts on the quality of life when one has an auto-immune disease.
I'm very frustrated right now. I was diagnosed with RA, osteoporosis, and osteoarthritis at the age of 34, needless to say I freaked out. I recently turned 47 and have a full life as a working professional with a lot of interests and goals. I inject Humira and take other meds. I may have fibro.
I try to look to my Mom who is 65 as an example of someone who copes well with a lot of diseases besides RA. She was diagnosed at 29 and didn't have the same drugs as we do now. She's had 10 major implants, I think genetics keep her going with her positive attitude.
I, on the other hand, have more of my Dad's disposition. I've always been an over-achiever and still try this lifestyle until the RA kicks my butt with either extreme fatigue or infection.
My list of doctors tell me to pace myself.... I can't, I have 2 switches: on and off. I love it when I'm going and doing and experiencing all life has to offer... however, pain and fatigue overcome my mental goals.
So why am I posting this? Because I know there are others out there with these issues. And there is no solution at this time. I don't want to go on disability, I don't want to stop going 24/7... I'm afraid my body will eventually make these choices for me though.
I currently have what may be Giardia, I had Shingles last August, I had MRSA in 2008. Good grief, I feel like I need to live in a bubble!
So that's my story and it doesn't include a few other health issues. One thing that keeps me going is the memory of my youth and being a healthy child. For that I am truly blessed.
To people that are young or recently diagnosed, keep the faith... there have been dramatic changes in meds since I was diagnosed. To those of u who are not getting any treatment at all, please do so. This is a disease that must be treated to stop further debilitating damage.
Thanks to all for listening...
Emily
20 Jun 2011, 17:16
Thanks, Karin! I am going to have a conversation with my doctor about this at my next appointment.
Karin Weynen
16 Jun 2011, 00:10
Dear Emily,
I can relate to your fatigue. I'm on a treatment for RA for the past 20-something years and I remember having episodes of fatigue when I had to drop everything and sit down for an hour or two because I just wasn't able to function! He tortured me with thos vitamin B injections and told me to exercise. (I couldn't even walk - so tired!) About 4 years ago I moved to a different state and had to change my doctor too. When I told him how bad my fatigue could get, he asked me a bunch of questions and diagnosed fibromyalgia. Now I'm taking Lyrica and my energy levels are really great! Can't complain! I'm not saying that you have fibromyalgia, but there could be something else that he didn't address yet. PS - I even joined a gym 6 months ago! :)
Emily
11 Jun 2011, 07:59
I am a 27 year old who has been living with RA for about seven years. While I am able to go to work every day, I am tired throughout the day and can't even bring myself to cook dinner when I get home. I also normally fall asleep early and oftentimes am so tired that I am unable to get ready for bed. My doctor said that my fatigue is most likely the result of my stressful job, not my RA, but it seems strange because I used to have so much energy and I'm not exactly at an age where it's normal to be so burned out.
My doctor doesn't want to take me off of Methotrexate because he thinks that other medications are unproven and potentially dangerous and also thinks that it's working for me because I don't have very much joint damage. Does anyone have any suggestions for how to overcome fatigue? Exercise did help for a while, but it's really challenging to find the time given my busy schedule. Thanks!
Katie
09 Jun 2011, 09:48
Have been sitting here reading all your posts, it's good to know that we're not alone in our pain & fatigue. I was diagnosed with RA approx. 16 yrs ago. the drs. think my RA is a result of untreated Lymes disease,(which I test positive for) I am now 50. I have also been through a regimen of drugs, Plaguenil, prednizone, pain meds, methotrexate, anti-depressants, natural remedys and so on... recently my blood work has shown that the RA is out of remission and active again. As you all have stated the Fatique is debilitating and not understood by the ones closest to us. I go to work and do yardwork everyday as I don't want this disease to rule my life, but right now it's not so easy!! I am in the process of starting Enbril, going for TB test today. Some of your comments on your results from the Enbril injections are giving me hope that I can feel better soon. Thank you!! Good luck to all. Keep the faith!
Jaemae
07 Jun 2011, 09:45
I wanted to mention I know that I am not doing anything to stop the progression of RA. Yet. I can't get my head around going on Enbral only to possibly to develop some kind of cancer. Has anyone else struggled with this decision?
Jaemae
07 Jun 2011, 09:42
It's such a relief to have this site. I'm 45 yr old female. Diagnosed w/ RA over a year ago. Every med the rhuematologist prescribed made me sick as a dog. I stopped going. Now I'm on mobic,cymbalta( helped!), and percocet.Working with my GP to control symptoms. Saw him yesterday and asked him what I can do about the debilitating bouts of fatigue. He said excersice. EXCERSISE! I can't even make it from one room to the next, or stay in an upright position and he says excersise. I think they really don't have a clue. So it's really nice to be able to come to a place where people understand. Thank you for sharing all of your stories. Stay strong and keep the faith!
John
12 May 2011, 00:48
I've had RA for about 16 years. I began with Plaquenil and was on for a few years, but it was minimally helpful. Then discontinued Plaquenil and was prescribed Methotrexate which helped, but my fatigue was getting much worse and I began missing more and more work. My rheumatologist added Enbrel (50mg SureClick) to methotrexate and I feel fabulous. This is the best I've ever felt. Pain is reduced and my fatigue seems to be almost eliminated. I am able to work and do so much more than ever. You may not have the same results, but I'm quite happy.
Susie
11 May 2011, 19:14
Greetings, and thank you for your posts. RA just attacked me last week out of the blue, I guess this is called a flare. Ugh. There's a great website you should visit: www.butyoudontlooksick.com Look for "the Spoon Theory" to help explain how you feel to friends and family.
Merle Reynolds
14 Apr 2011, 00:10
Thanks for all of your stories. I've had fibromyalgia for years.....dx with RA in 2/11, now on lo dose predisone and plaquinil. Pain is much better, except for neck and shoulders. The mind-numbing fatigue is devastating. The muscles in my back literally feel that they cannot hold me up anymore. Thanks for all of your suggestions. I think my biggest frustration is that no one can see it, or know how this feels unless they have been there.
Barb
13 Apr 2011, 20:01
To All,
I have also been diagnosed with RA a little over a year ago. I started with Methotrexate, Folic acid, then added Plaquenil. I had a year of living in pain continuously, trying to work, kids and come home to a house that needed picking up. Prednisone shots kept me moving. Plaquenil was added and now it the pain is not so bad but the fatigue is unforgiving. I don't know how to help myself with this. My family and friends just think I am tired all the time. It is way more than that, as all of you know. I want to be able to do the things I use to do and have energy and move without pain lurking in the shadows....it's so sad. :(
Jen
12 Apr 2011, 14:19
I am a 37 yo mother of 2, diagnosed 1 year ago with RA. Currently taking Methotrexate, Plaquenil, Folic acid, Naproxen and Vitmain D. I feel that some of the pain and AM stiffness has improved with the medication ,however the fatigue is intolerable. I am also experiencing a lot of side effects from the methotrexate. Not sure what else to do......
Becky
10 Apr 2011, 23:35
I've been reading all of the posts from you fine folks who are suffering with RA. A few of you were looking for advice, and there are a few things that raised read flags. One, take the meds that are offered for RA. Yes, there are side effects, some dangerous, but I would rather take the risk than to not be able to work or take care of myself. Two, find a doctor who will sign the papers so you can go on Social Security Disability!!!
If you can't work because you are in too much pain, let your doctor know! Three, sometime Prednisone is your friend. Even at a low dose, where the side effects will be less. It really is the quality of life that counts! FOUR, RA medications like Enbrel, Humira and Methotrexate decrease the progression of RA. RA is very progressive disease, it destroys the joints and fuses them, which may eventually require joint replacement. FIVE - the most important - STRESS is a factor in the illness - my doctor told me that stress affects RA by as much as 50 percent. Basically, do what you have to do to get SSDI, get Medicaid or a relative to help you pay for the medications so you can function, reduce stress, find a doctor who will help you. As I said, it's the QUALITY of life and stopping the progression of RA that are most important!
Becky
10 Apr 2011, 23:02
I was first diagnosed with RA in my 30's, and it came on rather suddenly, after having virus after virus one whole winter. My general practitioner referred me to a rheumatologist as I could no longer wear shoes (my feet were too swollen) and could no longer dress myself without help. My ESR or sediment level was very high (a high sediment level is an indication of inflammation). The rheumatologist did every blood test he could think of - I was checked for lupus and Lyme disease - and a CCP factor, which is the definitive test for rheumatoid arthritis. The CCP factor came back high, which also idicates how the disease progresses. I thank God for my wonderful rheumatologist, but I am dependant on prednisone now, which gave me type 2 diabetes. With the exception of fibro, most illnesses will show up in blood tests. It's helpful to have medical insurance that will cover the diagnosis and treatments. I was so ill before the RA was diagnosed that I was yelling at my doctor, telling him I was going to have a nervous breakdown if something wasn't done soon. I know if I was ill enough, I would keep going to doctors until I found one that would figure out why I was so ill. Best of luck!
Becky
10 Apr 2011, 22:36
It would be nice if a person's life was adaptable to how tired a person is (or how ill), but it doesn't work that way for most people. We still have to get up in the morning and go to work (well, most of us do, anyway). Relatives and doctors just don't get it that you can't sleep well when you're in pain and that you're tired ALL OF THE TIME, their snappy comeback is to exercise and lose some weight. I've had RA for about 7 years, and it's been nothing short of SHEER HELL. I am taking Humira, Methotrexate and prednisone for several years, and now figuring out that vitamin D does help a little, but cutting out foods from the nightshade family of vegetables (potatoes and tomatoes) may help the RA symptoms by about 20 percent. It's worth a try, and it's been a week.
Marta
06 Apr 2011, 21:43
The article addresses rheumatoid arthritis but the symptoms described are what I experience and suffer from but have been told all have is osteoarthritis. But before 2005 when I had my knee(left) replaced I had been suffering from aches and pain in my joints after the surgery(2005) it got worse now I have arthrits in the lower spine, my hands, and in my right leg. There days I don't even want to move and I hurt so badly I have taken so many drugs to calm the arthritis but to no avail. I wonder at times if I have been diagnosed correctly. I want stop feeling this way.
Rosemary
06 Apr 2011, 19:37
Hello, I am a 49yr old RN and have suffered with Severe RA since I was 36 and Fibromyalgia since age 41. The pain is always there, even with Humira, Methotrexate, Plaquenil and Tramadol. I think that the fatigue is more debilitating than the pain, there are days that I feel like I could just stay in bed and die. I do keep busy, I go to work everyday and won't let this disease get the best of me. I don't exercise, I know that it would help with the fatigue but the pain is too much some days that after working I don't have much left over. I'm thankful that I just recently found this site, it's so helpful. This blog is great thanks to all that posted! I pray someday there will be a cure for RA and Fibromyalgia. Good Luck to All!
Susan
06 Apr 2011, 11:02
I take Vicodin @ night for the pain. 6 mos. ago I had my right knee completely replaced w/ a prothesis & it's been a long recovery for me, I have severe RA.

