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Changing Habits

10 Good habits to adopt; 5 bad habits to drop

By Dorothy Foltz-Gray

In a perfect world, pain wouldn’t exist, our weight would be optimal and we’d enjoy daily exercise and have energy to spare. But few things remind us of imperfection like a diagnosis of arthritis. As pain and stiffness invade joints, the desire to exercise and the energy for much of anything can wane, making people slip into the unhealthy habits of inactivity and overeating. The result? Extra pounds that stress already painful joints and strain mental outlook.

No, the world is not perfect. But there are ways to manage weight, minimize pain and improve energy level. By changing habits, anyone can make small changes that will have a big impact over time.

Not sure where to start? Arthritis Today asked experts to help compile this top 10 list of habits to drop and five good habits to adopt. Follow them to start making a difference today.

10 Good Habits to Adopt

1. Eat breakfast at home.

“If you eat out, you’re more likely to start the day with high-fat, empty calories,” explains Rachel Brandeis, a registered dietitian and owner of Personalized Nutrition Counseling in Atlanta. Brandeis recommends a meal that combines protein, high-fiber carbohydrates and a little bit of fat. Oatmeal with fruit and skim milk, for example, offers lots of fiber, cancer-fighting antioxidants and bone-strengthening nutrients. Swap the waffle for a poached egg – one of the most complete proteins. Get a shot of omega-3 fatty acids by sprinkling ground flax seed on your cereal.

2. Stress less.

“Stress exacerbates the symptoms of arthritis,” says psychologist Robert H. Phillips, PhD, founder and director of the Center for Coping in Hicksville, N.Y. “To minimize stress, write down the stresses in your life. Then ask yourself which ones you can change and jot down some strategies for change.” For example, if work is stressful, consider some actions you can take: Talk with your supervisor about shifting responsibilities so you’re doing more work you enjoy. Relax through deep breathing or meditation before work. For the things you can’t change, change your thinking. For instance, remind yourself of the value of your accomplishments and the rewards of getting a paycheck.

3. Simplify housework.

Spare joints by performing household chores more efficiently. For example, set a basket at the bottom of the stairs to avoid multiple up-and-down trip. Place things in it throughout the day and carry it up once. Professional organizer Jeanne Smith of Palo Alto, Calif., suggests buying a basket with a handle you can slip over your arm. “This way, your hands are free to hold the banister.” Similarly, if your laundry room is downstairs, stuff your laundry into a pillowcase and throw it over the banister. When laundry is clean, put it back in the pillowcase and drag it upstairs to fold and put away.

4. Get organized.

Instead of scattering doctor’s records, test results and treatment updates throughout the house, create one tidy home for them all, suggests Smith. Buy a small crate with six to eight hanging files and labels. That way you can easily drop things in and pull items out. Keep a notebook charting doctor visits, levels of pain, medications – and keep that notebook in the crate as well.

5. Anticipate pain.

Although it sounds pessimistic to think about pain before it starts, anticipating pain may be the best way to relieve it. Once pain starts, it can be hard to stop. Treating it before it happens is often a better option. “Many people have pain first thing in the morning or are sore after exercise,” says Deborah S. Litman, MD, a rheumatologist and assistant clinical professor at Georgetown University School of Medicine in Washington, D.C. “So take a pain reliever before bed at night or before you exercise.”

6. Go barefoot.

Kick off your shoes when you come home. “Most shoes increase forces on the knees more than going barefoot will,” says D. Casey Kerrigan, MD, professor and chair of physical medicine and rehabilitation at the University of Virginia. One caveat: Barefoot means barefoot. Avoid going in stocking feet, which may cause you to slip on slick floors.

