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Can Support Groups Help You Cope?

By Kelly A.J. Powers

Support groups have been beneficial to many people living with chronic diseases such as rheumatoid arthritis (RA). Studies show arthritis support groups can improve mood, provide better coping skills, decrease pain and provide relief from negative emotions, such as fear, resentment and hopelessness, according to Vicki Helgeson, PhD, of Carnegie-Mellon University, Pittsburgh, who has studied the impact of support groups for more than a decade.

However, support groups have gotten a bad rap because some can become a ceaseless cycle of negativity in which members continuously vent, but do not learn to cope and accept their illness.

“Some people don’t like support groups, because they think they’re a pity party,” says Ellen Fleischer, 67, who started a support group with fellow RA patients after they became acquainted in her doctor’s office in Delray Beach, Fla. “But I think arthritis support groups can be exactly the opposite. I think they empower people.”

“Certain support groups might be more beneficial than others in providing skills that enable members to move on,” says Helgeson.

For example, an educational group moderated by professionals sets a formal pace, while peer, or self-help, groups are open-ended exercises run by a participant. “I found that peer discussion groups work best for people who lack support at home,” says Helgeson, noting that for people who do have sig­nif­icant support systems in place, an educational support group might be of greater use.

Whether the leader is a professional or a peer, you should ask about the leader’s role – would she just facilitate the discussion or moderate it so participants do not share inaccurate health information? Helgeson favors those groups moderated by an impartial trained leader.

“When the leader is involved in the discussions, there is greater potential for successful healing,” says Helgeson. “That is why the qualifications of the leader are so important.”

Finding the right group

There are several types of support groups:

Closed – not open to public without preregistration; requires commitment to attend a set number of sessions.

Group therapy – directed by a mental health professional, with a time-limited purpose for specific therapeutic goals. Some teach coping skills and relaxation techniques.

Peer – led by a fellow patient, this group’s casual format focuses on sharing experiences, and learning from others’ experiences.

Educational – features an expert’s presentation, with a question-and-answer session.

Online – support found on Internet chat sites are considered peer groups.

To find arthritis support groups, contact your local Arthritis Foundation chapter, speak with your doctor or call area hospitals.

Jeniffer Alcaide
13 Aug 2010, 15:45
I just came from an appointment with a second rheumatologist who said I had RA (inconclusive by bloodwork)... he suggested I seek a support group and very much need to do that. I've been active all my life and suddenly I find life difficult to move in. If anyone has a suggestion to a Bay Area (Oakland area) support group, that would be greatly appreciated.
Betty
13 Aug 2010, 09:44
running scared....need a support group.I have RA and my son has RA and L.upis. CT
Lori Johnson
11 Aug 2010, 13:47
I have been waiting for the men in white coats to come and carry me off for quite some time as I couldn't discover what was wrong with me, and I have had many professionals tell me that I "am blowing my symptoms out of proportion", which is a nice way of saying I think you are crazy or a hyperchodriac! I have been looking for an online supprt group for fibromyalgia. I still haven't gotten the blood test results back determining whether I have RA, Lupus, or some other auto-immune disease. I feel very alone these days, as people have gotten tired of me not attending events due to my symptoms, which have been, but AREN'T limited to: swollen hands, feets, knees, ankles, and severe pain in my lower back, feet, and knees. I have been searching the web for some type of group where others, like me, could go and discover that I am not alone, and there are those out there who hurt like I do, and yet have a life. Thanks for this website, and I will plan to visit it often!
Marilynn Bredehoeft
07 Aug 2010, 07:20
I would love to find a support group in my area. I live in Seattle. I would be happy to talk with any of you via email if that would help. I was diagnosed with RA in 2006. I started with Metrotrexate for 6 months, then Enbrel for a year, then Humira, 2 a month for 6 months, then 1 a week for a year, now I am on Orencia, which has given me the best results so far but I have had 3 flares and it has taken me 2 months each time to get the flares back under control. I take 14 different medications, 12 everyday. I have numerous problems in addition to the RA but I am in pain all the time and see a pain management doctor to keep the pain in check. I do my best to keep living life the best I can. My husband and I are planning on purchasing a travel trailer with my SSA disa bility check which I should be receiving in the next few weeks. It took almost 3 years to win my case. We are going to travel as much as we can and when I need to, I will rest and we will stay put. We haven't figured out all the logistics of the infusions yet, but we will one way or another because I really want to do this while I am still mobile. It is good for my mental health. I am only 45 and I refuse to give up so early in life. I have things I want to do and see and I am going to do it, one way or another.