I am walking the track @ the Y w/ several inches of cushioning & found this has really helped w/ my recovery. I like to think that while I'm @ the Y, I'm a "recreational athlete". Unfortuantely @ the Drs. offices, just a patient. Endorphins really kick in @ the Y! So never give up!
Kimberley
06 Apr 2011, 09:37
I was diagnosed with fM and RA 4 years ago. I am 55 and have had problems since I was 30. The fatigue set in at 35 and got worse each year. Al of my joints ache and at night the pain is excrutiating. None of my doctors could get me any relief. I was eating 12-16 200mg ib a day and my stomache was killing me. Finally a PA gave me tramadol (ultram) and the majority of pain melted away. It is not a narcotic. I have had doctors tell me it IS habit forming. But given the fact I can work, play, clean my own house and hold my grandchildren I can see why. I take 1x 50mg in am and late afternoon if necessary. Mostly just 1 in am lasts all day. I don't know if this will work for you, but it gave me my life back.
Darlene
06 Apr 2011, 08:43
I've had an issue with joint and muscle pain since I was 15 I am now 54. Back in the day, you just kept going and ignored it especially if you were a woman. Now at 54 I can hardly hold my new grandson. I've been put through so many tests in all the years and nothing ever shows up, so they gave me depression pills because "it's all in my head" they more or less have said, sending me to physiologist. I've gained weight because I can't do too much in fear of the pain I will be in the next day. I want to be able to do things that I use to do and all the Doctors blow me off as a hypochondriac and after 31 years of marriage so does my husband! As the other ladies have said, I need help.
Debbie
06 Apr 2011, 07:12
I have had fibro since the age of 14 years. The fatigue is debilitating. I am able to hold a job, partly because I HAVE to. I tell myself that I HAVE to do this, that, etc. The real problem is that when I get home, I am truly exhausted. Aparrently I have the reputation within our family of being a couch potatoe. When my step daughter called me, and she is really a very sweet person, and said "Don't get off of the sofa". I wasn't on the sofa, but aparrently my husband just thinks I am lazy. GEEEZZZ.
Dale
06 Apr 2011, 06:28
Hi Everyone, I am a woman, almost 65 y/o. I have suffered from Chronic Fatigue Immune Dys. Syndrome/Fibromyalgia since childhood. The fatigue was always my worst symptom, altho. I have suffered pain ever since I can remember. As I age, it seems I just progress more & more. I sleep with a c-pap machine & oxygen. I was SO sure that would take care of the relentless fatigue, but nothing has changed other than that I finally stopped gasping for air most of the time.

I also have arthritis through most of my body. It just seems we all share so many of the same symptoms when inflammation is such a major issue in our bodies. I have been going to the gym for five yr. My drs. have told me I NEED to go. Well, my drs. aren't the ones feeling my extreme pain & fatigue & I truly do feel that I have made my health issues worse with the exercise.

Everything is such a struggle just to get up to go somewhere, let alone to have to do something physical like I've been doing & know I have been overdoing it exercise wise. Even just the water aerobics have exhausted me. I finally gave my notice that I am leaving. My drs. won't be happy, but perhaps maybe I will be able to "find myself" just a little to reclaim a house that looks as if I care one more time. Never having an oz. of energy & being in such pain puts me in despair.

The dr. gave me some pain meds to try, but like with everything else, they have their side effects & going to have to see if I can find other alternatives. All any of us want is some comfort zone on a daily basis & that just eludes all of us it seems. Thank you for letting me vent & you are not alone. I may not have RA, gratefully, but many of my symptoms are the same as yours. Gentle hugs to all of you.
Lacey
05 Apr 2011, 22:09
I am 28 yrs old and have been having so much fatigue and pain snce my daughter was born 2yrs ago. It happens mainly at night when I lay down. My arms can not lay in certain positions for to long or they ache and go numb. My neck and shoulder hurt so bad sometimes I cry and sharp pains shoot down to my wrist. My shoulder sometimes pops so loud it sounds like I broke it. I haven't seen a doctor about any of these issues because I'm afraid I'll be misdiagnosed. Do you think it could be arthritis?
molly blackburn
05 Apr 2011, 18:45
I have fibromyalgia as the umbrella dx and many other dx also and my daughter also has fibro which led to a cardia condition dxed @ Cleveland Clinic when she was 15 POTS (Postural Orthostatic Tachycardia Syndrome). She was dx. with fibro @ 12 & it was 15 doctors & gazillion needles & tests to get that far. There were 3 other cardiac issues we dealt with & once they were worked on & doctored properlly she only has the POTS & fibro today. She is 29 & takes one day at a time & has been out of the house for 1 full year which was a questionable goal at one time. She is thriving on the beauty of each day even with her pain & havin to be very careful & also having to know the medicine is between her & the bed & wheelchair. God has been good. I had to quit my job & still grieve over the loss of 25 years in the insurance industry but
I have found I am in this place at this time for a reason far bigger than me & if I am obedient day by day & watch for the opportunities provided--I am able to help & learn through my pain & fatigue
Kathryn
05 Apr 2011, 18:29
I am 62 years old & was diagnosed with Lupus & RA 12 years ago. I'm on Arava right now. Sometimes I think it helps, but days like today, I'm just not so sure. Pain in every joint, like they're on fire and so darned tired I just want to cry. Can't sleep though. I know I should be getting more exercise, but it's all I can do to get myself to work each day. On the weekends I have to catch up on what's needed at home, so, come Monday, I'm a mess. I'm thinking I may need to go back on Plaquenil, but I don't know. What a crap disease.
roselea laufenberg
05 Apr 2011, 17:51
i have read many of the comments here. i am convinced that doctors simply do not know how to treat any form of arthritis because there is no REAL treatment. i have fibromyalgia and i am so depleted i despair of life some days. my faith is the only hope i have. for those with thyroid problems, i have started taking iodine plus 2 which is a natural supplement. it has to be purchased online thru web md.com. i seem to be coming back slowly, but since i am 60 now, i don't know what will be. i have always been extremely active and this is killing me. i do not want to take these "maybe" prescriptions because i firmly believe they just poison your body and cause more diseases. prayer helps a WHOLE LOT.
Cheryl
05 Apr 2011, 16:58
I am an RN with Fibro. Folks need to realize that "fatigue" is not the same as "being tired". Fatigue is an all encompassing, knock you on your behind, your legs won't hold you up , and you dont have the strength or energy to lift your arms over your head type of exhaustion. Fibromyalgia is known for this. I have had breast cancer with radiation and possibly have undifferentiated spondylitis. These all can cause this type of fatigue. RA is no different in that respect. If you are able to get some sleep at night, you wake up just as exhausted. My fatigue is worse than my pain!
Tammi
05 Apr 2011, 16:51
I've had Psoriatic arthritis for 6 years now and am very blessed to have my Enbrel shots work a miracle on me every week. I make sure to eat right and really watch my wieght, exercise at Curves everyday (even though I'm tired sometimes and it hurts most workouts) and get at least 8 hours sleep EVERY night! My Rhuematologist calls me his poster child and that makes me proud! I pray everyday for a cure for this terrible disease.
SeaSand45
05 Apr 2011, 16:48
I had just logged in my daily journal about the sense of being so tired and low on energy
when this article poopped up. How grateful I am for the "wake up" call to seriously look at what might be causing the tired feeling and not sweep it under the rug. When I read the comments I know am blessed to have OA but that I must "pay attention" to the signs of my body-tiredness, irritability and depression. So thanks to all of you for providing such serious comments that surely help umany to know that many are sharing such similar concerns. I pray for all with such difficult conditions and encourage you to "stay in the fight" and keep sharing your experiences so others will also be informed and encouraged.
Audrey Burgess
05 Apr 2011, 15:33
The subject on arthritis etc. was real helpful.

Thank you.
Linda
05 Apr 2011, 15:16
This all sounds so much like me but I have never had a doctor smart enough to diagnose me with RA. I even told one doctor that's what I had and the arrogant idiot looked at my hands and said I didn't. He said I had osetoarthritis. This all began 14 years ago, about 6 months after the birth of my 5th child. I started to feel tired all the time and I didn't put this together for years but also started to get joint pain. I was 38.
Also, for about 10 years, didn't relate it to my poor grandmother who suffered so much for years and now I walk like she did and understand how she suffered. My husband at the time just made fun of me and told me I was faking it to get out of working. This attitude filtered down to my older children.
I had a sixth child the next year and it was a very difficult pregnancy not helped by being 40. I couldn't walk the length of the grocery store.
This all continued to progress and I gained weight from inactivity and now, have many other symptoms including 2 eye diseases, thyroid problems, digestive problems, everything hurts all the time, My memory is going, have sound and light sensitivity and I have lots of pain in my breasts which I don't think is related but haven't been to a doctor is years cause I don't have any insurance. I did go for one issue and it cost $660 for 10 minutes. I can't sit at a desk and work without severe neck pain. I can't stand having to live like this.
After I broke up from my husband, I worked for 4 years just to provide a home for my kids. I was in terrible pain and fatigue everyday and when I got home would sometimes yell at my kids. They resent that now. After my ex screwed with the support enough that I lost my house, I quit my job and have only worked one temp job since then. My unemployment is about to run out and I don't know what I'll do because I know I can't physically even handle an office job.
Audey Burgess
05 Apr 2011, 15:13
Helped a litle to understand it.

kathy
05 Apr 2011, 15:10
I forgot to post this,....chronic illnesses do weigh heavily on those of us who suffer with them. This is something that many of us, because we are so exhausted, fail to discuss, in length with our physicians. It is not a stigma to seek help for depression, etc. What is stigmatic is to ignore it, and suffer inwardly, as well as out, and forcing others (our loved ones), to watch as we decline spiritually, and mentally. Seek help,..please! Do not give up, or give in. If I can do it, with all of the things I have to deal with,...you can too! Ty. :).
kathy
05 Apr 2011, 15:04
While reading this article, I realized that my health problems are overlapping, and I may not be seeking out the type of treatment that I require, and that others need to have information like this to assist them in feeling better,..getting well.

Eleven years ago, I was diagnosed with fibromyalgia, Sjogren's syndrome, connective tissue disorder, by a rheumatologist. He attempted a myriad of medications to curb the pain, exhaustion, etc., but nothing worked. After about a year, he retired, and due to where I live (the boonies),there were no other specialists in this area, were available to pick up my case.

When the pain became so unbearable, I was forced to a pain clinic, and when through years of misery from side-effects of certain meds. Finally, another pain clinic doctor prescribed a low dose of morphine, twice a day, and the pain is now bearable. However, after I was initially diagnosed, as per the above, my general practitioner conducted blood tests, and discovered that my thyroid was not working properly. This problem began about a decade ago, as well.

My thyroid seemed to work, then stop, then start, then stop. My g.p. prescribed a high does of synthroid, and it made be quite sick to my stomach, so he told me to stop taking it, but did not lower the dose or prescribe any other medication for this problem. In fact, he told me that stomach upset was "unheard of". Not so, as per my pharmacist, and new doctor (internist).

So many things happened to me since the initial diagnosis a decade ago, that my thyroid was not a priority. I was diagnosed with breast cancer, for the second time, during this period, as well as chronic myelogenous (sp.) leukemia. So, my thyroid was pushed to the back burner, and none of the five doctors I was seeing, said a thing about addressing that particular problem.

Over the next few years, my g.p. suddenly left the area, with ninety days notice, and I was blessed to be able to see a new, and wonderful internist, who is addressing my thyroid, and other issues, properly. I am back on synthroid, a low dose, and I do feel better, but not like I used to, a decade ago.

As most know, fibro is an umbrella condition, and the initial rheumy also discovered arthritis in my neck and shoulders. It dawned on me, last month, that my fatigue may not only be the result of a non-functioning thyroid, but also the result of Sjogren's, arthritis, and fibro combined.

I also discovered that due to radiation treatment for breast cancer, it is possible that because I am a woman, over 50 years of age, and did receive radiation for cancer, that this is the proximate result of my failing thyroid.