 

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judi
12 Jun 2011, 11:36
It has been nice to read these notes to each other. Missroy
loves company. LOL, I am only joking. i too have had
a challeging condition. I was over come with Toxic Fumes.
This gives one a Chemical induced stroke. which in my
case gave me Kidney Failure, I recovered fron that. Then
I had every Tooth in my mouth every nerve ache at on time for months at the same time it had effective my central
nerveous system. and that means HUGH other problems.
Please read TBI Tromatic Brain Injury. All of our live function
are controled by the brain. Please make sure that you are
takoing all the Viteumns that your brain needs. the list is
Salmion Oil , which has Coq10 already in it. B complex 100
calsium , Mag & D probitics as Meds take all this from your body so fast leaves you yet with more pain and problems. There is so much to say. But please read and also help your self. Doctors Know little about Vit & Minerals.. I have some great Dr. and I talk a many things to detox my body so that I can at least keep that stress from my body. Good Luck, lower the pain PLEASE look into salimon Oil Hugh help it Lubercates Joints. Sorry to go on so long. Am very Pissonsate about this. Love to you all. Judi
Emily Frankovich
03 Feb 2011, 12:16
I've had RA since 1989 and definitely rely on the new biologicals, first Enbrel which I took for 10 years until it stopped working and now Humira which I have been using in the last 2 months. Exercise is important yes I do take walks but the best thing I do is swim. I go in the jacuzzi for 5 or 10 minutes to warm up my achy joints and then I swim about a quarter mile. Then I enjoy a few hours of no pain anywhere. Find a pool willing to keep the water temperature around 82 and enjoy!
lakshaytyagi
18 Dec 2010, 23:55
Be a good child
evelyn tyre
14 Dec 2010, 15:01

