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Short Bursts of Everyday Activities Can Improve Fibromyalgia Symptoms

By Jennifer Davis

4/8/10 A new study suggests that small increases in everyday activities like gardening, housework or even taking stairs instead of an elevator, can improve pain and increase function in people with fibromyalgia.

Researchers at Johns Hopkins University in Baltimore split 84 people with fibromyalgia who were inactive to two groups: one that was asked to attend fibromyalgia education classes, and another that was assigned to engage in 30 minutes of what they called ‘lifestyle physical activities’ on five to seven days of the week for 12 weeks.

They defined lifestyle physical activities as everyday activities like vacuuming, walking or scrubbing the shower.

Participants were told the proper intensity level for these activities would cause them to breathe a little heavier but would still allow them to carry on a conversation and that the 30 minutes could be spread throughout the day, rather than accomplished all at once.

Researchers relied on a questionnaire that allowed participants to report their results. At the end of 12 weeks, participants said they did not experience differences in terms of fatigue or depression. But those doing lifestyle activities did perceive that they had less pain and were functioning better than those who were only getting education and support.

The study was published in the journal Arthritis Research & Therapy.

“To me, the big news is that getting people with fibromyalgia just to do a little more physical activity can reap benefits,” says Kevin Fontaine, PhD, the lead author and an associate professor of Medicine at the Johns Hopkins University School of Medicine. “Anything is better than nothing, and our hope is as people do short bursts of activity perhaps they start to feel better and can start to transition to exercise.”

Fibromyalgia is a condition that causes pain and tenderness all over the body. The condition affects an estimated 2 percent of Americans, and is more common in women than in men. 

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gizzelle
01 Feb 2011, 12:41
I would love to start a support group on facebook with some of you, But I want it to be a positive place where we support each other and give info about things that have helped you so it can help others . I am going to take a chance here and give my email addy to anyone who wants to be positive and helpful and meet new friends who really do understand and are going to be there for you please write me... tabykatt@msn.com write me with a name for our group...everyone is welcome this is going to be a positive place that is safe for people to be able to talk about how they really feel and how they have been treated but after you get that out then we are going to be positve and not go on & on about it ok?? I'm not saying you cant say Im having a bad day just dont let that be all you have to say . We are going to help one another. now I want you to thing of a positive name for our group something beautiful and positive . remember age sex religion race doesnt matter here we are all as one . :.) Oh I wanted to say something about my first post, about medication..I was raised by my grandparents that never took any kind of medication and also never went to the doctor, neither one of them drank smoked or anything unhealthy but they both died horrible deaths from cancer that could have been prevented if they had went for regular check ups every year . I too didnt want to take medication because of the way I was raised and because there is such a negitive stigma attached to pain meds because of the few who abuse drugs take advantage of the system just so they can get high. Those people I loathe because they made it very hard on me to find a doctor where I could get medication to relieve my pain . I noticed that a lot of people do have pain medication and they complain about feeling loopie and they are scared and can't function. First things first..If you are not happy with your doctor please do get rid of them and don't stop till you find that one in a million doctor that actually sits down in the room and actually listens to you even though he has over booked with patients (like they all do anymore)...THERE IS NOONE WHO KNOWS YOU BODY BETTER THAN YOU DO NOT EVEN THE DOCTOR . You have to be active in your health services . If you go in there and act like (example Doctor say do you have any questions ? you say no your the doctor I trust what you say or no you know better than me.) This is stories that doctors have told me and they have no respect for you when you do this. You should have questiomns each and everytime you go in the docs office. You need to sit down and make a list of every question you have and go down through that list with the doctor and have a place to write down his answers. If they make you feel uncomfortable for asking or act like they don't have time or are upset..or give really short answers that don't say much...then you are not with the right doctor . I totally understand because I have been through 60 plus doctors . I went to have a test done one time where they put me in the surgury room on my stomach and they put skinny little wires in the nerves in my back to test them for damage . I layed there on my belly and you couldnt move because they could damage your nerves, with no pain meds..imagine having 5 inch wirey needles ran through all your nerves in your back( i'm sure a lot of you have had some kind of test like this or a nerve conduction test this test was way worse than that) it is the most sickening feeling with no relief. I didn't complain at all I was trying to breathe doing breathing exercises to calm myself down but I had the water works going on, tears were just flowing and soaking up the sheet and this doctor looked at me and said in a smart alec condesending voice.."you have a very low pain tolerence and you need to dry up the tears" That kind of DOCTOR YOU DON"T NEED EITHER !!! Don't stay with someone who has no respect for you or compassion for you . There are really good doctors out there few and far between but you have to get out there and find them . You can get references to them
through all the fibro info sites and this site I think as well. I have read much info on web and many books mostly written by people who don't have this and have no idea what it is , they usually are very negitve with what they say about it and us as well, you dont need to fill your head with these negitive peoples garbage either . I have to really good books I want to tell you about that are written by an M.d. doctor who has both fibro & myofascial pain disease and she had to stop working because of it . Who better is going to know how we feel and what we go thru and also have the correct medical information for us.

She has a website that has a lot of helpfull info on it, you will have to look for it in search on the web by her name. Most of you..if you will buy these books you are going to find out that you also have myofascial pain Many doctors dont know much about this as well . I can also tell you that I watched a report about fibro & docotrs and they said that you would be better off finding a younger doctor because they are more likely to stay up on all current information and all the trail studies. That most older doctors are set in there ways and don't stay up on all the current info and think they know it all. Now that is not a good thing is it ? here are the name of the books. Also one more note this doctor is the national spokes person for fibromyalgia with the arthritis foundation. Every year she has a big conferrence in Orange county California, it is split up into to different conferences one side she teaches the doctors & medical community about these two subject and the other one is for people suffering with these illness. I wish I still lived in CA. because I would go. These books can be found on amazon.com they were about 50.00 at book store but I got them for about 13.00-15.00 a piece on amazon . Many even on ebay you can find, but please note the copy rite date because these books have been updated many times with the most current info and you don't want to buy one that is outdated.
You really want both books because the one has more info detailed info about fibro and the other one tells about the fibro & the effect with it & myofascial pain . I promise you, you will not be disapointed with these books. They are the best I have found.