My point here is that I also never seriously considered the effects of arthritis on how horrible I feel,...completely exhausted daily. I discounted it, as I ignored the thyroid problem, but I now realize that I need to find another rheumy doctor, and address not only the arthritis, but the Sjogren's.

It's exhausting to be me, but this magazine has helped me to put things in perspective. I had the misfortune of continuing to see a g.p., who was not a very good doctor. I was overwhelmed with all of the developing health problems, but he should have known better.

Thankfully, I read this magazine, regularly, and am now more aware of not only the over-lapping symptoms, but I am now aware that each one needs addressed properly, by the proper specialist.

Thank you "Arthritis Today". If not for the articles I read here, I would not be as educated as I, evidently, need to be in order to attempt to regain my health.

I think the lesson I learned is, if you do not have faith in your doctor, see somebody else right away! I had this nagging feeling of doubting my g.p., for years, but failed to make the necessary change. I will never, ever do that again!
Audrey Burgess
05 Apr 2011, 14:43
I found this very interesting and hope I can get some releif trying some of the products
listed.

Thank you
Charlotte Turner
05 Apr 2011, 14:42
15 years ago I was diagnosed with a degenerating nerve disorder that made me unable to work. I was a nurse and I still cry to think of my career is over. I had all sorts of tests and I finally got the news that I have minor RA some OA and Fibro. too. I was also diagnosed with Thoracic Outlet Syndrome. This includes carpel and cubital tunnel disease mainly on my left side involves my neck, left shoulder, left arm and left foot. My RA is just beginning in my hands and toes. It's hard for me to know which of these diagnoses is "the" most painful most days. It all hurts and my depression is a chronic condition from this disease process. I hope that you don't think that I am whinning. Far from it, I have a four year old grandson who keeps Amma on her toes. I pre-medicate as one doctor advised me to do before any activity. I require meds to help me sleep more than three-four hours a night. I can't work but I volunteer to crochet and sew things for some of the local charities, things that I can do at home.I get stiff when I sit in one position for long periods of time. It all goes with the territory and I'm not going to quit because of it. That would make the disease the winner.
tonie
05 Apr 2011, 13:03
Good article. I have RA, FMS and OA. The fibro REALLY makes me so tired. I still work 40 hrs (most weeks) and so I am exhausted when I get home, but I try to do some things. But there are a lot of days, when I just change into my jammies, eat and go to bed.
I have made a lot of changes in my diet. For some reason I have become pretty much gluten intolerant, so I eat very little, if any. Rediscovered oatmeal for breakfast, greek yogurt with some fruit for lunch, then something with protein for dinner. THis has been helping me feel better some. I have junk ocassionally ):
Trying to walk at lunch, doing housework, etc.
I am really getting worse and I know it , but am changing as my body does, trying to adapt and not think of the things I cannot do now that i used to just finding other things I CAN do. GOd BLess all of you and I pray for your pains and problems
Tonie
Marcos
05 Apr 2011, 12:49
I was diagnosed with RA two years ago. And like everyone that left these testimonies,it really hurts!! There are days when I'm ok, but then a day or two later, I can't even get out of bed. It hurts to move around. So then I sit down and after awhile it hurts to do that. I'm on Sulfasalazine. It makes me sick, so I think I may need to try something else. I have it real bad in my back, hips and shoulders. I'm 36 years old, and I thought that was too young. But my doctor told me he knew a couple of cases where babies were born with it. So it doesn't matter how old you are. I have a cousin that was diagnosed with RA when he was 14 years old. Reading all these testimonies has made me look at this in a new light. I'm not the only one, and just to hear all the stories good and bad shows me I can cope. Thank you all, and to all you others just experiencing this horrible disease, hang in there. You are not alone.
Linda
05 Apr 2011, 12:03
I also have Rheumatoid Arthritis. I was first diagnosed at 26 but I am sure I have had it since a small child. I am now 62 years old. My hands are severely deformed as well as my feet. I have contractures in my legs and arms but I feel blessed because I can still get around pretty well. I have been on many medications in my life but the best is placquenil for me. I also take MSM 500 mg. 2x day as well as ibuprophen and loritab as needed for pain. It is very debilating but I find I do better when I exercise and find things to do rather than to dwell on my illness.
Marlene
05 Apr 2011, 11:54
I am so glad i took the time to read all the above comments. I have Fibromyligia, sjogrens syndrone,Arthritis,RA and now Psoriatic arthritis. Tried many of the meds as you all and now on Enbrelinjections once a week been 6 weeks and do find some improvement in pain but the fatigue is terrible i have maybe 2 good days then I am so exhausted I sleep so much. I have cryed over the fatigue but now see how similar I am to all not alone in this battle.Still have problems fith hands and pain in big toe and toe next to it and some on bottom of foot. But still better then before,If only i could control the fatigue. You all have been very informative thanks prayers to all all take care the best u can
christa
05 Apr 2011, 11:52
i have had ra since i was 11. i am 25 now. when i was first diagnosed doctors kept telling me it was growing pains. so we dealt with it until the pain got worse. they put me on such high dosages of prednisone that i now cannot stop the medication without a huge flare because my body cannot produce its own steriod. i have take all kinds of meds and found that humira works best for me. it has lessen the flares and fatigue a bit and makes life a little easier. now i am correcting my deformed hands and feet and trying to lessen my steroid intake. its a hard process but worth it.its hard and sometimes i cry because it becomes to much but staying positive has been the best medicine for me.
Mary
05 Apr 2011, 11:45
I was diagnosed with RA 4 years ago and just like some of you it hit me like a ton of bricks. It was very depressing at first and not everyone understood that. I have a great Dr who has tried many things. I am currently taking 10 methotrexate and also Enbrel once a week. Besides some fatuge I feel really good. i get an occasional flare but the prednisone takes care of that. There is meds out there to help, you just need to find the right fit. Enbrel also has financial assistants. Good luck and good health to all.
sue
05 Apr 2011, 10:51
I have had RA for 7 years and I find fatigue to be incredibly frustrating. While I have fatigue, I also have difficulty sleeping. I try to exercise regulary (although now have been diagnosed with frozen left shoulder) and eat well. Mostly I take one day at a time and try to enjoy the days that I feel well. Wishing everyone pain free days!!!!
Donna Cutrera
05 Apr 2011, 10:44
I've been diagnosed with RA for about 10 years now. I was in my early 40's when I just couldn't take the flare-ups anymore. I couldn't move my arm away from my body without pain. It took the doctors FOREVER to accept that I had RA, they kept saying I was too young, and lets try this test, and this test, and this test...all came back consistent with RA.

I take methotrexate...but its not enough. I'm tired all the time! And I'm tired of being tired. People just don't understand what it's like, I just don't have the energy to do anything anymore. I'm also on another med...I can't remember the name right now, but it's 4 horse pills daily. They upset my stomach, but what else can I do? Not take the meds and have the flare-ups?

I tell the doctor how tired I am, he either doesn't listen or doesn't understand. The last doctor I had would say, "ah your probably just depressed...get over it". Well, I got over him and found a new doctor. But the fatigue is the same...always there.

The meds I'm on seem to help with the flare-ups...they're the worst. Especially when they come in my shoulders, you can't lay down cause it hurts, you can't sit up and lean back cause it hurts...at those times you just try to sit as comfortable as possible, sleep in the comfy recliner and cry.
Don Stephens
03 Apr 2011, 17:49
I have been taking methotrexate for about 10 years now and I had to stop because it was making me sick. Is there another drug I can take in its place? I also get Orencia infusions once a month.I would also like to know if there is an equivalent to prednisone. I have been taking it since I was diagnosed 11 years ago.
Annie
27 Mar 2011, 11:43
I am sitting here crying as I read your stories. Mine is the same - pain, fatigue, sleeping or resting seems all that is comfortable. I am depressed and tired of feeling so old. My doctor just started me on sulfasalazine and I am putting all my hopes on that. I also take Quinine. No one understands the mental anguish of this disease and the dibilitating effects of pain and inability to move. Thank you all for becoming my newfound comrades. I do feel I have to fight each day to overcome this and to live a "normal" life. I feel so alone sometimes.
jan
24 Mar 2011, 12:31