Theresa, I'm sorry to hear about your problems. I too have ra and fibro. I'm on Metho and prednisone. Also have drug induced hepititis. Just found this out and will be getting a liver scan soon . Don't know what the drs will do, but will probably take me off some of the meds too. Would love to keep in touch with you as we all need someone to talk to. We have two sons, but they live far away. Most of my friends are sick too, or caring for their parents or grandchildren. so I have no one but my husband to help me and it wears thin. He is great and I'm fortunate. my email is evelyn.tyre9@gmail.com if you would like to write.
Best to you,
Evelyn.
Theresa
11 Dec 2010, 22:35
I have been fighting RA, OA, Fibromagia, for many years. I have been on Methotrexate, took Embrel, and now on Humaria,plus other pain etc pills. I just was told I have drug induced Hibatitis which is damaging the liver. The emenzime numbers are extremely high. The Liver Dr. wants to stop all RA drugs, RA Dr. just reduced methotrexate doseage. Once again, I feel like the ping pong ball being played back and forth, very very discouraging. I am 64 years old, work full time and have a disabled husband paralyzed from 8 strokes. We have no family, so no help. I try not to complain and talk about it, but it hurts, and can get you down!
Pam
09 Dec 2010, 09:07
I was diagnosed with RA five years ago. Just recently I started having problems with my right foot, after an MRI it was discovered that not only do I RA in the foot but also OA. They referred me to a podiatrist who told me that wearing the proper shoes would help my feet a lot and keep me walking. I immediately went out and bought the shoes and they have helped. He also made an arch support that I can pull on so I can wear casual shoes or go barefoot. He said that going barefoot without any support would be very bad, flattening the arches over time and causing more problems. Since he did my mothers told foot reconstruction and has kept her walking, she also has RA, I value his opinion and advice.
Jeffery
07 Dec 2010, 18:03
Hello everyone. My name is Jeff. I've been living with JRA for my whole life, 36 yrs know. I've found that meditation, warm bathes, non-bearing exercises, and a healthy eating habits are the best things for my JRA.
RuthBell
07 Dec 2010, 13:53
I just finished reading most of your letters re: to RA and must say they encouraged me to go on. I had open heart surgery 10 years ago and it left me with stiffness and tightness in my chest area and also have pain in hand and shoulders. When the discompfort gets too bad, I take Aleve which I don't want to depend on, because of other side effects.
Thank God I can endure the pain when I think of others who are worse off than me. P.S. 79 yrs. old
Dee Dee
07 Dec 2010, 11:03
I just celbrated my 5 year wedding anniversary and I am 47 yrs old. We married in Dec. and then one morning in Feb I got up to go to the bathroom and could not walk, I felt like I was 100 yrs old and hurt all over. I was working part time for an Urgent Care Center, so I went to a friend who worked there that was a nurse practioner. I told her what was going on and she drew some blood and sent it to the lab. When my results did come back, she told my I need to see a specialist as this was out of realm of expertise. I was diagnosedd with RA that year, and have been on metotrexate (injections) and started on Enbrel some time ago. That was my saving grace. Now my COBRA insurance has run out after having it for 18 months. I don't know what I'm going to do for my enbrel I have a small amt stockpiled as I knew this day would come. I will apply for Georgia's high risk pool after I've been uninsured for 6 months,
MARSHAL SMITH
07 Jun 2010, 15:31
MARSHAL NEEDS SOMETHING DONE TO BOTH KNEES
HE CAN HARDLEY WALK. THEY HURT HIM ALL THE TIME REAL BAD. I HAVE BOUGHT HIM ALL KINDS OF VITAMINS AND OTHER MEDICINE I CAN FIND,
Yvonna
15 May 2010, 19:57
Thank you for the information. I hated to take the pain pills in fear that I would become so addicted. I was one of those people that would wait until the pain was unberable and then I would take something. After I read about anticipating the pain, I felt better. I started taking the meds before I do my exercise or before I go to work becaues I do work in a very stressful place and I am finding it easier to get through the day. I have had RA for 7 years and I am just now begining to feel like I am controlling it and it not controlling me.
Vicki
02 May 2010, 00:39
Thanks for all the comments! I needed to read these as there has been more stress in my life lately & it impacts pain level and certainly my attitude. When that happens, I have a tough time getting myself to get out of the house for any reason.
I have found the AF aquatics program to be a HUGE help. The water is warm & wonderful. Most of the time the conversation is fun, interesting & supportive. I've been going for 6 yrs now.
One of my difficulties is that I have no family support. Four of my 5 stepchildren don't care to understand. I have parented one for almost 15 yrs (now 29) & she didn't ask what was wrong with me for 8 yrs after my diagnoses. Recently my husband said he was confused about my health problems although he has attended quite a few dr appts with me over the yrs. My parents & 4 siblings live over 45 minutes away & haven't educated themselves and aren't physically helpful. So, when I am really struggling with a flare there is no one to ask for help. It's a little lonely.
Advice anyone?
carolyn dantzler
26 Apr 2010, 16:16