The Fibromyalgia advocate
by Devin Starlanyl

Fibromyalgia & Chronic Myofascial Pain a survival manual.
by Devin Starlanyl &
Mary Ellen Copeland

The thing about the pain meds if you take something and it makes you loopy then take half as much, if there are a lot of side effects then you need to keep changing till you find what works for you. I know there are a lot of people who take20-60 plus pills a day and I'm telling you that is not good. You really have to change your way of thinking the way you eat and how you take care of yourself exercise is the best medication of all it will help you feel better after you do it awhile and will help you sleep better and it help[s with your mind giving you peace. Stretching as in yoga is very important because it keeps your body limber where you can get around and gives you peace in your mind . Also meditation does wonders for your mind and gives you a peace as well as God . Yes I am A christian but you don't have to be one to be in the group. I will make refferences to God here and there so if you don't like that then don't come but I will not have people comming saying negitive about God in the room, so please just know that. I am not going to try to save you, that's not my job but I am not afriad to refference to the almighty who made us all. I love you all and wish you much peace love joy and happiness. I am sorry for some of the mispelt words like a lot of you I cant remember anything which included spelling three letter words at times. lol Plus there is no spell check and I didnt feel like looking it all up in the dictionary like I usually do because both of my posts were so long.
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gizzelle
01 Feb 2011, 11:19
Listen everybody, I have been diagnosed when I was 27 with fibro syndrome and chronic myofascial pain disease . I am now 42 . I see that a lot of us have been divorced, it's a shame when your spouse won't stick by your side . But with all of the negitive out there about our condition it doesn't help us at all . I lived in LOs Angeles where everyone there is very supportive and now I live in WV which is a beautiful place with many wonderful people . Wv does have a problem their medial community is behind the times . The doctors are way beside all the new info on fibro and etc . Anyways people like you I gained weight about 75 pounds and I couldnt move get around sleep or anything. I was miserable . Listen I got the weight off not by someone elses plan but my own . I started taking alli weight loss that you can get at walmart, the price just got lowered too. It really does work but you have to exercise everyday . I don't want to hear I can't I can't because YOU CAN. A lot of people don't want to take pain meds and fine just keep sitting there and complaining about the pain while your body continues to gain weight become more unhealthy and you have a heart attach or worse . The only way I can function to exercise to take pain meds . I have to take them before I go walking or lifting weights . It is hard as hell when you first start out. But do you remember who you use to be ? What you use to look like ? The fun and enjoyment that has been stolen from your life ? Do you want it back or do you want to continue to sit on the couch and grow ?? It is going to be many years before we get the kind of understanding that we need and deserve . So, untill then you have to do something about it . This will steal your family & friends from you as well as your spouse . I recommend you take a work hardening class or a pain management class I took it two times, it teaches you not to complain about your pain so much . Yes we want people to understand, yes we want people to stop acting like it is in our heads but either they love you and support you or they don't and complaining and doing nothing about it is only going to push you further away . Noone wants to be around someone who complains about there pain all the time, it is a downer, people either feel really guilty cause they can't do anything for you or you bring them down with depression and that negitive feeling makes them avoid you . Start paying attention to what you are saying, keep a journal and everytime you have a negitive thought or complain write it down and right the date & time of day so that you can see how much you really are complaining and being negitive . It will shock you . Don't say negitive things to yourself about pain or think or repeat to yourself anything negitive someone has said about you because all you are doing is reinforcing negitives that stay in your head and help defeat you . Listen, if someone is your friend or lover or family if they are truly good people that have their heads on straight then they will support you encourage you and not judge you . If they are negitive and are jerks and treat you like crap....GET RID OF THEM ! they are not helping your situation and are only going to bring you down more . Beleive me I do know what I am talking about. Everything I have said here I have been through and through the struggle made it loost weight felt better about myself, learned to love me . I love you all YOU are my true family we can do this people . I know some of you are sitting there reading this saying oh she doesnt have it as bad as me, she doesnt know what she's talking about, everyone is different..KEEP TELLING YOURSELF THAT AND YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE AND NEVER WIN. We fibro people have been so defensive,grouchy,short fused, and etc. You all know what I'm talking about . It is because the way we have been treated and the lack of knowledge or support .
Ellen
15 Oct 2010, 14:17
When I was diagnosed with the FM I was driving a school bus in 2004. I thought I was just having the pain in between my shoulder blades in my back and rib cage area from the way I was sitting in the drivers seat. I went to see my PCP and he sent me to a Physical Therapist(PT). On the second appt. with the PT he told me to bring my bus with me so he could check out the adjustment of my seat, so I did. He said my seat was what was doing it to me. My boss was great she gave me a brand new bus on the fleet that had a seat that did everything but dance. I took that with me to the PT and he helped me adjust it, plus I was placing a small lumbar pillow vertically behind my back to support my spine. From Sept 2003 to Feb 2004 this did no good. The pain grew worse, so much so that I started getting horrible debilitating migraines from the pain graduating up from the area in my back and neck. I had to loose time off work. My PCP sent me to a Neurologist that diagnosed me with the Fibromyalgia in Feb 2004.
Now, I had always been a very active person. Since I was a teenager I had been riding horses, and still owned, trained, and rode my own horses, my husband and I had sled dogs for the past 12 years, and I cross country skied and snowed shoed too.
I had experienced pain in my back and in between my shoulder blades and neck area for years, but I chalked it up to my active way of life. Now I finally knew what it was really from. I knew other people that were active in sports and they did not have daily pain like I did. They did not tire out early in the day and have to push themselves to get things done.