Write me, I would love to talk to others who understand. My husband does his best. He is very supportive. He takes awesome care of me, as does my daughter and other family members, but they just don't completely get it.

Chao for now, Marilynn
Jana McCormick
07 Jul 2010, 22:11
EDITING OF PREVIOUS SUBMISSION:

I did not just revisited it and found this section on support groups. Support groups should be discussed more in this manner, I think it's great. However, the way it's usually presented is as often as a means to gather information on how a medication trial is working.

I wish doctors and foundations would be much more encouraging about starting up our own groups and in a much more practical manner. For instance, provide guidelines on how to do it, step-by-step. And, provide rooms for the groups to use or suggest where free, happier places (parks, cafes, restaurants) nearby might be successfully used.

Thanks, Jana
Jana McCormick
07 Jul 2010, 21:52
NO SOLICITATIONS, please
My name is Jana McCormick
San Antonio, TX

ARTHRITIS SUPPORT GROUP IDEAS

I received my doctorate in counseling and clinical psychology in 2008, not my license yet, and I am dealing with several illnesses including RA. My health extended the time it took to complete my degree and is contributing to the similar delays with my license.

I often wish I could talk to peers with problems like mine and feel comfortable, accepted when I vent, then encouraged to move forward, at least with small steps. I also want to meet people without having to present myself as a "together" leader. I haven't found a decent support group, just a couple of hospital run groups for elderly women with osteoarthritis including an exercise group.

Since I found this website recently, I wanted to ask your opinions about an idea to develop a weekly peer support group starting with a short questionnaire everyone can answer and send back to me in the text, NOT as an attachment (to avoid software compatibility problems). This is to see what the interest is in San Antonio, TX and nearby areas.

I don't want to do this by myself, I need help. But, I do know how to start a group and some general ideas for what I want in a group. Tell me what you think about this idea and, if interested, answer a few questions.

Questionnaire so far:
New Support Group for Adults in San Antonio

SUPPORT GROUPS IN SAN ANTONIO, TX for People with RA

I've looked for a support group, off and on, over the years but had a hard time finding one suited for me--my age group & afternoon, not elderly ladies with osteoarthritis meeting at 8 AM. I don't bounce out of bed at the crack of dawn these days much less any other since I've never been a morning person. Right now (going through a flare-up), I absolutely loathe mornings. I rarely want to interact on purpose at 8 AM.

I want to find or make a group in San Antonio, Texas of adults of all ages and levels of understanding of RA and related illnesses and complications. I am single and we tend to have fewer emotional supports than people with spouses...not that such must be excluded. I don't want to exclude either...(hmmm, will include that as a question at the bottom). I want to find a group not run by a hospital or a mental health clinic. I want a group founded by, contributed by and serving people with Rheumatoid Arthritis. Here are some more things I want in a group:

Diverse group of adults (different races, genders, age groups of adults)

Peer Support Group--run by peers in the group with a mediator or three like myself who will try to keep it somewhat organized but leaning on each other, hopefully.

Open to talking about practical issues and emotional ones (not purely educational and not purely venting feelings) and to learning things and meeting outside of the “ meeting” to try new things together.

Begin a discussion on topics of interest to us and focus on one or more a month depending on ability to find...