I only discovered today the many encouraging notes from others who are impacted with stiffness and pain and limited mobility. I get very frustrated, because some days I can do a lot of things I used to and other days I can't. I keep telling myself to keep pushing and think about all the little things I can do each day to improve my situation and mental outlook. My family and friends don't seem to realize there is a younger person inside this body that wants to do things I have always been able to do. I understand how people feel about this disability.
Karen S
16 Apr 2010, 21:20
I was diagnosed with RA when I was 38 - 17 years ago, and was pretty sick that first year. I am an elementary physical education specialist, so exercise is part of my daily life! These past few years my knees have gotten worse so I can no longer jump rope, jog, or even kneel. It is pretty funny to watch 6 year olds learn jumping jacks when their model isn't jumping! Dr. says my knees also have osteoarthritis now. Hardest thing is giving up my high country hiking, but I still can walk a gentle 5K. I am certain regular exercise is the first line of medicine. Keep up with it however your Dr. recommends!
Tonie
16 Apr 2010, 16:36
Hello all:
My thoughts and prayers are with you. I have FMS, OA and Ra, still working full time (trying to ) and so there is nothing left to give at the end of the day. But my God gives me the strength to get through the day. He Blesses me and my finances so I can make it, just like He promised He would. I may never be pain free in this world, but one is coming soon who will take me to a Mansion where I will hurt no more.
Love to you all
Tonie
Kathy L
16 Apr 2010, 12:00
I have had RA for 28 years. I was working full time and recently had to quit work. I had knee replacement surgery and just never recovered. My RA flared up and I felt terrible all the time. I also felt useless. So, I started to do the things I never had time for when working: reading novels, crocheting, mind puzzles, etc. My husband bought me a small laptop computer(Acer). I looked up where volunteers where needed. I now crochet for locate hospital nurseries and a hospice that needed shawls. I found others with RA who also volunteer. Some crochet or knit, make calls for the locate animal shelter, read books to children during story time at libraries, send and make cards to send to our active and retired solders. I bought a book from the Arthritis Association called "Celebrate Life:New Attitudes for Living with Chronic Illness" by Kathleen Lewis. Doctors shouldgive copies to all patients with RA. It made me rethink my life and got me going on living again. Sheila, please read this book.
Bo
16 Apr 2010, 08:07
I have been diagnosed with arthritis. My main problem thus far is in my hips and along my spine. I exercise and try to eat right. But my legs hurt all over. Is this normal with hip problems? My legs feel as if I have the flu.
Felicity
16 Apr 2010, 07:10
I have RA at the age of 53 and had never exercised until I was diagnosed with the disease. I now go to the local recreation center and have a personal fitness trainer who has been a tremendous help and motivator to me. Exercise, radical diet changes and mental attitude has saved me and my ability to play music.
Barbara
15 Apr 2010, 21:14
Hi all. I have fibromyalgia, arthritis and now found out that if I don't exercise I will need to have a complete knee replacement. It wouldn't be so bad except for the fact that I am young enough that the knee replacement would be rejected by my body thus requiring many other surgeries. I have found that anti-depressants are helping me as well as meds to help me sleep through the pain. I don't like exercising but have been motivated by the fact that all of you say that it's the only way that I can stay limber and maybe reduce pain. I'll try it. Thanks for the constant positive comments.
Karen
15 Apr 2010, 19:58
I have heard mention of the arthritis diet but have not been able to find much information on it. Are there certain foods that will flare you up that you should avoid?
Sharon
15 Apr 2010, 16:22
OK, people, I'm 56 and have had RA for the last 52 or so years. If I didn't hurt, I wouldn't know I was alive! Move it or lose it, is my mantra. Also, my rheumatologist is never allowed to retire. She has been a godsend. Eventually you will find medicines that work, but if you feel as bad as Sheila, tell your doctor. We arthritics frequently suffer from depression.
Faye
15 Apr 2010, 15:12
Sheila, It sounds like you are really depressed. I also have RA, so I do know how you feel about being in pain every day. You are surely not useless, though. You were created for a reason. I pray for peace of mind and spirit for you.
Jody
15 Apr 2010, 13:31
Positive thinking helps so much. We are not useless, we have value. Yeah we can't do some things, but there are other things. I find that when I'm down I go to a pet store or humane society and check it out. Those kitties waiting for adoption need love. I play with them and they perk me up. Pets are a lifesaver. They need you and love you. They keep me going as do my grandchildren, which can always perk me up. :) I've had RA for 29 years. I may not have done what I really wanted to, but I found other interests. The new biologic drugs are wonderful. I have my life back to a more acceptable level.
Keep working with your doctor to find the right drug. Keep fighting and live your life the best you can.
DL Hawkins
15 Apr 2010, 13:07
I have had RA for 28 yrs. since my early 20's. So what have i learned?
1. Pain is a pain, but a constant Positive attitude helps. Choosing to be Happy will make you Happy.
2. Exercise is a must for all the reasons given by the website and other posts.
3. We are not alone in this and we should stick together to encourage and support each other.
4. Educate yourself!