In 2005 I had to stop driving the bus and I found a few little odd jobs to keep me going financially for a while, then I got to the point where I could no longer work at all. In 2007 the FM pain moved into my feet, ankles and knees, which makes exercise nearly impossible and I have gained 60 lbs since 2004.(incidentally I fired one of my doctors in 2007 for telling me my problem was my weight gain. She said I was obese, and that my pain was due to my weight gain and if I lost the weight the pain would go away too, I couldn't believe my ears, because I tried to tell her that I was gaining the weight because I could not do the things I was use to doing any longer) Now I am on State Disability of only $269.00 a month since August of 2008 and I did apply for SSI. I had my hearing before a judge July 15th, and apparently my lawyer says it went in my favor and now I am in another waiting game of waiting for the Social Security Admin. to do their part.That could take a while yet. I am told there is a backlog of cases and I am a folder on someones desk.(reduced to paperwork) In the meantime, I am sinking fast financially, my PCP just retired and I do not have another one yet, and PT just cut me loose from my sessions too. So I am waiting, waiting, waiting.
Oh by the way, in the past 7 years, I have tried many different so called FM medications(I have been divorced since 2006) and most of the meds made me feel loopy and sick and unable to function. So I told my doctors no more pain meds, I have to be able to function since I live alone now. I only take Tylenol now several times a day to take the edge off to I can get through my day. I also take 2 migraine preventatives which have reduced my migraines from 18 a month to about 10 a month. I take Imitrex to break them when I do have them.
Carol
13 Oct 2010, 07:16
I have spent most of my life working out. I have also spent a large part telling doctors how fatigued I am and how much pain I am in. I have had horrific IBS among many other symptoms. The doctors have treated me like I am just a complainer and send me off to various specialists which I started refusing to go to. I insisted all of my symptoms had to be some how related. I just found a wonderful doctor. He is a DO internist. He concurred with me that this is not in my mind and told me that I have fibromyalgia. I think all of my daily excersize routine for so many years has kept me going through the pain. I push myself every morning to get up and continue working out. I then try to get the house work done. By noon I am usually crashing, but at least I feel like I have accomplished things. The hard part is working. I was downsized due to the economy. I have been applying for jobs but I know there is no way that I would be able to work a typical day. I am a designer so I am hoping when things pick up I will be able to get freelance jobs and work from home. It is hard dealing with not feeling well and trying to find a way to work and survive. Working out definitely helps. I push myself through it. I know if I stop I probably would never get out of bed. It makes me feel like I am doing something to help myself, even if I end up back in bed right after. After reading about all the side affects with Cymbalta I felt it would not be for me. I discussed with my doctor alternatives. I do not have pharmacy coverage so I could not go on Savella. I am now on Fluoxotine. It seems to be helping me sleep a little better. I don't want to be on pain med because it could make my IBS worse. It is nice to know I am not alone and there are doctors out there who undrestand and help.
Jodi
15 Jun 2010, 11:03
I was diagnosed 5-6 years ago with fibromyalgia and like many of you, had symptoms for much longer than that. I was very happy when fibro was actually recognized as a syndrome that didn't originate in your imagination. I always told my doctors that even my imagination couldn't come up with pain like this, it had to be very real. I also have gouty arthritis and osteoarthritis along with it. I am a nurse, working 40 hours a week. I am so encouraged when I read these posts by all of you. I know I'm not alone in the fight against this. Lately though, I feel like I'm losing that fight. Even with the medication that I take, the pain is overwhelming me. It used to be 4-5 PM before I started to lose steam but now it's noon or 1pm. The fatigue is just getting to be too much, especially when added to the pain. I've tried PT, OT, and aqua therapy. The aqua therapy helped so much but of course my insurance only paid for so many sessions and there isn't any community pools in my area that are heated, let alone that have classes so that's not an option anymore. It's to the point that, like another person posted, my husband has to come and get me out of the car at night after work. I am in so much pain and so stiff after the 30 minute drive home from work that I can't move by myself. I can't try for disability because my husband is disabled and I carry the insurance for us. I have to work for as long as I possibly can because both of our medicines are so expensive I could never pay for them if I didn't have good insurance. I am having more and more flares, the 14 steps to the upstairs at night are becoming a mountain to me. I am caught in the circle of being so exhausted and hurting so bad at night when I get home the thought of any kind of movement, let alone exercise, is simply beyond me. You all have such good ideas I was hoping there might be some thoughts on what might work for me. Any help would be gratefully tried. Praying for you all.
Suziq
09 May 2010, 14:18
I was a nurse and had to retire early due to RA, OA, and Fibro, It started in my low back years ago and then when I was on my feet on concrete for my shift and sat down to chart at the end of the shift I had a very hard time getting back on my feet to walk to the time clock and to the car. Finally It got bad enough I would have to call and wake my husband to help me out of the car to get in the house and to bed. I knew I had the OA ad RA but I knew there was something else, but the doctors all just look at you like it's in your head. I've had Fibro for years but no doctor knew what it was. Then a few years ago a new arthritis doctor came to town and he knew right away what was wrong. It felt so good to know I wasn't nuts!! I too am type A, wonder what that has to do with it??? I went with my husband to SS when he signed up, as he was about to retire, and I was walking with a walker that day to try to keep from falling with the pain in my feet. the guy in there ask me what was wrong and I told him. He ask me why I hadn't signed up for disability and I said I figured there were a lot of people worse off than me that had been refused. He gave me the papers and said to fill them out and send them in, telling me not to quit on it as the first time every one gets refused, just keep on them. Then I found out the right way to get it done after the second refusal. Get an attorney that deals with disability and let him file for you, don't even start through the SS office and it will go much faster and you will get it. They fight for you and know the ins and outs. I had to go in front of a judge, since I had started mine, which took like three months, and got no where until the attorney and then things went much faster. The judge was very upset they did me the way they did and signed the papers right then, with an apology for the wasted time I waited. This is all uncalled for, so find an attorney that deals with disability and you get results, he gets nothing until he wins the case, so he will work harder for you too.