i too have ra and i am already so tired of this i could (and do) cry about it. i have found out a lot of the things i have read here sound just like me.i was diagnosed 9 years ago and since then my pain my fatigue andmy flare ups just drive me crazy.i think the flare ups are the worst.they have literally put me in bed for days at a time. i am very active and this really takes it toll on me.i am 55 years old and cannot see a dr.because i have no ins. and the state i live in does not have sny gov. aid with insurance because i dont fit the criteria.so o well i do my best to deal with the flare ups and fatigue.i am so glad i found this site because i really thought that i had just gotten lazy as i got older but now i see that it really is a very real part of ra..i have a wonderful daughter that comes to help me when i cant raise my arm far enough to take my shirt off or wash my hair i live alone so it sometimes it gets really hard to deal with. i had a flare up in my jaw once and couldn't eat for a couple of days only liquids and yes i feel like i have the flu. sooooo tired. i do not get to take any meds because of my ins problem so i just deal with it the best i can. i too fight depression every day and that is not any easier to deal with it as the ra. i do feel better just knowing there are others out like me although i hate it for each of you. may god bless each and everyone of us.
cheryl murphy
18 Mar 2011, 19:19
I enjoyed this site due to the fact that I have Ostioaruthristis, and now RA, five back surgeries, Iron Defisioncy Anemia since 2001. My husband left me and my Adopted CP daughter (which was his natuarl daughter), because he thought I was lazy and just wanted a paycheck and I was sick alot. Joke on me, he left me for his first cousin. The pain I go through is unbareable, I take Methadone, and my Ra Dr. has tried 2 meds. and I got real sick. Iam in a depression and life is unbearable.
Kay
04 Mar 2011, 15:42
I have been larthagic for a while now and just gone on a diet and I bought my self an exercise bike. I have had pains up my left arm and this week I've had pains in my nuckles and my hands feel swollen could this be RA?
Rachel
23 Feb 2011, 07:56
I was diagnosed with RA almost 2 years ago. It came on almost overnight and got worse each day until I could barely walk or drive. I went on a gluten free diet and was tested for allergies. I'm also dairy free and stay away from other foods I am allergic too. I am on meds but only Plaquenil and very low dose of Prednisone and I'm doing very well except for the swelling in my hands now. I find I do get fatigued if I don't exercise...kind of sounds backwards but the exercise actually seems to help the fatigue. I wish the best to everyone here.
Christie
12 Feb 2011, 06:40
I recently found out I had Arthritis. I'm 16 in may and I found out I had the symtoms. It was a shock because I knew I was ill but I didn't know people as young as me could be affected by Arthritis and I don't know what to do to prevent it. I sleep 14 hours a day, I have aches and pains in my back and sides. I saw my doctor and he said it was very rare to have it at my age. What can I do?
Rachel
01 Feb 2011, 15:29
Hello Everyone, it is both encouraging and sad to see so many people responding to this post. I'm turning 30 in a week and I was first diagnosed with RA at 19. I have to say, at first the fatigue and the pain was really hard and I took a whole host of medications to get me through the day. But, at age 25, I was given Humira and it changed my life. I was an active person before I got RA, I liked to run and played many sports, but RA got the best of me. But, with Humira I slowing began to do the things that I loved. Unfortunately, infections set in and I am now on Orenicia which doesn't work quite as well. But, to those out there with fatigue and who might be scared, just try to get as much sleep as you can and exercise and don't over do it. Also, please talk to your rheumatologist and he/she will hopefully give you some tips to cope. Hang in there!
Gabriel
14 Jan 2011, 19:57
Keep warm, keep moving, eat healthy, never give up. I was first diagnosed with JRA at age 3, it went straight for the heart (imagine being three and feeling already at your wits end, unfortunately there are many who don't have to imagine), now age 24 and on remission for almost a decade, I can't bend my wrists all the way, my neck has issues, and my ankle limits how much I can walk. I use to be afraid of going to sleep, not knowing if I'll wake up the next day. I almost lost the ability to walk, but I fought hard to keep being able to walk. Even to this day, I remember all of it, my body remembers what it feels like. I told myself to remember because there are people who would think that children cannot have arthritis, people I use to call friends would call me a liar and that arthritis is something only old people get, and some students who would pick on me just because they thought I was lying about being sick. I want people to know children can get it too so that others like me don't get picked on for it, and believe me, I remember talking to other teens about it back at Camp Esperanza and hearing similar stories (I notice on comments some people post what meds they're on, at camp we compared ours too, maybe it's human nature, we want to know and be known). Yet regardless of how the world might treat us or how much pain we endure, I believe, outlook in life is important. I admit there were times that I was depressed, there was a time when my emotions were so far gone out of existence, in leadership training I learned what happened to me then was called an emotional death; all of it will pass if you let it pass, you can regain your emotions if you never give up on it. Finding motivation to keep moving is important. For me that motivation was a mix of love and fear, but mostly love. I was afraid that the moment I give up would be the moment my body gives up, so even when I get depressed, I'd use it as a fuel to not give up by telling myself to stand back up. Mostly, I was afraid to be lost to the people I love, family, friends, girlfriend <3. Almost a decade ago, I still remember the doctor was a bit baffled that I not only survived but I went on remission even after my body stopped responding to the medication. Maybe it's because I never gave up hope, maybe it was the grace of God, or maybe I'm just lucky. I do know, if I didn't fight it, if I had just given up, what I was afraid of really would have happened. I remember, when my fingers are too weak to button my own clothes, when I can't lift my shoulders to even put on my own shirt, to always be thankful to that someone I love who is there to help me. When I was a kid, I was told "when life gives you lemons, make lemonade," and the moment I was told that, a truck full of lemonades passed us up in the car and we laughed. It's not easy living with RA, it's not easy for our loved ones either. We feel tired all the time, we're hurting, and it pains our loved ones to see us in pain, but it's those good things, even the things long in the past, like old friends, and things that could be in the future, like possibly meeting interesting people, that helped keep going the most, it was those people that kept me fighting for my life. In physical therapy, I learn dipping my hands in a paraffin bath coupled with stretches and exercise helps regain range of motion. So I figure things like hot showers or baths followed by exercise, or going to a heated pool would also help (if anything it feels nice, until you get out that is, getting out of the hot water is always the dreadful part, it's bad enough that it's cold when you get out, but because it's cold you shiver and shivering only adds to pain right?). Last time I had an x-ray of my writs a decade ago, it was inconclusive whether or not the bones fused, I'm lucky that neither the bones in my neck nor the bones ankles haven't fused. I've had it worse than some, but I've had it better than many. It gives all of us pain and can greatly reduce our mobility and even our vision. It could attack my heart like it did before, but that I wont let it stop me from being me, from loving the people important to me, from wanting to smile and laugh for even the smallest glimmer of joy, unless I let it. It's all a battle, coping with all of it, the stiffness, the pain, the fatigue, being stuck in bed all day during the bad, stormy days. It's like Daisy commented on april 29th, 2010, "your ATTITUDE is everything." I really do believe coping starts from there, it has to start some where. If anything, know that remission is possible, reach for it, even if it takes years. I am stubborn, I always tell myself, "don't ever go down without a fight and never forget why I fight for my life."
Ernie Lerma
12 Jan 2011, 15:24
Yes I have had RA for 3yrs. now and the endless of pain of stiffness never ends. I never had gotten up each day with a different feeling of better. I take one day at a time. I'm on lots of meds. And even Rituxian it seems like it helps.
Megan
22 Nov 2010, 14:11
I have been dealing with Rheumatoid Arthritis for the past three years. Getting on methotrexate has improved my life tremendously. Don't be afraid of the side effects. And don't just take natural remedies in hope that it will help. If natural remedies really did help-do you honestly think Doctors would be using drugs? Don't continue to suffer. I am 21 and the only way I have been able to enjoy my life again is with drugs such as methotrexate.

This is a really hard disease to go through, if anyone needs or wants to talk, my email is megz89@gmail.com.
Kim
17 Nov 2010, 19:35
I was diagnosed with RA 5 months ago but have been having symptoms since I was 16. I'm 22 now but feel more like 92. For me the worst part is the fatigue. I can deal with being in pain, but I just can't take being this tired anymore. I feel like I have no life- I never feel up to going out with friends or doing anything except laying on the couch. I was on plaquenil but had to stop it because of side effects, and am now on sulfasalazine but I don't think it's helping. My doctor wants me to go on methotrexate but I'm scared of the side effects. But at this point i feel like I have nothing to lose because I feel so horrible now. I'm just so frustrated and depressed.
Kristi
15 Nov 2010, 00:24
I was diagnosed with RA 3 weeks ago. This came on very suddenly; I am starting to understand that is not that uncommon. I am one of 11 children and I am the only one showing these symptoms and I am one of the younger kids! My family is supportive, but they really do not understand (except maybe my parents who are having their own medical problems). I am probably starting a new medication after my appoinment on Wednesday. I am glad to hear that I am not the only one out there. The hardest part for me has been the depression. I think the pain and the meds are making it worse. Should I talk to the doctor the next time I see him?
Bridget
08 Nov 2010, 15:44
Natural ways to help you cope.
I am 34 and got Ankylosing Spondylitis 4 years ago. My disease is very similiar to RA except I also get it in my spine. My younger brother also got AS 2 years ago. We are lucky to have eachother to get through it. Here are some things I told him when he first got it to help him, hopefully it will help some of you too. Epsom salt baths make a big difference.You may not feel like getting into the bath but push yourself you'll thank me. Take a long sock (tube sock) fill it 3/4 with regular white rice or what ever you have on hand. Tie the top of the sock and put it in the microwave for a minute or two. Put it where ever you have pain, it retains it's heat for about 20-30 minutes and that is the perfect amount of time to keep heat on one area. Stay distracted, even if you don't feel well, stay in touch with friends; watch funny movies; play games or cards; read books. Don't just watch tv it isn't stimulating enough, a few hours is ok not all day. Lavander lotion, tiger balm (you can over dose on tiger balm so don't use it every day, Arnica cream massage it on the joints that hurt. Stretch several times a day, hold each stretch for at least 30 seconds. You can even stretch in bed if it's hard for you to get up. Wear a brace when doing activites that might hurt you. When I clean my house I wear my back brace and wrist brace. Don't over do it. Break chores up and do only what you can. For example if you can only unload half the dish washer don't beat yourself up, take a break and finish when you can. Don't do nothing because you worry you can't finish. Take naps, sleep helps heal your body and it always helps me with the pain. Drink camomile or sleepy time to help you sleep at night if the pain is waking you up. If you are suffering and having a very bad flare up it helps me to stop thinking about myself and I pick something to suffer for. For example hungry children, I pray that my suffering with pain will some how help them. These are a few of the things I do. I know pain can be very scary and hard to cope with I hope some of my suggestions help you and remember I'm praying for you, you aren't alone. I'm sending you all a big hug! Sincerely, Bridget
Monica
28 Oct 2010, 09:00
Hi everyone I just had a baby a little over 3mths ago and she is healthy and a prize baby she is amazing ok i can keep going on that but I won't hahaha. I just got my results to check for RA and it came back abnormal so now I have to see a rhomatoligist on monday for further testing. I am a hairdresser and I LOVE what I do and I mom to a 6 yr old too and a wife, I hurt all over and I am so sad I can not dress my daughters with out pain snapping a onesie is sooo difficult. I am a runner and a mover and a shaker I just don't sit around, but Its dragging me down. I am 36 yrs old and I also have vetilligo and thats bad enough now this. I have my faith in God and I will pray for everyone wo has RA I can only stay possitive and be glad that I have such a wonderful family and friends to help me I will be looking to you guys too for advice.
Tanya
24 Oct 2010, 10:33
I wanted to comment to Emily about her pre signs of RA. Start taking Aloe Vera Juice three times per day. I is so beneficial for your health in every aspect but also helps with joint swelling. Also, Mona Vie, Acia Berry juice has helped me immensely.
I have RA for the past 6 years and am still not on meds,but I spent a lot of time at the naturopaths office and feel 90 percent pain free.

Good luck with it, it is not fun to live with but there is hope...which is all we can ask for.
Hipolito Ratilla
16 Oct 2010, 21:32
hi im hipolito ratilla i have suffered R.a since last week... i cant do my usaual physical activities becausemy joint were both aching .. Can you help me...?:)
maria hernandez
14 Oct 2010, 21:12
Hi,I was diagnosed last year with RA.It has been very difficult for me.I was to a point that I could not get up in the morning to get ready for work.I also had to quit my job as a CNA because of the pain I was in everyday.Now I have a sitting down job which has help some.But I'am always very tired and with no energy.I was taken many meds like Prednisone,Mobic,Lyrica,Folic Acid,VitaminD, and the ijections. I'am now only on Enbrel injection once a week Methotrexate injection once a week along with Lyrica,Folic Acid and Vitamin d.I now know that I'am not the only one with this medical condition.
Emily
03 Oct 2010, 20:58
Hi everyone. I m a 30 year woman. Recently, I was diagnosed with RA. I just want to reach out to those who understand. I suffer from aches and pains, but it sporadic. Some suggestions would help. I would like something rather than medication to sustain me. Any suggestions? Please help.
LB
02 Oct 2010, 22:12
I was told nearly 3 years ago that I have RA, since my diagnoses it has begun to get worse when I get up in the morning and feel like my joints in my hands feet and knees are on fire. It takes me hours before I feel I can do anything. recently my eyes started feeling dry all the time. I was diagnosed with COPD in may of this year but now I'm wondering if it could be the RA.
Jb
27 Sep 2010, 14:51
Hi, I was diagnoised with R.Arthritis when i was 19yrs old. i have had two hip replacement and a knee replacement by the time I was 25yrs old. This disease has really changed my life and took my twenties away from me. I am 30yrs old now and I have suffered more than a person has a right too. I wish this disease was tooken more seriously than it is! At first it was hard for me to deal with because i was an athletic person. I ran close to everyday about 3 miles. I was in the army reserves too. It seemed like one day I woke up and my whole life was changed forever. I am so sorry for all the people that have to suffer with this disease and feel helpless. I know there were days that I would just cry and cry because I could not understand "why me"? I took this disease on when i was supposed to be starting my life, but it felt like my life was ending. I went from being a pretty independant person to depending on people to help me put my socks on to getting in the shower. I think we need more awareness with this disease and it deserves as much attention as any other. No you don't die directly from this disease, but the suffering and the pain should be more than enough! I am starting my own business and a percentage of my income will be donated to the R.Arthristis foundation in hopes one day this disease will get the attention that it deserves. Please keep posting your stories and doing your part in informing the public what it is like living with disease because it is not what your grandma is has. There is a difference in the types of arthritis that older people get and Rhuem. arthritis.
Vickie Lynne
23 Sep 2010, 21:47
diagonosed with rhuematoid arthritus ive been on humira injections twice a month and methtrexate 7 tablest a week for over 6 months now ..im walking again but very carefully and slowly ..im to begin enbrel injections 4 a month very soon ..this disease had changed my life in such a severe way ..and the meds do not seem to work ..my diet is healthy and i eat very little sugar and daily vitamin d 3 and potassium and flic acid ..i pray for all of you and myself that one day this disease will of a cure be found ..have a sweet day ..Love Vickie
Ann Baert
13 Sep 2010, 13:19
For Kathy Hodson: I also have RA I started taking Humira the first of July and have had wonderful results. I started noticing a improvement within 48 hours. Still have a little pain occasionaly but nothing compared to before. So far the only side effect has been that my eyes are dry and have to use over the counter eye drops 3-4 times a day. I know it is a scary medicine but my options were getting slim either constant dibilating pain 24-7 or Humira and hope for the best results. I try to excercise, watch what I eat and keep a good watch on all my blood work. Since Humira I haven't had to take any Motrin and have cut my Methotrexate back from 8 to 6. I wish you all the best. Like everyone else fatigue is my biggest concern now. I work full time, and by the time I get home to tired to do anything. Good Luck
Shelly
11 Sep 2010, 11:25
Hi everyone glad to know I am not alone.Sometimes I just want to be left alone to cry,which makes it worse.Had to quit working as a CNA in June the pain was just too much I have Osteoarthritis of the spine from the c-spine to the L-spine.So weight limit for the rest of my life is 10 lbs.Can't even lift my grand daughter.
shelley
11 Sep 2010, 07:59
I am 39 years old,diagnosed with RA and fibromyalgia when I was 34.I had to give up my job as a nurse due to flares.I lost my house waiting on my SSDI to be approved.I have two wonderful girls age 7 and 9.A wonderful husband who helps me when I need it.I would say more than the pain the fatigue is unbearable.I can only describe it as feeling like a really bad case of the flu.That is how I explain the feeling and people can't believe it's that bad.There are probably two weeks out of the month I just can't function even walking in the house is to much for me I am so weak it's even hard to breath.It breaks my heart when my little ones want me to play and I just can't.They are only little for a short time and I will never get that time back.I am on methotrexate,humira,and darvocet for pain.Humira has helped a little but the fatigue is getting worse.I also take flexaril and lyrica at night, with this combination I can sleep all night.I also take lexapro for depression.who wouldn't be depressed with this disease?I am 39 going on 80.it does help to read that others have the same feelings to know I am not alone.May God bless you all.I pray they will find a cure someday and our children will not suffer the same disease.
ANN
23 Aug 2010, 09:45

