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How to Stay Upbeat During the Holidays

Feelings of sadness are common during the holidays. Here are tips on how to avoid the pitfalls and fire up a slew of sure-fire coping strategies.

By Judy Alexandra DiEdwardo

Anticipation alone of activity-related events during the holidays can create stress that leads to the holiday blues, says Mayo Clinic rheumatologist, John Davis, MD. “Just the idea of making meals, shopping, wrapping gifts, entertaining – and the pain and joint stiffness that these activities are likely to exacerbate – can be overwhelming. What should be a happy, enjoyable time becomes the opposite,” says Dr. Davis.

But, by incorporating a few forward-thinking measures now can mean creating one of your most enjoyable holidays ever.

Check In

See your rheumatologist before the holidays begin – when appointments may be scarce – and review your current treatment strategies to see if anything can be added or subtracted to help with the extra tasks and stress that typically comes with the holiday season. “You should be empowered; not have to suffer through,” says Dr. Davis, who advises:          

1. You may be a candidate for additional treatments like steroid injections, anti inflammatories or pain relievers. You may also benefit from adaptive devices like braces and splints.

2. Is your arthritis under adequate control? Can I benefit from new or additional medications? “A surprising number of arthritis patients do not have their condition adequately controlled and can have an improved quality of life with optimization of their medication management,” says Dr. Davis.

3. If you have depression don't be afraid to talk with your physician and have those symptoms treated separately. Significant sadness, stress and anxiety heighten during the holidays and should be treated seriously.

Mindfully Manage Your Health

The emotional backlash of holiday stress may be especially detrimental to those with a chronic illness, says Mayo Clinic psychiatrist, Jeffrey P. Staab, MD. “But, it is vital to differentiate between the illness of depression and holiday blues, which is the larger group that can be triggered by increased demands and unrealistic expectations,” he cautions.

In fact, says Staab, psychiatric admission are lowest during the holidays. “The two are very different and require a different approach.”

To avoid the most common stress-induced slump or crash Staab advises:

1. “Manage expectations, be realistic and don't forget to take care of yourself should be your principle strategy,” says Dr. Stabb.

2. “Stick with the things that usually work for you: talking to your spouse, reading a book. Don't forget or abandon what you already know,” he adds.

3. Keep exercising. Dr. Staab stresses the psychological benefits of exercise on one's emotional health. “Not only does exercise boosts serotonin levels, but it breaks a disabled mindset, which can sometimes settle in, especially if it's a new diagnosis or if symptoms have gotten worse,” says Dr. Staab. “Giving up on exercise and all of one's normal stress relievers is the worst thing to do, especially when demands go up.”

Carla Musick
16 Apr 2012, 12:15
I have RA and was diagnosed years ago. I have been told by doctor's and I have found it to be true so far. When I get around people who are sick with stomach virus, colds, etc. I was my hands frequently and stay as far away as I can. Is this because of the autoimmune part of the RA. I was staying in a safe house with a lot of other women who had the flu. I got it and took over the counter drugs. I was almost over it, and got it again. The doctor said I was getting other strains because of the breakdown in the immune system and he gave me preventative antibiotics. Is this true?
floyd
22 Mar 2012, 09:10
I am 47 yrs. old and have rheumatoid arthritis. Was diagnosed dec. of 2011, my wife says im depressed. I fight being down and when i can,t take my meds im in a lot of pain. I have a full time job in a hospital in house cleaning. I have been a land surveyor for 25 yrs. Got laid off in 2009 i miss it. Got to pay the bills.I try to stay active but not easy to when not on meds. Trying to get off the pity pot and fight! Keep my head up and keep telling myself my worth as a person does not come from what i do. Just one of many. Thanks Floyd
Chantal
08 Feb 2012, 16:19
i need to talk to someone about my depression
Larry
17 Jan 2012, 13:37
I am 58 years old and feel like the last 10 years when I should have been working but could not because of my back pain and depression ans axiety my wife works at a bank been there 22 years I feel like i am not contributing anything to my family even though I put my 1 daughter thru college and she is married and doing great but it is hard to sit around the house all day I am retired and do make more than my wife but it is not the same as working i feel like a bum but i am trying to hang in there I take celexea for depression and it helps alot
Linda
19 Dec 2011, 09:43
For Wanda,
We had to send our beloved 14 yr old golden retriever Sedona to Heaven. She and I have suffered through surgeries and much arthritic and back pain over the years. Like your Logan, Sedona was my soul mate. Although I too am full of sorrow, I am comforted that she is again the spry girl who runs with the wind. She is whole once more. Please know that your Logan lives on as a whole happy Akita, waiting for you when you both can cross the Rainbow Bridge together.
Wanda
17 Dec 2011, 22:58
I've just lost my dear sweet Logan, right after Thanksgiving. He was an Akita of 7 years, but more human than anyone could know. We both have/had a severe arthritis, and understood each other's pain. He was my sweetie,my friend, companion and sidekick. I am having the hardest time, day after day. Just when I think I am getting a little control, the pain of losing him envelopes me again. I'm already on an anti depressant for my chronic pain issues(among others)But it's not helping. I need to call my doctor. I miss my Logan so much....
Catherine Barczyk
17 Dec 2011, 12:30
I am very blessed with a wonderful cat named Shadow who wakes me up with kisses each morning. Even though my Rheumatoid Arthritis makes it hard somedays to get out of bed without an achy body. Her love and need get me through it. I have a reason to get up and the sooner I get up, the sooner, I take control of the pain. Keeping my mind busy works best for me! It doesn't get completely rid of the pain but it becomes more manageable. I will light my Prayer Candle on Christmas Eve and Day for all my Fellow Arthritis Sufferers and ask God to give you a pain free or manageable pain day!!!!!!!!!
Amy
16 Dec 2011, 10:05
For all of you SADD sufferers -- taking a daily vitamin D3 supplement can be a really big help, and may even eliminate the need for using a light lamp.
Elizabeth
15 Dec 2011, 16:24
My doctor just decided to change all my meds as a result of my recent labs, and take me off my TNF...right b4 Christmas! Yikes! I thought about it and called him back, and he agreed to not change things til after the New Year holiday. Thankful! My goal is to get to Mass Christmas Eve, and w/out my medicine, that would not be possible! Trying to pace myself as I prepare for Christmas. Shopping early over the internet was a huge asset! Now to hope that Christmas Dinner at our house goes ok. Trying to keep it simple, even with company coming.
Debbie Cloughly
26 Oct 2011, 23:18
I need to start an exercise program. My Osteoarthritis is in my shoulders, spine, knees and ankles. I've tried a few classes back in Kansas City, MO.
Renee
20 Oct 2011, 10:44
I have several friends with SADD, with and without arthritis. There's a lot more you can do to combat depression during this often stressful time of year.
I have severe arthitis, and have been injecting a biological for several years. The best thing I ever did for myself was getting into an exercise program. Thank you for including that one in your short list.

Walking your dog is good for both of you! I can no longer walk long distances, but I can walk around the block several times a day. Winter can be drab, but there is joy in stark beauty. Every day you're alive is a good day, is a gift! Last year I had back surgery and was recovering during winter. The gray foggy days seemed to drag on and on. I tricked my mind into thinking I was on one of my hikes in Yosemite. You can insert your own favorite place there.

My SADD friends report using a sun lamp helps, as fading daylight hours become problematic. One friend reports leaving holiday lights or a candle on helps. I regularly take my friends out for a drive to look at holiday lights, it boosts all of our spirits.

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