It's very hard to plan anything as you never know how you will feel ahead of time and it's very upsetting to have to take two or three days to do a room, and scrubbing and running the sweeper just tears my back into, also bending over the bed to make it , some days it just doesn't get done. I'm lucky how ever to have an understanding husband, he helps when I ask, even though he has a bad back and a blown out shoulder that they can't replace because of his heart. We just help one another and get by.He tells me just do what you can or feel like and it will wait for another day, and just pull the covers up, don't worry about it. we change it together once a week and forget about it unless I feel like it. We worked different shifts so we never had company much, so the ones we did have know the circumstances. I've learned not to worry about what others think, that took a very long time though. Do what you can, when you can and see what tomorrow brings. When we have gatherings in the family, I go when I can and when I can't I don't, if they don't understand so be it.
Just don't give up trying, I never will. Suziq
Doris Spencer
07 May 2010, 16:31
Hello, everyone in my shoes!! I have been diagnosed with fibromyalgia for about 4 months, but now realize I have had some of the symptoms for a few years. My older sister has had fibro for several years and Mom and I had never understood why she laid in the bed for days at a time, just getting up to go to the bathroom. NOW, I realize the pain she has been in, BUT I am not willing to let this disease take my life! I have tried for a very long time now to get her to move more,all for naught, so I am focusing on what I can do to manage my own life. I have been going for accupuncture and will say that it does work, but then you can't overdo it afterwards or you get back in the same shape. My doctors have me on Savella and Lyrica and so far, I just can't tell anything! I take percocet occasionally for pain.
In addition to the needles and the medications, I discovered that my back was feeling better after I purchased a pair of tennis shoes and a pair of sandals!! What?! you say? Skechers shape-ups tennis shoes and the tone-ups sandals work well for me. I always have one or the other on my feet, even in the house, and it seems to help my back. Another thing is, when I take walks, I use 2 walking sticks you can buy at a sporting goods store (Dick's, Gander Mtn, etc.). Adjust them to about your elbow height and when walking you put your arms straight out and walk kind of like a cross-country skiier does. That takes some of the stress off of the feet and also helps with the back pain. Those are a few of the ways I have found that help me. Anybody that would like to start communicating with me and trying to form a support group on-line can e-mail me at doris_spencer54@yahoo.com. In the subject line: I have fibro, too and I will open it and e-mail you back.
Everyone hang in there and do what most of these comments are telling us: find what you levels of activity, rest and etc. are for you and learn what works FOR YOU! Right now my husband of 38 years has been very supportive. He does get a little upset about the mess around the house occasionally, but after being a "neat freak" for all of these years, he is learning a little to let some things go or do them himself. We occupy our days with 5 grandchildren, he does gardening and we walk, and I do reading. One very good book to read ( you can get it online @ Amazon or Books-A-Million) is "Your Personal Guide to Living Well with Fibromyalgia" an official publication of the Arthritis Foundation. I've also purchased "Fibromyalgia for Dummies" but I prefer the other one.
Thanks for letting me comment and everyone take care and God Bless.
Marcy
06 May 2010, 20:32
By the way, I forgot to say that I have been dealing with Fibro for 53 years now, the last 8 in total flare. I really do the best when I focus off myself, and toward others. There are times when I can't do more than pray for someone else, because everything hurts too much, but most of the time I can block the pain by giving someone else a hand. Stay encouraged.
Deb
06 May 2010, 10:25
I have been diagnosed with Fibro for over 20 years and probably had it much longer before that. I too am a Type A personality. I call it the Goldilocks syndrome. Too much exercise, you hurt. Too little exercise, you hurt. What you need to do is find what works for you and then it's just right. Aquatic exercise in a warm pool (definitely not a cool pool) works for me. I also found out that "baby steps" when you are first trying out a new exercise or new household task is a good idea. Slowly increase the amount of time, frequency or pace of the exercise over time.
Fibro is the worst thing that has happened to me but it is also one of the best things that has happened to me. It has made me stop a Type A stress full life style and really made me look at my life: What gives me energy, what takes it away, what is really important in my life and what is not, who are really my friends, what makes a good friend, am I a good friend, how can I pace myself, etc. I have learned more about myself since I have been forced by my body to change my life style. Not all of it is enjoyable but some of it I wouldn't change now for the world. I have met new people and friends that I never would have before. I'm enjoying myself and my family more. I recommend attending a good support group if you can find one in your area. One that educates and/or helps you learn to laugh at yourself & Fibro.
Sam
05 May 2010, 21:38
My uncle sent me this article as he is always looking for ways to improve his own pain and when he realized that I suffered much as he did (with Neuropathy)he made it his mission to help me as well. Oddly enough I have known about the exercise for years and up until three years ago was living fairly well with my fibro, we were in two car accidents within 2 years and the result has been a seemingly permanent worsening of my fibro. Like so many who have posted I cannot take most of the drugs that are out there, one way or another there is always a some sort of side effect that makes taking it impossible. How did I function so well for so many years, after initially doing almost nothing for 2 years while a doctor who did not understand what I was feeling and had no idea how to treat me messed around with drugs that did not work, made me gain weight and did nothing for my pain I discovered the internet and access to information, some helped, some did not. What worked best, a really good massage therapist, changing my diet (for me eating less wheat, sugar, citrus fruits all made a difference, lots of berries, lots of rice based things (pasta etc) and LOW impact exercise, walking (especially with music) swimming and oddly enough in the end a video game, the Dance Dance Revolution game, set without jumps and half steps, I love to dance, I could do it whenever and for how long I was able.
Now I am looking for some way to get back there, I co own a business where a good portion of my job is to teach, which is what I love. I cannot do a third of what I was doing three years ago, my business partner doesn't understand and my husband is now in a permanent pity party and is angry at me most of the time. To make matters worse the business operates out of my home and when I am having a bad day I am reduced my bedroom/tv room space as classes are being carried on downstairs. I refuse to give up, I will get back what I had. To those who are struggling, hang in there, keep trying different things, find what works for YOU and do it, each one of us though our complaints are so similar will respond to different things. It was nice to read about others, it is always good to know you are not along.
Ricki
05 May 2010, 21:36
I just got back from a vacation with my best friend who I know loves me. But by the time I got home my heart was broken. I literally crawled into my bed fully clothed and cried myself to sleep. I couldn't keep up the entire vacation and she would not slow down or even allow me to skip a tour or take a day to just sleep. She has been with me since my diagnosis of fibromyalgia, going to doctor appointments and aquasize classes. But when push came to shove, I felt like my dearest friend threwA me to the wolves. The more I pushed, the more pain I had and my exhaustion was so apparent that the airline attendant asked if I was ok.