I'VE HADE RA SINCE I WAS 19. I AM NOW 51. I MADE UP MY MIND YEARS AGO (AROUND AGE 24) TO STOP TAKING SO MANY DRUGS. WHY? THE DRUGS WOULD ALWAYS MAKE ME WORSE. PLUS I WAS TOLD THERE IS NO CURE FOR RA. I TAKE IBUPROPHEN AS NEEDED BUT NOTHING EVERYDAY. i HAVE FOUND LIKE WITH ANY HEALTH PROBLEM, GET ENOUGH REST, DON'T BE STRESS, BALANCE DIET, AND NO MATTER HOW GOOD YOU FEEL NEVER NEVER OVER DO IT. I KNOW THIS WORKS BECAUSE I'M DOING BETTER THAN PEOPLE WHO HAVE BEEN ON MEDS FOR YEARS.
Stephanie
22 Aug 2010, 21:25
Thank you for all your posts. I too have RA - was diagnosed in Nov 2008. 55 years olds and still working and fighting RA with all my might. I know that exercise, sleep and what I eat affects the way I feel. I'm working towards getting back to the exercise part of life and hopefully I will be more energized and feel like continuing to go on. I will preserve - No RA you can't beat me down! Hugs to all and many prayers to you all......I lift you up to soar on Eagle Wings!
Gail
04 Aug 2010, 14:54
I can only say I feel bad for all of you on this RA ride. I was diagnosed with RA when I was 10 years old I will be 54 this month. When it first started I could barely dress myself, I could barely walk and when the flareups occured that meant I was bed ridden. I have constant pain, fatigue, and swelling. My only advise is get as much rest as you can, rest your joints it helps. I can't say you won't hurt, swell or be fatigued because you will. I've been on almost every medicine there is, sometimes the side effects are worse than the RA. I contiune to wait for a drug with little side effect. I have lived a lot of years with RA and I can't help anyone not even my self it saddens me other people have to live like this. Live everyday like its your last day and enjoy everyone around you and don't dwell on RA just live the best you can. It's not going away!
curly girl 26
25 Jul 2010, 17:33
thankgod im not alone,
i was diagnosed with ra 4 days ago after being in and out of hospital with the pain of my hipps and back for ten months.im only 26 and im very wurried for my future ive been given arcoxia and will be given another drug when i see the doc in a few months,also my stomach gives me alot of problems cramps,pains,throbbing,swollen,constipation,the runs etc.every day is a constant battle for me with chores,work etc.ive recently been suffering with depression and seeing a counseller,ive been trying to get my head round this.ive been told im only in the early stages of the deasease although ive had the syptoms for years but have slowly got alot worse and then things came to a head in september when i woke up and couldnt lift my leg without a tremendous pain.i went to hospital and passed out in a and e,i spent a week in hospital.i no i have to carry on and fight through the pain,its just so hard.Certain foods are meant to help the syptoms and losing wiegh is meant to help.im 5 foot 10 and a size 16 so i should defo loose wieght.if anyone can help me or has any tips id like to hear from you :D
Marianne
12 Jul 2010, 02:53
I am surprised by the news that I have an autoimmune disease, and then to find out it is RA. I am having trouble functioning for some time now. I work full time as a teacher and attend grad school. I always push myself. I've been having trouble with picking up pots and pans when cooking and dropping things. I've had pains for over ten years but thought I shouldn't complain and that I was getting older. I would mention the worst joints when I went to the doctor. My shoulder became very bad and my wrists also. I finally couldn't stand it. When I went to the orthopedist I told him about several joints and he ran blood test. My chest even hurts. I thought it was my heart. I feel weak and tired. I can barely make it to the end of a work day most days. I'm 49. My neck gets very bad frequently so I've tried 6 different pillow and some physical therapy to no avail. When the doctor did a set of blood tests it showed up. I never wanted to mention all of the joint pain before because I felt like I was complaining and now I see that I should have. I would have been diagnosed a long time ago. Tell your doctor all of your symptoms. I am about to start methotrexate. Up until now I have only taken advil for aches and pains. I've been spending much more time in bed to rest up, but it doesn't help. I'm tired. The coffee isn't working. Does the methotrexate help?
Ann Campion
07 Jul 2010, 04:14
Hi Everyone
I have read alot of your messages and find I have alot of the same symtoms. I have ostioarthritis in my neck shoulders ankles and left knee. I had an injury to my neck over ten years ago but doctor did not worn me abut oa so i carried on as normal and was only told last year that the pain i was in was ostioarthritis.

Like alot of people i am the one people came to when they needed help family, friends workmates ect. But find now that the boot is on the other foot Im lucky to get a phone call or visit from them. I have learnt the hard way to look after my self and my husband and let other people do the same thing.
I know I sound bitter but Im not, just realistic. I count my blessings everyday and go easy on my self when its a bad day and woop it up on a good day I refuse anti-depressents from my doctor as I want to meet this thing head on and fight it every inch of the way using self help such as yoga, cider vinegar, glucosamine sulphate and positive thinking. Ive passed exsams while Ive been off work and hope to eventually get back to work only if its part time. I wish everyone well and dont let the bas**ads grind your down.
Lee
22 May 2010, 08:54
I was grateful to read the above notes from other RA patients. I too have had RA for about 25 years. The flare=ups are getting more difficult to deal with as I am now in my 70's. Walking is a problem due to my ankle which is now destroyed due to RA. Walking with a walker does help. I too continue to have fatique and find this the biggest problem as chores just don't sem to get done. But I continue to do the housework, plant the gardens, quilt and go out and walk in the stores as much as possible. Having a positive attitude is a plus. Having a terrific daughter to depend upon (she lives 1200 miles away) but phone calls, e-mails are a shoulder to cry on when I need one. Everyone out there with RA should continue to have a positive approach to life and enjoy as long as we can Thanks for letting me vent, as well.
Yvonne
19 May 2010, 15:48
Hello everyone,

I have had RA for 14 years. I have always been a perfectionist when it came to my family. I always had to have the perfect Christmas, Halloween, Birthday, etc. for my kids and husband. That meant staying up late at night to get things done, working a full time job, helping out a terminally ill father (now deceased), helping out my mom whenever I can, etc. I always put myself last and I really think that had a lot to do with RA coming on. Family and friends have always looked to me to help out with whatever and I very rarely said no. I was always there for whoever needed help. I also went through a very difficult and long separation (5 years) then divorce, my son was going through puberty during that time and he rebelled big time and got into trouble which put the stress on big time. I had to sell my home since I couldn't afford to pay for it myself and have been living with family ever since (5 years). I mention all this cuz I really feel that stress has alot to do with RA flareups. I just turned 50, am divorced, was layed off work and have been unemployed for 2 years now with no income. Talk about being depressed. I was on Methotrexate for years but then had to get off it due to it affecting my liver and now I am on Orencia. It seems to help but i still have flareups and my RA doc just upped my dosage. It seems like the week after I take it, I am really tired and with no energy. The other three weeks I have noticed a difference but not quite there yet. I too have difficulty sleeping. I know I have sleep apnea, but have to go for a sleep study test to make it official. Besides the sleep apnea, I have difficulty falling asleep. I think I subconsciously stay up late at night cuz i wait til I'm exhausted so I can fall asleep right away. If I don't do that, then I lie awake thinking of all the negatives in my life and definitely do not want to do that. I alternate between being happy for the small things in life to being very depressed which I keep hidden from my family and friends. They don't want to hear about the depression, especially since they have all been privy to the past 10 years of my life. I WANT to have a life. RA is bad enough but when you have no income, no vehicle, and no prospects for income, I feel like I'm in a black hole. Okay, I'll stop now. Thanks for letting me vent.
Nicola Morgan
18 May 2010, 06:31
Hi,
I have been reading all of your comments and stories. I am 24 and was told today that I have RA. I am really upset by this and still in shock. I have no pain but received a blood test as I am always tired and exhausted. The blood test has shown positive to RA. Can I ask how it started for you? Like I said I have no pain at the moment but I have been struggling with fatigue for years which has been very difficult to manage. It is also hard as people don't seem to understand how I feel on a daily basis. I work full time as a social worker but I do struggle with the fatigue.

Any tips to help with the fatigue? My doctor is referring me to a Fatigue Specialist as this is my symptoms at the moment, but I have a feeling that nothing can be done for the fatigue.