Hang in there and remember you are not alone!
Lorraine
15 Apr 2010, 10:36
Your website has been a blessing for me. I learn something new every time I visit. I have been using the DVD "Take Control with Exercise" almost daily for over 4 years. I even take it on vacation with me so I don't miss a session. I highly recommend this DVD. I always do the ROM exercise at the beginning of the DVD and use the other sections frequently. Another practical thing I have found to be very helpful is to always take an LLBean bag with me whenever I go out. I put everything I will need into it when I leave, and anything gathered along the way (including trash) is put into it so that when I arrive back home I have only one bag, with handles to carry and no rummaging around to gather up things that need to go in the house. I also use one of these bags to put my clean wash into and carry upstairs.
Mary
15 Apr 2010, 10:34
This is excellent - my only problem is that health professionals say that going barefoot (for seniors) is a fall hazard - since the foot isn't as cushioned as it is in youth and you're more or less balancing on all the little bones in your feet. So I'd caution about doing that one.

I'm sorry for your pain and your problems - all of you - I pray for a cure that will take this all away.
Ralph Pearce
15 Apr 2010, 09:46
Hands are worst with basilar arthritis, inherited from my mom. My 25 year old daughter already has symptoms. Tryin tai-chi and Pilates DVD's as used to run, bike and all sorts of things.
You must do something to remain active or it will shut you down. But someone out there always has more pain so PLEASE push on knowing that others do so and are even more burdened.
Appreciate the opportunity to read about others and tips to keep us active and healthy.
Joyce
15 Apr 2010, 09:41
I have OA and Lupus. I find that moving evey day is so helpful. I am 49 an dstarted jogging 2 years ago. I find that it changes my state of mind. Even when I am hurting a bit, I find that if I will go walk or run I have a new outlook when I get back. The less you move, the harder it is to get going so if I make it a habit, I feel much better. Let's move!
christina
26 Mar 2010, 07:33
hi, thanx 4 the info found it very useful im 32 just learned i have ra, i have been exploring other web site and found this to be very useful
arianne
25 Jan 2010, 12:28
i started to feel this terrible pain when i gave birth to my only son a year and a half ago. since then i always feel that there's a block of ice inside my back. it's so frustrating that i cannot carry even my less than 2year old son because there were times that i cannot walk. hoping and praying that i will be free for this disease.

have a blessed day!!!
MARYAM
02 Nov 2009, 13:54
I AM MARYAM NOW 15 YRS OLD . WAS BORN HAPPY AND HEALTHY.
WHEN I REACH 3 AND A HALF YRS I GOT FEVER 40 C AND THAT IS WHEN MY LIFE CHANGED ,CHRONIC Systemic onset ... IHAVE TAKEN MEDICATIONS LIKE :
(Methotrexate ,Etanercept ,corticosteroids ,
Naprosyn ,aspirin,IL-6 .AND PAIN KILLERS BUT HAVE NO RELIFE....disability ....IS RULING MY LIFE...
BUT I HOPE.... HOPE ........HOPE.....
hope that one day the problems of arthritis will be solved.

GOD HELP US ALL
lonnie
16 Apr 2009, 12:13
I am so sorry Sheila that you feel so awful. I too have severe pain every day. I have RA and MS, have had it for over 20 plus years. Started in my early 20's with two toddlers to raise. I am now 53 and a grammy to three.

I am not on any of those expensive medications to help slow down the progression of MS and RA and for pain I am only on Advil.

I just found out from a lung capacity test I have only 54%. I am seeing a doctor tomorrow
to discuss this last test and I want to talk about oxygen therapy.

I can not comment on what your husband might be feeling or, doing. But it is unfortunate that you yourself feel this way about yourself.

I pray venting will help in this area. We are our first keepers to our own journey. Our thoughts and choices come from within. Religious or not. We are important, and somewhere in your journey, you have made a difference whether you knew it nor not.

Have a beautiful day everyone. It is truly the only we can claim. Tomorrow is not our's to have yet.

May you have a journey of beauty today!

Lonnie



Sheila
16 Apr 2009, 10:33
I am so sick of living with RA. I wake every morning in pain and it is getting old. I do walk the dog, I don't drink or smoke and I eat healthy. I'm sorry but I needed to vent my poor husband has to support a wife that is useless.
Clarice Berkvens
06 Apr 2009, 19:30
today i got the diagnostic of arthrits
after going the doctor after i fell.that result in hurting both of my knees.im glad to know that internet is abble to give us so much infomation im writing everthing in a jounal .Iwas disapointed with my deasese,but there is lot i can do to fell much better


CLARICE APRIL 6 2009
fiona donald
18 Mar 2009, 20:14
thank you for this information as it has helped me see what i can do for myself as i have this disease.

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