When does this end? I too have applied for disability, been turned down twice so far and that was with legal representation. I used to work a very responsible job and now I have problems remembering my pin number.

I make myself get up everyday, even when it is at 3:00 in the afternoon. My mother died from cancer and she got up everyday up until the day before she died. I keep telling myself that I don't have cancer, I'm not that bad. But my mother could do many things up until two weeks before she died that I haven't been able to do for three years.

Prayer is a daily practice with me, along with having a close group of loving friends and a chosen family. I LOVE my doctor and he does everything he possibly can for me.

But every day is getting harder to deal with and I am beginning to wonder if staying in bed wouldn't be easier for everyone, including my best friend.

Ricki
Carolyn
05 May 2010, 16:29
Marcy,

You are so right!
Marcy
05 May 2010, 16:00
I have had symptoms of FM since early childhood, and had various diagnoses including myofascial pain syndrome, arthritis, etc. About 8 years ago, the pain became intense and began to interfer with my teaching. I have since had to early retire since disability was refused (no such disease as FM, garbage diagnosis, they said). What I have found is that acceptance of my condition is essential to my well being, but not abdication of my life because of it. I HAVE FIBRO, IT DOES NOT HAVE ME. Some days it's hard to keep that straight, but pity parties are lonely affairs and real downers. Keeping my focus on what I can do for others, rather than on what I want for myself, is mentally very helpful to me. I'm no Pollyanna, but I won't die from this, even if it feels like it today. The more I do, the more I feel like I can do (within reason). Move, even if it's just one more small thing, try when it feels impossible.. Don't walk 3 miles, just go down the block and back. Volunteer to make phone calls for someone, make get well cards and send them. Whatever you do, don't give up.
Carolyn
05 May 2010, 13:14
Let's see if I can get this into prospective after reading Cliona's entry - fibromyalgia AND going blind...wow! I will pray for a better day each and every day you wake up. Thanks to everyone for sharing.

If I can sum up my personal story after reading all of yours:Diagnosed almost 20 yrs ago, a roller coaster ride for sure. Very active prior to chronic fatigue that set in; lu was able to reduce stress by leaving high pressure job; no disability but a wonderful boss and great support from family/friends. Turned to prayer and meditation for 3 years - always helps if I turn things over. Yes, I was probably type A. Took 2 yrs. to come up with correct dosage of anti-depressant; slept all day with 100 mgs; started living again when dosed to 10mg which I still take today, along with low dose of Lorazapam. Seem to be drug-sensitive. R any of U? Massage and lymph drainage very helpful; salt water soaks are great; Neuragen PN for bad myofascial pain; I was part of this study, in control group. Wrote a poem about fibro during that time. Still unfinished; love to share. Have no doctor right now that understands and can treat. Searching in MD. Anyone have any suggestions. Thinking about acupuncture; had bad chiro experience but know the right one could be out there. Tough thing about fibro; figuring out what's what...best to eliminate other things that can be fixed, like herniated disks, e.g. Good thing about fibro, not life-threatening. I have 2 amazing sisters fighting cancer, stage IV ovarian for 5 years!!!and stage II breast cancer about 9 months ago. Take care, all.