Any info or advice would be very much appreciated as I am feeling very upset by it all at the moment.
Madonna
14 May 2010, 13:14
I am writing because today I have be very tied in the past 2 months. I thought it was my hermone med. that needed to be upped but that is not working. They digosed me with Fibromyalgia about 16yrs. ago I have be living with that I am now 45 yrs old and like someone else said I feel 85 as old as my Mom she is always saying to me I wish I can help you. God love her she lives 2 blocks from me and fell and broke her other hip and just had a Knee replacement 2yrs ago I helped her rehab. though both I would not let her go to nursing home. I think this time it took a toll on me. I have 9 brother and sisters some welling to help some not and some saying I wasnt doing it right, After 2yrs. I know them better then they know them they live down the road and call me for everything. Well I also was told I have Degenerative disease in lower spine and up neck my doc. said my neck is on my shoulders. I think I have RA the way I have been feeling lately . I have stiff finger I can hardly type,and I am so tried my ankles hurt and even my toes. I Dont Know what to do anymore . I do yoga and get in the hot tub, and I am so tried I just cant exercise right now. I try to walk my dogs as much as I can and bike ride. Sometimes I think I do to much or when is to much to much. That is what my doc said I have to learn. But I think It all come from takening care of my Mom which I would do all over again. Thanks for letting me vent.
Daisy
29 Apr 2010, 07:53
Wow! I'm so glad I stumbled on this website. Sometimes, it's so easy to sit in your own corner of the world and imagine that your life is the worst! Then you read about other's experiences and you realise we all have different burdens. I'm 26 and was diagnosed with RA 3 years ago. It has been very devastating for me. I have always been so full of life, passionate and very go-getter-ish.Look at me now, I'm tired all the time, depressed, constantly on meds (leflunomide, prednisone, and aceclofenac for the pain, i used to be on methotrexate but the doctor withdrew it. I keep thinking, will I really live with this until I die? It scares me.The pain is horrible and the fatigue even worse. And sometimes I feel so alone in this. And I just want to have a good long cry! My career is demanding and very male-dominated and then I just had to go and get RA... I'm not very good at listening to my body which gets me into trouble. I go go go go for a couple of weeks then I crush and burn.

But I do know one thing, your ATTITUDE is everything. It is ok to have those low days or even weeks. All you can do is ride the storm. But you cannot afford to stay there forever. Count your blessings and keep counting until your spirits are lifted up. Take time out (I'm pointing at myself) and love yourself. God bless you all and good luck!
Shannon Dagesse
01 Apr 2010, 18:11
Hello to well Everyone,

I was diagnosed with Fibromyalgia 15 yrs ago. I was also diagnosed with a movement disorder, which I have since learned was not a movement disorder. I have psoriatic arthritis. It was found because I injured my hip by hitting it on a chair and my orthopedic doctor could not get it to heal. He then noticed that I had significant swelling in my joints. He did xrays for arthritis and found osteo in my fingertips but no where else. But because the swelling was so apparent he tested me for RA those came back negative also. Then sent me for a bone scan and low and behold I have mild to moderate osteo arthritis in all of my joints. Now to answer why a perfectly healthy 40 yr old female has that much arthritis. Then he asked the key question,.,. do you have any unusual rashes. My forearms have been raw and scaly for about 2 years, thought I was allergic to the cleaners we use at work. also had a rash on the back of my head in the hairline and was told it was a chemical reaction to bug spray and hair products. Now I had an answer Psoriatic arthritis. He sent me to a Rheumatologist who tested me for PA came back neg but since the signs were there started treatment. On the next test and all since then it has been there. I have a wonderful medical team. 2 here and 2 180 miles from here. I take a ton of medicine. I am now 43 years old finished raising my 6 kids and now have 3 granddaughters. I work full time overtime and have a side business. Yes I am exhausted but my Rhuematologist had me do a sleep study and I found out I rarely go into REM and never go into deep sleep. I also have mild sleep apnea. I will not say everything is perfect in my life I have days where morning stiffness last for an hour or two. I have days when I am so tired I can barely function. I have days when I feel like no one else is going through this. I also have friends and family and co-workers who have learned the days to comfort me and help me out and the days when to kick me in the butt and not let me give up. Just remember dont stop. for those of you with RA my daughters best childhood friend has juvenile RA and she will tell you the same thing. Good doctors, Good family, Good friends and a Good attitude go a long way. I am now having digestion problems probably caused by one of the medications. But it is okay my doctors are on it and I dont know what kind of strings they pulled but got me in to gastroentological clinic that takes months to get into in days. Just remember when things seem as bad as they can be. God or whoever or whatever you believe in would never burden you with more than you can bare. There is a lesson or a reason for everything even if it is just so you are able to help someone else.

Oh yeah forgot to mention. They found precancerous polyps in my Colon in November. They did remove those. Talk about dodging a bullet. If you just need someone to sound off to I am on facebook. just put a message that it has to do with arthritis or this post. I am an emergency dispatcher I make a pretty good sounding board
linda
26 Mar 2010, 00:25

I just reread my story I submitted to you to help you know you are far from being alone with these diseases. I failed to enter that I to was one of my dear mother's care giver in her need for constant care as her alzheimer's progressed to where she couldn't even walk or feed herself. But she was still my mother and I'm glad I really tried to make here life as pleasant as possible. My four kids went to see her regularly and even helped if necessary. So many things in life can be so hard but you have to stop and smell the roses and know that you are doing the best that you csn. What you are doing is living life and that is what is most important. I'm thankf haul to God for my life, my children, husband, dad, my mother for the 74 years that I had her, and the rest of my family. I'm thankful to god for all that sweet, good people out there. And it wouldn't hurt to pray for something to make this stuff go away. One day at a time is all you have to do, and if that is hard, one hour at a time. Concentrate on what is necessary, and divide tasks up and only do one task at a time. I know you with small children and infants are busy since I have four children (21, 23, 26, and 29). When I got RA, my youngest two boys were in first and third grades, my daughter was in sixth grade and my oldest son was in eighth grade. It was hard to get to their sports activities, keep up with the house, cleaning, groceries, laundry, cooking; even getting the occasional takeout was exhausting. So laugh when you can. I love comedies; one of the funniest movies I've seen is the Honeymooners. I'm going to go online and order my family and my dad a copy of it. Take good care of yourself; you belong to you. Take happiness where you can; no matter how trivial it may seem. There's nobody in the world just like you, and you deserve to take care of your illness with a good rheumatologist, talking to him and letting him know what's going on with you. Keep a journal so you can show him or her what's going on about the pain, sleep, and fatigue. He'll know more then if the meds he or she has you on are working. Don't ever, ever give up on yourself.




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Linda
25 Mar 2010, 23:17
Hi everyone. I've just read all of your stories, and I know there's a lot more you want to say but it's so hard to express. I think the girl who said she's "just plain tired" said it best. And, when you have a good day, and mine are few and far betweeen, it's so wonderful; you feel almost "normal". I'm always saying, "I wish I felt normal"; and I look at people and wonder at their normal lives. It's so easy for me just to give in, but I hate myself for giving in. I'm 55, and I've had RA, Lupus, and Fibromyalgia since I was 42 (13 years). I want to send my love to all of you. I had a double hip replacement three years ago. Within a period of three months the left hip popped out of place twice. It was the most horrible pain in my life. The surgeon then replaced the cup with a plastic cup, screwed into place. I've gone on enough. I really and truly feel for all of you. I've been on plaguenal, methotrexate, enbrel, humira, and now Simponi. I'm going to start Orencia this month and very hopeful. I can't take methotrexate anymore because of my liver. I do take prednisone as needed; I try to take as little as possible but it does help as does prescription pain meds, hydrocodone for break through pain and morphine pills twice a day which are low dose (30 mg). Everyone hang on, hang on. Just seeing all of you makes me realize I'm not alone. I just lost my Mom last year to Alzheimers and my husband and my Dad were the ones who took care of her. My Dad and Mom lived right behind me; my Dad still lives there so I try to be there for him as he's 79. I'll keep checking this sight. Love to you all.
rh
19 Mar 2010, 23:38
1.frozen tart cherries for the pain
2.test urine with a pool test kit for lack of magnesium, calcium, body ph
3. cider vinegar to redistribute calcium
4. 6 fish oil capsules day/will take 3 months to take effect
5. 2 c. milk before bed for melatonin that will help make human growth hormone during deep sleep cyle and repair body tissues
6. zinc, coconut oil to kill viruses of ra
7. potassium
8. brocolli and B12 for energy
Kathy Hodgson
11 Mar 2010, 16:23
I have lived with ulcerative colitis for 16 years. 2 years ago I was diagnosed with fibromyalgia. About 8 months ago I was diagnosed with a sero-negative form of arthritis. It took a neuclear bone scan to find it. I am on methotrexate ( tried palquenil but couldn't not tolerate the side effects). The last time I saw my Dr. he said if there is not major improvement by the time I go back he wants to start me on humira. From what I have read that is a vetry scary drug. Is anyone taking it with success and little side effects?I hate to read about so many living with so much pain and fatigue but it is good to know there are people out there that understand. I really don't think even my husband truly understands how much pain I feel and how very tired I am. I work 40 hours a week but it takes all I have to get up every morning and go. Thanks for letting me vent.
Lisa
06 Mar 2010, 12:37
I am waiting for the test results for RA, I have been battling Post Traumatic Stress Disorder for 6 years now and thought when the fatigue started that it was part of this issue but when the pain started in my right hand and right foot I mentioned it to my Dr. who immediately sent me for testing. The fatigue is effecting all aspects of my life, waking up tired, exhausted all day, no drive or ambition is driving me crazy, at least if I find out it is RA then I can stop thinking it is only in my head.
Sandra
05 Mar 2010, 13:42
I have had symptoms for many years beginning with knees many xrays then back and then neck. Doc kept testing me for RA over the years and said it doesnt have to show in your bloodstream to have it bonescan showed osteoarthritis of the back neck and both knees. Last summer symptoms just kept getting worse hands and feet and ankles and my job was very physical and some days id be there for 2 hours and dragged the rest of the day. Hips have been aching for 2 yrs finally the blood test last yr was positive for RA I have been so very tired all the time I left my fulltime job but have gone back 4 hours a day just to keep from going crazy. Today I even called in because im just so tired and in pain. My appt for the RA specialist is in 2 weeks and I have been waiting 9 months keep reading early treatment is important so waiting this long has just made me angry on top of everything else I just want to feel half normal again. I hate being 45 and feeling like 85. Im so glad to see that im not alone in my feeling cause I really dont think alot of people understand just how bad your feeling because they really cant physically see it.
pauline
03 Mar 2010, 14:13
hi all
i was diagnosed in 2007 with ra i started with chronic back pain then it started spreading to my ankles swelling and aching as tho i had a bad sprain etc.
kept going to drs he just put it down to multiple joint pains as im not a thin person but stocky , in the end he decided to send me for blood tests , which came back positive for ra ,,
im on all the tabs now plaquenil , sulfaasine and methotraxate and co codomol ,, i have about 2 good days a week then im off my feet with severe fatigue swellings pain in joints what really hurts me is that i cant run around with my young son and grandson i feel old lots of times i get so angry with myself for stupid things like dropping things its nice to share this with ppl as i know there are thousands who suffer and be nice to talk to them ,,
thanks for taking time to read this xxx
Patricia Hall-West Mulder
22 Feb 2010, 15:52
I have been fighting RA for over 23 years now, was diagnosed symptomatically with it at age 25 (yes, low RH factor in the blood)but have had symptoms since at least age 10. I have had virtually every treatment available including MTX, gold injections, fish oil, you name it, I've tried it (with my doctor's approval, of course). MTX ruined my liver and now my kidneys are failing for no particular reason that we can tell. 23 years of steroids have also caused Addison's disease, along with high cholestrol, now under control, also high blood pressure, now also under control. Along with an 80 pound weight gain and the termination of my 3rd marriage. Steroids are a many splendored thing, aren't they?
My neck and back are pretty well toast. Injuries when I was young and indestructible proved that I wasn't (indestructible, that is). I now have both Degenerative Disk Disease and Degenerative Joint Disease and was scheduled to have fusion surgery on 3 discs in my upper back - lower neck area until my neurosurgeon moved out of town. I have pretty much run the gamut of available medication for pain and have found the most relief with fentanyl patches and various opiod pills (currently hydromorphone). Nothing really completely kills the pain, and I think that is probably the root cause of my fatigue but the fatigue has always been the worst part of the RA for me. I was ADD/HD as a child with emphasis on the HD and I really hate being tired all the time. Of course all of this illness, along with husband #4 turning into an alcoholic (I really know how to pick 'em, don't I?) has caused me to lapse into some pretty severe bouts of depression, which has also required medication. Needless to say, I'm on a first name basis with my pharmacist, along with most of the pharm techs and clerks. Husband #4 has EXCELLENT health insurance, bless his heart and that relieves a lot of stress for me too. What this all comes down to is: LIVE ONE DAY AT A TIME! It's all that we are given. I recently started having falls for no apparent reason and am going through umpteen million tests with a wonderful neurologist. The fact that I may have either a seizure disorder or TIAs (itty bitty strokes) has really given me a dose of mortality that none of my other medical crises have. I have realized that we only are guaranteed today and right now. Not tomorrow, not 10 minutes from now, RIGHT NOW. Just live it. Thanks for reading my ramblings.....
Teresa Hughes
21 Feb 2010, 12:06
I've been diagnosed with RA a little over a year, but have had symptoms for at least six years -- spent a fortune on podiatrist and doctors to hear that it was all in my head. Now I find I also have the fibromyalgia. The fatigue is incredible and nobody seems to understand -- I am just a 58 yo single, fat, lazy hypochondriac. That leads to depression and lots of tears. Trying to get my head wrapped around this stuff, but it keeps getting farther and farther away. Took MTX for a year but it made me sick and I lost a lot of hair. Now I find my liver enzymes are too high to take the other meds. Has anyone had any luck with MSM?
Betty
15 Feb 2010, 16:03
Everyone with RA should refer to Dr. Weil's anti-inflammatory food pyramid:
http://www.drweil.com/drw/u/PAG00361/anti-inflammatory-food-pyramid.html
I have been on a no-sugar, yeast, dairy, gluten diet for about a year and it has greatly helped my pain not to mention losing 15 pounds without even trying! Eat lots of garlic, rosemary and tumeric. I was just put on Methotrxate last week but my pain was managed quite well before I went on the meds. Good luck to everyone! Hang in there.
Patricia Chrisman
11 Feb 2010, 10:29
I have had narcolepsy since early childhood and my symptoms had been fairly controlled with medication until I began having symptoms of RA. Does anyone else have narcolepsy and RA?
Sandra
06 Feb 2010, 20:52
Hola me llamo Sandra y fui diagnosticada con AR, hace 13 meses despues de que mi hijo de 12 meses naciera, y el dolor es la experiencia mas terrible de mi vida porque no te puedes mover sin que todo el cuerpo te duela, y como mi bebe estaba mas pequeno pues tenia que hacer el esfuerzo del mundo para poder alimentarlo y fue terrible en verdad el oir al bebe llorando de hambre y yo sin poder moverme y como mi hijo mayor se iba a la escuela y mi esposo a trabajar pues era aterrador y doloroso y como toda mi familia vive en la Ciudad de Mexico, pues no tengo mas familia aqui q mi esposo y mis hijos asi q aqui estaba yo sola, enferma y con un bebe recien nacido, pero gracias a Dios ahora esta controlada el AR y el dolor es menos.
Mary
05 Feb 2010, 15:29
Just diagnosed with RA. I'm completely stunned! I'm 51 and have been living with symptoms for years. I wish I would have talked to my doctor along time ago about my aches & pains. Live & learn. I will never be so complacent with my health!!!!
Ange Krumins
05 Feb 2010, 06:32
Hello everybody, i too have been told i have RA, i have my first appointment with a consultant rhuematoligist next week.It's a nightmare this.I started swelling up and getting pains back in august 2009. Then a few days after i could not walk, my hip where painfull and my knees too. I was dragging myself around the house on my backside. After a few months of the dr's prescribing me ibuprofen which had no effect i am on cox 2 inhibitor which is fantastic.I only have swollen ankels at the moment. I am constantly tired, find it difficult to do every day things like get up and go to work.Do house work. I cant wait to be put on the right meds for this. I am 45, and a few people have made crap remarks about how its all in my mind. They pain is 10 times worse that child birth. In fact i have never experienced pain on this scale. Or pain that moves from one joint to another so quickly. It is constant. but the new drug i am taking is good and has helped me. I know its not a for ever drug. We all need to hang on in there, and pray that they find a cure during our life time and for future generations.
Tom
03 Feb 2010, 20:51
Hello,