P.S. - Cheryl, you're not crazy. You are dealing with a lot more than FMS! Also in my prayers.
Brigitte
05 May 2010, 09:01
My advice is to try accupuncture! I did, years ago and after about 8 treatments and taking herbs the accupuncturist gave me, which were ground up and which I had to put into capsules, it seemed to "cure" me. I moved away from that area and so did the accupuncturist. About ten years later, all the symptoms came back -- I had overworked myself, stayed up night and day for a period of time when my mother was dying in order to care for her, and I was under stress that didn't seem to let up (much of it financial).
It just occurred to me today to mention this because everyone here has been so helpful and understanding to one another. I think I will try to find another good accupuncturist (they are not all alike; I find it to be more of an art than a science) and I suggest others try it too, it just might help! At the very least, it surely can help the pain, even if only temporarily. The needles don't hurt, and it is not vodoo medicine, it's real
Faye
05 May 2010, 08:37
I have just read the comments of those that suffer like I do from fibromyalgia. It is so true that our friends and family, that love us, cannot understand unless they have suffered this illess. It has left me without many friends, and leary to attempt to make new friends, since I cannot determine my energy levels, my depression or fatique from one day to the next.
I was very interested to hear that many of us are Type A personalities. When I left work, as a social worker, I left on a stretcher, going to the hospital with heart attack symptoms. I was 46, just completed a second degree, going to school and working full time.
I have since received disability for fibromyalgia and the symptoms that accompany the illness; depression, fatique, memory loss, mental fog...we know the list. The hardest thing for me is the lack of friends and the desire to do this, do that, accomplish this, but the physical inability to do so.
Someone asked about applying for disability, and my experience was I was denied 3 times, but with the help of an attorney, I was able to get it, three years after first applying. I thank everyone for sharing their comments, and know I am not alone. Blessings to everyone.
Leslie
05 May 2010, 07:26
Well, I was just diagnosed about a month ago. I am taking Savella, Ultram and Soma. This helps with sleeping most nights but not all the time. During the day I can tell when the meds start wearing off because of the increasing creeping pain. I apparently have had this for some time and did not realize or know until I started a new job that required alot of heavy, repititous work. After a month, I was diagnosed and I have since had to quit a job that I needed desparately. I want to start walking but,like any other activity, I am afraid. I can not afford a gym, therapist or a membership at the Y so I can swim some. So walking is all that I have for now. I cant get my house back to where it was before I started my last job because of the fatigue. I am so glad to see there are others with the same condition as the people I love most do not understand the condition and think I am nuts. Is there any help out there, through some sort of gov. org. or insurance assistance to help those of us who cannot otherwise afford things that may help us further?? any and all suggestions are soooo welcome.. I am 52 years OLD!
Cheryl
05 May 2010, 04:06
I must be crazy or something. I have had fibromyalgia since I was in my mid twenties. I am now 51 yrs old. It did not come on in full until I was about 36 and just had a couple of surgeries and radiation therapy for some tumors in my neck. I do not understand!!!! The more I do, the more hell fire pain I live in. The more rest and sleep I get, the better off I am. Just exactly opposite of everything everyone is saying here. I live with my body on fire, I also have horrible spinal problems such as spinal deterioration, nerve damage, bursitis, sciatica, arthritis and the list continues for miles...I do not understand why activity does not work for me. I live every day wishing I were dead. I cannot tolerate the pain. I can hardly walk. My doctor gives me suboxone for pain which is almost totally useless...Any body have any suggestions for me, Pleeeezeee???? !!!! Please email me @ rdchryl@yahoo.com. Thank you all and God bless you too!
Linda Hawley
05 May 2010, 01:23
I have had fibromyalgia amongst other illnesses for many years. I find it interesting that there seems to be a common theme throughout these postings. (1) We seem to all have been type A personalities when we were able to work. (2) We all have a hard time adjusting to not being able to work at that pace anymore. Acceptance, man is that a big one to learn. My counselor keeps saying live in the present and concentrate on what you can do now, not in the past and what you used to be able to do, and don't project into the future. She is right but it is really hard to accept. (3) Exercise - that is hard for me to put into action. I can't get through my daily chores and she wants me to make time for ME? I am working on that now. (4) THE BIGGEST ONE - MODERATION-knowing how long we can do a physical job like weeding, mowing the lawn, floors, laundry before we have overdone it. I think I have found that my work time has to be limited to one hour and two hours down time, but don't find time to stop when that hour is up.
First I am going to make a list of everything I have to do and then quit at the end of the hour and be content that I actually kept to my schedule. I also have ADD so this will also help me with that also. I think I am going to get a timer and set it for an hour and then for two hours it's my down time and try that. (Maybe during that two hours I can fit something fun or water aerobics in that time-although three times a week of aerobics is too much. I am going to try once or twice a week and see how I feel then.) I also decided to log my progress to see if it works. I will let you all know if it works once I apply it.
Lee Ann
05 May 2010, 00:01
We sound alike. When I was in high school, my mother said there needed to be two of me. It took me a long time to learn moderation. Now I am nearly 57 and really slowing down. I've been diagnosed with FMS for one year, although I had some symptoms for all my life. Are we all Type A personalities? Overachievers? Just curious. My FMS is greatly affected by stress. I'm still working but find it increasingly difficult.
P Tresco
04 May 2010, 22:01
I have had fibro for many years. I try to stay as active as possible. Some days I just drag out of bed. But, my dr. now gives me a steroid shot about every three months. It seems to help for about seven weeks but I manage because I don't like getting them. When it gets too bad, I take other meds to get me by. I too have notice if I stay active I do better. Getting upset brings mine on faster. It is good to know there are others out there that have questions about this disease and are searching for relief. I am a breast cancer survivor of 4 yrs so you see alot of your pain comes from situations you have to face.
Bev
04 May 2010, 21:08