Osteoarthritis - both knees & ankles, probably hips as well. Surgery to remove cartilage a little over a year ago; age 45. I am someone with a website of my own dedicated to people with disabilities, would love a banner to put up on my site for OA.

Meds cost a fortune; ouch. $179 a month is a bit (grin) more than the $8/mo. the VA wants for the things they can treat me for.

Civilian docs through Medicare, with associated paperwork and, 'enrollment periods,' that don't seem to recognize that people have health care issues all year round. AARP medical plan with no prescription drug coverage, health care reform at a stand still, and who knows? Maybe even knee replacements in the picture before too long; sigh.

Fun, fun, fun.

Tom.
Laura
20 Jan 2010, 11:24
Pregnancy and RA are an interesting combination since cause fatigue! But I still want another baby although I now have RA.
Roseanna's miscarriage may not have been caused by RA but some RA medications can be a problem. I'm currently about to start on Humira but I can't take Methotrexate with it because I'm also going to a fertility clinic. As of a couple of days ago I stopped taking Plaquenil because it is no longer working. On Monday I spoke with my rheumy and he said Plaquenil can affect your cycles and can can prevent implantation. Seeing as my first fertility appt was on Friday I'm hoping I'll have more luck now without the Plaquenil! As for her cycles, chances are it's still her body recovering from the miscarriage. It can take a few months for your body to get back on track from that and maybe longer to heal with the RA. One reason she has probably been sick since then is because pregnancy can minimize RA symptoms but from everything I've read after the baby is born the pain will come back and often gets worse than it was before the pregnancy.
Candi
05 Jan 2010, 06:26
Reading all the comments made me feel so much better knowing that I am not alone in this. This winter has been so hard because I have been feeling so tired all the time w. the weather changes. I was wondering if Naproxen is good to take everyday for the inflammation because a doctor got me off them and then I went to see a Nurse about my pains & prescribed me Naproxen again ? Is there anything else I can take that is out of the counter? Rub has been very helpful but it smells lol
Kristina
04 Jan 2010, 15:49
I have had symptoms of RA since I was about 12 years old (I am 28). My cousin (male) was diagnosed at around the same age, and my brother right out of High School. I have had continuous swelling in my knees with bursitis and baker cysts. I have had tendonitis quite a few times, cysts on both wrists I have had removed besides the pain in them. I have feet pain and the new one that is quite bothersome is a lot of back/neck/shoulder swelling and pain. My husband and I have 2 daughters, one is 3 and the other is 1 1/2, and we have a 15 year old foster daughter. My doctor is currently running tests to confirm RA. I have always went to different doctors for all of my issues and he never knew about all of the problems until now (I hate going to the Dr. and put it off). I have been "self medicating" with high doses of Ibuprofen, Naproxen, and had cut back on working hours. I was feeling pretty worthless lately. Until I found this site... seeing everyone else having the same problems with trying to have the energy to get things done makes you feel not so alone. The one thing I have found to REALLY help with the fatigue is this (though I do not know if it's bad to take if you have RA.. ask your Dr., I didn't ask mine) I take a Super B Vitamin, I also take a B complex, Ginko, Prenatal vitamin, Iron (I'm always Anemic), and calcium. Anemia can cause a lot of fatigue. I drink them all down in the morning with a protein breakfast shake. I may not feel like getting out of bed to do it, but it sure perks me up and gets me through until my late afternoon nap.
Good Luck
Helen
17 Dec 2009, 07:24
To Marianne

I also have arthritis which does not have the RA factor in my blood, though the symptoms are the same as RA. I have been on Methotrexate for a couple of years and it is brilliant.
Yes there are side effects (as there are with most medications including steroids) but these are monitored by routine blood tests. However there may be other reasons your doctor is reluctant to prescibe Methotraxate so I recommend you are referred to a rheumatologist as they specialise in this condition and would be able to explain the different drugs avalible to treat arthritis. Its a bit unfair for your doctor to refuse Methotrexate because they feel there are too many side effects, they are not the one who has to live with the condition. Good luck.
Becky
14 Dec 2009, 11:18
Hello to all of you,

I was diagnosed with R.A. 16 years ago and at 51 I still feel mentally like I am in my 30's,,, sadly, my body will not allow it. Everyday is a battle, but please keep your mental outlook strong and keep happiness in your heart. It is practically impossible, I know. The number one thing is TAKE CARE OF YOUR BODY AND THE MESSAGES IT GIVES YOU. IF YOU MUST STOP WORKING AND GO ON DISABILITY, THEN BY ALL MEANS DO IT. Do not worry what others will think,,,,, the pain with R.A. is bad, but a Rheumatologist will help! After several years and different meds, we found my combination. What now works for me....I am on Humira, Methotrexate, and pain meds when the pain gets past the 0-10 point. If it were not for the insistence of a doctor who had me see a Rheumatologist 5 years ago, I cannot bear the thought of what today could have been like. Please, I hope someone reads this and finds out the necessary help and understanding medical personnel specializing in R.A. will give to you.There is hope and help! Have family members go with you to occasional R.A. check-ups, the doctor WILL help them understand your limits and abilities. I can go on and on, I will stop now. I hope this babbling has been help to someone who thought no hope was what life has to offer since being stricken with R.A..
Remember, TUNE OUT people who do not know, no matter what the relationship.
marianne
14 Dec 2009, 09:26
My doctor diagnosed me with RA last year, yet, my blood tests do not show it. Also, I do not have exactly the same symptoms on both sides of my body. Yet, I have the pain, fatigue and sleep problems everyone describes. I am on Humira and asked about adding methotrexate to my treatment, but,she feels there are too many side effects with this medication. I've been on prednisone and this makes me feel almost "normal". What other steps can I take or should I seek another opinion from a different doctor? HELP..
deu
15 Nov 2009, 23:30
In the last month I have been suffering from extreme fatique. I am a nurse manager and I have an incredibly impacted schedule. When I get home, I just drop and even though I sleep, I wake up exhausted. Does anyone have any references for a diet for RA? I am out of shape and eat "on the go" too much. Any suggestions are welcome. I am on Orencia and Immuran. though I am not too compliant with the Immuran. I am really interested in a diet for RA.
KB
14 Nov 2009, 23:50
Thank you all for making me feel NORMAL again. I was diagnosed with RA 4 years ago. Was on prednisone for 18 months, weaned off of that a year ago, and have been on methotrexate ever since. Seems to help in controlling the flare-ups; however, I am so incredibly tired, have trouble concentrating, and just don't have the same "umph" I used to have. I have had to move in with my parents (I'm 44 and a single mom to a 2 1/2 year old) for help. My father understands and is sympathetic when I'm in pain from flare-ups, but he does not get the fatigue thing and thinks I'm lazy. My mom has fibromyalgia and while she's much more sympathetic to the fatigue b/c she lives it, she thinks that I'm tired b/c I don't take care of myself. They do not understand that sometimes I HAVE to take a nap in the middle of the day. Not b/c I want to or went to bed late. A few weeks ago, I made a 2 1/2 hour trip to/from a friend's house. I knew I could never do that kind of driving in one day, so I stayed over. An hour and a half into driving home, I felt like I was going to fall asleep at the wheel. I HAD to pull over in a rest stop and go to sleep for 25 minutes to refresh. It's crazy. But reading every body's posts makes me feel like I'm not the only person living this way. I'm not lazy. And the fogginess and fatigue ARE part of the disease. Thank you, all for sharing. It really does help.
KB
14 Nov 2009, 23:39
Roseanna-
My condolences on your miscarriage--it is truly a loss and I wish you peace in working through it. From what I know personally, and what I researched before I had my son, RA shouldn't be an issue in getting pregnant. Your thyroid issues probably have more to do with fertility problems than RA. My advice would be to see your OB, a fertility specialist AND an endocrinologist (all working together) to get your cycle and your thyroid issues under control. Best of luck to you.
greg manning
10 Nov 2009, 20:03
I am 54 and found out today what has caused me to have two back and knee surgeries, it is this RA. I have the sleep problems use bi-pap and ci-pap in past. PROVIGIAL will correct your sleepiness during the day. Steriods have allowed me to move again without the pain. I just now need something to get rid of the RA.
Tina
07 Nov 2009, 13:09
I'm so glad to have found this site, and see that other persons are experiencing the same symptoms as myself. I've not yet been diagnosed but have been living with these symptoms for the past few years. At times the fatigue is dabilitating. I have a VERY high stress job, I've noticed I can go head strong for a few mmonths and then it will hit me like a ton of bricks. And have to take time off to recooperate.
Visha
06 Nov 2009, 12:45
It is good to know I am not alone. The fatigue with this disease is so frustrating. I have been on MTX, Plaquenil, and prednisone. My doctor has recently prescribed Embrel, but we were waiting for approval from my insurance. I get tired of being sick and tired. I was diagnosed in 2002 after the birth of my second child. I am married to a Pastor, work full time and have two children that are active in cheerleading. Some days I feel great, like the energizer bunny and other days I feel like a car that has run out of gas..I have tried herbal treatment including Omega 3's and B Complex. The only thing that seemed to work was a pill called Steel Libido. It is supposed to be for sexual energy, but it helped with my energy for life. But since I turned 30, my natural libido is too high for me to take it. I am open to any new suggestions...
deidra
07 Oct 2009, 10:23
livingwithraandlups,

I'm so sorry that you've gotten double whammied like that. It sounds like you've reached your limit emotionally and need some help dealing with the lifestyle changes you've been dealt. I have RA and my grandmother has lupus so we collectively understand your pain. I get so angry sometimes, wanting the life that my friends and family have. I watch my sister cook a meal for 4 kids, clean the kitchen and do a load of laundry in 2 hours and I'm so envious. I have to prep my meals in the morning so that I don't have to be on my feet for so long later. It takes me at least 2-3 hours in the kitchen in the evening to get my 16-moth old fed, and the kitchen cleaned up afterward. I haven't the stamina for silmultaneous chores. It makes me feel inferior when people are asking why I haven't done this or that and I have no other answer but that I'm tired. I hope that your diseases are being treated with the aggression so that you can keep a good quality of life. You deserve that. I hope things get better for you.
Deidra
07 Oct 2009, 09:59
Rosy,

I can certainly empathize with you. I've had RA since I was 7 years old, and its been a long road. I'm 30 now, and I have a 16-month old. The best advice I can give you is to stop trying to do it all. Don't give up, but remember that pace is your best friend. Don't ecpect to be able to be that Super Mommy machine that takes care of house, home, school, kids and work with the same ease as your friends and family do. Then take a deep breath and tell yourself that its okay. If you've had a sleep study done and feel that you're in need of a CPAP, that may be a solution. Honestly, the more sleep I get, the less productive I feel. It makes me more tired than when I just wake up tired and go with the flow of early a.m. inflammation and grogginess. I recommend that you take a look at your diet and try to cut out as much gluten as possible. Also, whole food vitiamins have really made a big difference in my energy/stamina level since I started taking them. Also, talk to your doctor about treating your disease with aggression to fight off the inflammation and slow the progression of the disease. If your disease is under control, you'll feel energized like you can almost taste the normalcy that you did when you were a kid. Hope this helps! Take care of yourselves, everyone!
livingwithraandlupus
07 Oct 2009, 09:51
who would ever thought that little word could be so devastating. i have struggled with this symptom for many years, some days much better then others. i try many things to combat it from folic acid and vitamins to the not so conventional use of mountain dew. it is very hard not to get sucked into the fatigue. there are days where i can literally sleep on and off all day and night and feel like i am dying. there are days where i can forget that i am even bothered with it. but those days where it sucks me in, it kills my spirit, my will and my wants. nothing can be done to push those days away. i have NO choice but to give in. this makes me incredibly sad and hurt.

i just feel like giving in on those days and it is hard to convince myself otherwise. it's rough, debilitating and chronic. it is hard to convey what it feels like or even compare it to something.

i am tired... plain and simple.
Dee
18 Sep 2009, 13:31
I sounds like we are all going through the same thing I have RA as well, constant back pain, body aches, fatigue, low energy, and muscle weakness, this has just started, I am going to get a referral to see an Rheumatologist, this disease is not a game, we have to play to win. it is really hard to deal with, I cant do daily exercises to weak, I am 38, had bunion surgery and all this followed, hope it will get better with time.... (:
Amanda
18 Sep 2009, 10:44
I am 26 and was just diagnosed with RA. I am scared and unsure what path this will lead me on. It is a relief in some ways to finally know what it wrong with me. I was tired of everyone looking at me like I was crazy because I hurt all the time and am tired all the time. I didnt know that fatigue was part of the illness. Does anyone have any ideas on how to get a good nights sleep? I sleep but I wake up feeling like I didnt. I have to take a 20 minute nap on my lunch break just to get thru the day and then by the time it is time to go home it is hard to stay awake to drive. Any ideas would be helpful.
larry
07 Jul 2009, 09:00
i've had ra now for a yr. somedays good, but recently my back hurts all the time. the only thing that keeps me going is to pay bills. got to keep a roof over my head. after work, i feel so bad, that i lay down with the chickens. i'm 52 yrs. old, i was hoping my golden yrs. would be a little better.
Ananthi
16 Jun 2009, 21:52
I am 32 and have been diagnosed with RA in December 2004 and have been on medication since. For the first 6 months i was on prednisolone and salazopyrin. After 6 months only salazopyrin, 4 tablets of 500mg daily. I notice I have been putting on weight, continously burp, bloated tummy etc. My diet has been the same yet I continue putting on weight especially tummy. I have checked with my RA specialist & she always tell me the weight gain is not due to medication. Can someone advise me what can be done in terms of diet & lifestyle to have a healthy body weight. It's sad to have people commenting on the weight issues. I have tried dieting & exercising but doesn't seem to help furthermore before I was on medication I don't really have to worry about this issue as I don't put on weight so easily.
Debbie
16 Jun 2009, 15:43
I have Lupus(SLE) and I seem to have my days and nights mixed up I am not sleepy at night and stay up late then sleep in late. Could this a symptom of lupus or maybe the meds?
Roseanna
16 May 2009, 20:48
I had a misscarage in march 2009 does me having RA have anything to do with that becuase i've been sick since then and we are now in may going on June. I have RA , my Thyroids are low, and to top it off I have Anemia. And my monthly cycle wont stop maybe just 4 days a month at the most. Why is this happening to me? Will I ever be able to get pregnant again?
Mohammed
16 May 2009, 04:08
Hi, I am 50 years old, suffering from osteoarthrities. I am walking everyday about i hour. Is walking harmful or beneficial for me ?
Beckie
15 May 2009, 23:10
Hi. I am 48 yrs old and was diagnosed with RAat age 29. I have been tried on everything from weekly Gold shots (years ago) to Methotrexate shots and every corticosteroid made!! All through those years til now I have been on Prednisone 10 mg a day. It is the only thing that has worked for me and although the doctors hate the idea of me being on it for so many years I have not and any side effects. Without it I can barely move or stand the pain and stiffness. The fatigue is just something I give into by taking a nap when possible not feeling guilty about it anymore. Be good to yourself and if others don't understand then they have a problem. Stay in pray and remind God that he said"he will never give us anymore than we can handle"....lol.
Wishing Well
14 May 2009, 01:15
I'm just beginning to learn about RA...And I'm in the process of determining if I have RA. One thing I do know I have full faith in Dr. Perricone's readings and lectures. He's an expert in "Inflamation of the Body" He really makes sense!!! Just Goggle him for further information. It begins with everything that we eat....And then the assistance of medication to curb further inflammation. Research..Research..Research.
Marlena
07 May 2009, 12:31
Hi
My name is marlena i am 25 years old i have been struggling with ilnes for a very long time 2 year ago they informed me that i have fibromyalgia. Then 6 months ago arthritis and deteriating disc in my back. I have a 4 year old son an 8 year old daughter and 12 and 15 year old step-sons my children are very active and i find it very hard to keep up at night i either cannot sleep at all and am exhausted the next dat from lack of sleep, or seem to sleep sound but wake up feeling worse that i had from no sleep. This is all very frustrating i feel i am to young to be having so many problems and cannot get any answers to try and help the situation as much as i try to stay strong for me my husband and my kids iys becoming quite hard. Just dont know whta else to do.
Brenda
22 Apr 2009, 13:05
I got diagnosed with RA and im scared im only 26 yrs old I would like some advice on how to take care of my self like what foods to avoid and what can i do for pain. After reading everyones symtoms i feel a little better and not so alone. Any one with any advice please let me know.
Hyacinth
20 Apr 2009, 03:57
I need a help from you. I have a pain stifness in my wrist and fingers. mainly in 2nd finger. Little swelling but when I move my finger its pain. I get mostly crak sound right wirst and left elbo and right knee. I took some vitamins calcium,Vitmin E, Fish Oil, Hi Glucomicin 1500 and another vitamine good for artherities. After taking that I am comfortable than earlier. In the evening earlier my hands neck should teeth all painful now better. I do my exercise so now I can sleep well. I started strength training for my hands now better. earlier I could not lift my arm I got the muscular pain I could not throw ball far my hands musels painful. What eles I can do. My hasband has died I have a son 18yrs I have to look after him so I have to live for him more healther . Ple help me
Jeanne
14 Apr 2009, 16:42
For Rosy
You must find a good Rheumatologist who can prescribe the right medication for your stage of Rheumatoid. The rest of your symptoms should resolve or at least improve with the right meds. I have had RA for about seven years and am currently on Methotrexate and Humira. They work really well for me. I also do regular water exercise as this keeps my joints moving without impact.
merlyn baldeo
10 Apr 2009, 11:20
hi, am 50yr old, i had rhu. artritis for years. i have the cold regulary, and i feel fatuge also,my joints is stiff anf paiinfull what can i use to help.
Lisa
13 Mar 2009, 12:48
Hi Rosy,
I have rheumatoid arthritis and believe it started after second child was born (I have four). The Doctor prescribed anti-depressant because they did a sleep test and I was not going into REM sleep. If you read about RA you will see that anxiety and depression are also symptoms of RA. I thought it was due to small children etc., but now believe it was because of RA that I was not sleeping. Hope this helps you.
Rosy
08 Mar 2009, 21:53
I was just recently diagnosed with Rheumatoid Arthritis. The thing is though I believe I have had it for several years. I just did not know what was wrong with me. Just before getting diagnosed I was getting sharp pain in my wrists and hands and now, I feel as if I have cronic fatique. I wake up tired from a full nights rest, yet i am dragging my butt the entire day. I even have spurts of fatique as well. One minute I will be great and the next I am so tired. I am wondering if a C-pap would be an idea for me to get that REM sleep, that i have a feeling i am not getting. I am 28 years old working fulltime mom, with a 15 month old son and a 4yr old daughter. My husband is a University student as well. I need help what can i do.

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