There is hope for fibromyalgia. The biggest change in my pain occurred when I began to change my diet, reduced my carbohydrate intake, exercised more (when I can)and decided to be more proactive. I do not take any medicine on a daily basis (only occasionally on the worst days). I still have nights that I have trouble sleeping, but the pain is minimal. And yes, a positive attitude is critical to managing fibromyalgia. I agree with this article that doing something whether it is exercising, walking up stairs, cleaning or whatever helps. I have learned the hard way not to overdo because that means sleeping and resting to make up for overdoing. We are all different and have to learn what works best for one doesn't always work best for another.
Cynthia
04 May 2010, 20:48
Physical exercise is the answer to relieving the ongoing pain. Finding the right amount for you is the hard part. For the last 6 months I have been going to a great chiropractor. I get adjusted 3 times a week. It is expensive and my insurance doesn't cover it, but it is the only thing that has actually helped me to feel better. I feel at least 10 years younger. I am able to exercise 3 days a week, I do yoga, run on an eliptical machine and do water aerobics in a warm therapy pool. I feel better than I have in the last 20 years. I owe this all to my chiropractor. Find a good one and stick with it. I tried all the medications with all the side effects, Cymbalta did help somewhat, but I am finally off that too. Gentle cervical traction helps to relieve some of the pressure off the nerves in the spine. I feel that pressure on C1 causes fibromyalgia pain. If your nerves are being compressed, you are going to have widespread pain. I only wish one of the many doctors that I have seen over the last 20 years would have suggested that I see a chiropractor sooner.
Martha Mathews
04 May 2010, 20:46
I recently had a free facial of Orgins Products at our local shop. It was very relaxing for me. I was not pressed into buying anything. The fellow who worked with me told me that that through their studies of training, he learned that the human body functions better with 8 hours of activity and 4 hours of rest througout the 24 hour cycle. This allows one enough "ram" sleep which takes place only after at least 2 hours of sleep. Most humans can't manage this schedule. Try resting with your feet up the wall while laying in the bed doing breathing exercises and filling those areas of pain with thoughts of love and healing! It does wonders for your circulation and well being! If the mind doesn't get quite and still how can the body get enough quiet time to heal! Martha
Heidi
04 May 2010, 20:04
I too have fibromyalgia and have been suffering for four years maybe like four and a half now...I used to use a cane and now I've progressed to a walker.The pain is dibillitating at times.I wake up everyday with so much pain that the first thing I have to do is take my pain meds.I honestly haven't figured out what to do to control my pain other than rest which has alot to do with my depression.It feels like life is just passing me by and I can't do anything anymore.God bless us all...Heidi
Jennifer
04 May 2010, 17:57
I know that some physical activity helps the pain but I think most of us agree the key is trying to figure out how much is too much. If you don't know that the following day or two may be intolorable. I haven't quite figured it out yet but seem to have gone longer periods feeling better. It is hard not to get depressed when you have chronic pain but I agree that keeping busy is very helpful. Blessings and Prayers to all.
ppruitt
04 May 2010, 17:51
The most difficult thing to deal with is the fatigue. If fibro was my only problem I'd be great. Moi, if you do not slow down soon, you are going to break down. I know. Been there, done that. Consider having the 4 kids do the housework (if old enough, of course). Trying to be super mom or dad is probably causing more harm than good.
ppruitt
04 May 2010, 17:39
Didn't need a study to tell this FM'er about activity & pain. Back in the day before receiving a diagnosis (1978-1984), I could barely walk at times. I would work a week & stay home a week. The key, as others have written, is to refrain from over-doing it. Somehing that has been very difficult for me to learn. I can play 9 holes of golf & walk the course, but 18 - no way - not even with using a golf cart. Moderation, the key to so many things in our lives!
shirley
04 May 2010, 17:36
i tried a lot of different things pills and different muscle relaxers. they would work sometimes but not all the time. i like to do different crafts but hurt so much can,t do anything. rest seem to help but not all the time always tired and no pep.
shirley
Moi
04 May 2010, 17:06
I too have suffered for years - have been on Cymbalta, Lyrica, Fentyl patches, oxycontin, Vicoden, Norco, etc. etc. due to side effects I cut back to minimal meds that control pain. I find it very frustrating regarding your article. I am very active, I work full time as nurse, have four kids, two dogs, do all maintenance on house - always on go - all I want to do is relax and that I can't accomplish. I get through my day because I have to - I wish exercise was all I needed!
Brigitte
04 May 2010, 16:56
Reading these comments has been wonderful for me because I too feel misunderstood by many friends. (In life, unless you've experienced something, you often just don't understand it!) My symptoms are just like the ones people mentioned, and I too feel better with a little activity like gardening and walking, but suffer the next day -- the same day even -- when I overdo, am sometimes hardly able to walk and in that case must rest, no choice about it. My question is, does anybody here have any experience applying for social security disability? I am only 60 but feel like I'm 65 and feel that using age as a guideline is arbirtary and unfair, especially for those with fibromyalgia -- a real problem, but one that is not well-understood by society!
Sarah G. Breshears
04 May 2010, 16:16
I feel very lucky, because my fibro was under control within a few months of my wonderful rhuematologist disgnosing me. I got on Cymbalta right away, have taken Ultram in various forms and are currently on 200 mg. extended relief. I also take one soma tab at night. The best thing I've done is go to the aqua arthritis classes. I started at 2 times a week, and now go 4 most weeks. It has made a tremendous difference in me. Since I retired two years ago, I am able to get the sleep I need--critical for me. While I was working, there were many days I went to work when I probably should not have gone; however, I found that once I got there, I was usually fine after a few hours. I too believe that keeping moving is the key. I also had both knees replaced last year, so I am much more mobile than I was which also is a postive effect on the fibro,
Dorothy
04 May 2010, 15:33
I just started taking the generic version of lyrica and am having so many side effects[forgeting every thing I start to say, extreme weakness,increased appetite, cloudy eyes, red eyes, itchy eyes and many more things I just can't think of. Does anyone have a better suggestion for medication?? I am desperate!! God Bless you all!!
arthur
04 May 2010, 15:16
I TRY TO KEEP BUSY AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE. MY STIFFNESS OR PAIN IS THE GREATEST IN THE MORNING OR AFTER I HAVE SIT DOWN FOR MORE THAN TEN MINUTES. I TRY TO PACE MYSELF DURING HOUSEWORK. I HAVE NOTICED MUSCLE SWELLING OR SPASMS IN MY SHOULDERS IF I OVER EXERT GARDENING. I HAVE MEDICINE FOR PAIN BUT IT LEAVES ME IN A FOG.A SHORT WALK SEEMS TO HELP SOME DAYS. BUT YOU HAVE TO LEARN YOUR LIMITATIONS, SO THE NEXT DAY YOU ARE NOT COMPLETELY OUT OF IT.ANY COMMENTS ON LYRICA.
Joan
04 May 2010, 14:34
All the comments on this site seem to have 2 things in common: control your pain and try to remain active. I was doing many things on my "good days" and then had to deal with a few bad ones afterward. My doctor was right in telling me that I should not have my "plate full" but that I should work on getting it as empty as possible. This has been difficult since I was employed for many years as a supervisor at a big box home center and am only going to be 50 years old. But I have to say he was right. I try to plan things in advance and when i treat my health as my new employment position I feel that I can cope better. Positive attitude is #1!!!
amy
04 May 2010, 14:31
I am very happy to see we are all pretty much after the same thing...being pain free!!! i have been on all kinds of meds allergic to most....hate being in "the fog" I have finally accepted the fact that my days of working 45plus hours in a week are over.Im going to school 25 hours a week go to a gym 3xs a week more depending on the level of pain and i set my goals for each day much much lower than ive been accustomed too...i do find the exercise i get to be helpful BUT evrything an i mean everything has to be in moderation.....tha right there is hard enough...i do need to learn how to get better quality of sleep
Arthur
04 May 2010, 13:51
I do not want to "improve" my pain. It does an excellent job on its own. I want to reduce or eliminate my pain. Activity is key to pain reduction. Pain is terribly depressing. Activity overrides the depression and allows the body and mind to do their wonderful healing things. Activity is an expression of faith. God bless you all.
Nance
04 May 2010, 13:45
Having been recently diagnosed, I find that while most days I can "push through the pain" it is the fatigue that has become debilitating, thus, depressing to me. I am taking savella and have found it to have helped to the point that I can function well most days. Has anyone else experienced the overwhelming fatigue and what are you doing to alleviate it. Thanks for any info you can provide.
Nance
Monica
04 May 2010, 13:09
Out of stubbornness to fight this limiting ailment, I recently attempted a what some of you might think is sadistic, and used a hand held massager to work out the tightness in my muscles in the lower ankle area, behind my calves, back of thighs, lower back and buttocks area, and although it is tender and I hollered from the pain, after I released the fascia tissue (which is tender and tightens up after activity), I noticed I felt relief from pain, and was able to walk like normal for a whole day, until it tightened up again. You might call me crazy, but so far it has worked. I hate to do it, but walking around in pain, to me is just as sadistic, and this gives me a few hours of feeling normal. I came up with this after going for a full body massage and learning from the masseuse about "fascia" which is a thin tissue or lining that lines the muscles and molds to your muscles which the masseuse releases when he works on the body muscles and which gives relief from tight muscles and helps the blood flow through the veins.
Monica
04 May 2010, 12:59
Everyone on here sounds like me. My friends and family around me that don't have this, kept treating me like I was just making it up. I laughed at the title of this article too, but I want to find something that can help me cope, because I was a workaholic, and a sedentary lifestyle is depressing to me. I don't wand to be medicated all the time, but some pain relief would be great. Although I still push myself constantly to get things done, the following day is my "worthless" day and I can't seem to change that. I've been doing what they say here, but will start logging my pain to see if there might be a slight improvement, although I've failed to see any so far and I've had this ailment going on 10 years now. All that's happened so far is I've learned more about my illness, and the limitations I have to acknowledge, because I can't seem to fight them.
Faith
04 May 2010, 12:33
I agree with most. It's not so much the physical activity, rather, the pain to come for the next few days to a week. Housework is my form of exercise, as I never seem to quite get it done and its much more physical than those who don't have to do it think! I clean for awhile and then take a break. I try to set small goals instead of trying to conquer a whole room. But the hardest thing for me is walking; my feet are always in major pain, so shopping and being on my feet for periods over 20 minutes or so is the most difficult form of exercise for me. And I used to love walking everyday in our local parks for at least 30 minutes. I'm still having a hard time dealing with this (and other) disease(s).
Cliona
04 May 2010, 10:26
When I was able to work every day, prior to losing my sight last June, I was in pain all the time, but the pain was somewhat manageable during the week. Only on weekends, when I moved about much less, did it increase. Now that I cannot work, I am very sedentary. Since June my pain level has increased to almost intolerable levels. Recently, I received my white cane and have started training with it, including daily short walks. Guess what? On the days that I take these walks, I can manage better and the pain is somewhat muted. Sounds just like the study, doesn't it?
Asaria
04 May 2010, 10:15
This is how I manage my life. I maintain that the pain is perceived as less because your mind is busy with other thoughts & tasks, and not dwelling on the pain so much. Nothing is worse than reclining or lying down feeling yourself throb with pain.
deborah
04 May 2010, 09:59
I agree with Joyce. Improving my pain is not something I want to do. Aleviating, lessening, controlling, managing the pain might be more what I would be looking for. But, again I agree with Joyce, activity is good.
Joyce Schwartz
04 May 2010, 09:28
I had to laugh at the title of this one. "Improve Your Fibromyalgia Pain". I surely did not want to improve the pain!! It has already improved itself!! Ouch!! In all fairness, the article was correct. Activity, in just the right amounts, does improve my well being!!
Ruby
04 May 2010, 09:26
Staying as active as possible,doing light house work and gardening are good for me,but if i over do then next day i suffer the consequences.
Marilyn Henderson
12 Apr 2010, 19:25
I think I notice some small benefit from some
amount of physical excercise - but if it's
just a bit too much I pay for it the next day.
Many routine household tasks are out of the
question - squatting down, reaching high
cupboards, throwing a ball hard, and
walking for more than 1/2 hour or so.
Marilyn

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