Speakers knowledgeable and prepared to talk about subjects we are interested in E.G. not new medical procedures, unless a big interest but...

Methods of coping with RA as a mother of young children

Finding love with a chronic illness,

long-term/ long life with RA,

traveling with RA...

Interesting side story: I went on a brief trip in US territories and found I could not fill a prescription, went without pain killers and ruined my vacation.

Keeping busy, keeping happy--fun activies to engage in, keep healthy and lose weight with, like low impact kick-boxing.

New hobbies to learn that are fun, interesting but low-impact and low stress on joints.

Making friends when you feel like crap.

Going on a date when you feel like crap.

More

These would be based on class interest. Right now, I don't have the energy to do this all myself but I am willing to learn what I don't know, find speakers and be involved in my own solution...but NOT alone. I am very willing to share the responsibilities and the kudos with everyone but still keep it somewhat organized. If you want to be part of such a group too or you know of such a group, contact me!

I'll commit to starting by compiling a list of e-mail addresses of people interested in a support group and get a few details from you. Just address each one of these items (below) and I'll get back to everyone on the 1st and 15th of each month to let you know my progress.

Today is Tuesday, July 6th, 6 AM, and I could not sleep. Though, my hands, wrists and fingers and eyes are all ready for a rest, my brain keeps working. If you are looking for a group, please e-mail me at janacmccormick@yahoo.com. I am considering puting one together by finding a free place to start...respond to the following questions, and send it to me. Thanks a bunch!

1. Do you have some type of arthritis? What is it?

2. Where would you like to meet strangers all interested in forming a support group for singles or otherwise engaged adults in San Antonio, TX?

(E.g. coffee house, church, hospital, other and if so, what?)

3. Do you want to meet weekly, every other week, once a month or some other frequency?

4. Do you want to meet in the morning, afternoon or evening?

5. Do you want an educational group, a process group (emoting and venting anger and sadness), providing suggestions for problem solving, other or all of the above?

+ Add a question here at the end, if you think of one, about the type of group others like yourself might want…

***Finally, add answers to all of the above questions and comments on the group you want. I’ll add my answers here...

Then, e-mail it to me at janacmccormick@yahoo.com (if they let me keep this here) and I'll send you updated forms of the questionnaire to your e-mail. In one month from today (today is July 7, 2010), I'll send out a summary of this data of input. Worst case, no one sends any replies and best case, I receive a couple dozen and we get a PEER SUPPORT GROUP started in San Antonio, TX!


JCM (me) Answers:
1.I have Rheumatoid Arthritis (RA), Fibromyalgia (FM), and Degenerative Disc Disease. I'll leave out the other medical problems I have except to say they add to my fatigue.

2. I would rather meet somewhere informal to start, like a coffee house and then find someplace else later that's free or more cheerful like outside. I find hospitals and many other venues for meetings unnecessarily depressing, or at least, lacking in cheer or personality.

3. At first, I'd like to meet weekly, with the option of e-mailing in between because support needs rarely wait patiently in your head while you are living your life. We may decide to meet in different places--one regularly and have field trips other times.

4. I'd prefer to meet in the afternoon or early evening as this is generally when I'm at my best and more likely to want to come.

5. I want my group to have it all! Realistically, though, I think I do best when I vent about a problem, get support and begin problem-solving and learning what to do to move forward.

+ Nothing more yet.

So, to recap, just copy the questions at the bottom and paste them in a new e-mail. Put "Arthritis Support Group IDEAS" in the subject line. You answer the questions, add a question or two for others, answer those too and e-mail it to me. Hope to hear from you.

Thanks, Jana
July 7, 2010
San Antonio, TX


Marie Waziak
23 Jun 2010, 21:57
I am writing this because i have RA. I am trying to find a support group in my area or someone i can talk to about my disease. it is very frustrating to not have anyone or group therapy that knows what u go through on a daily basis. i have been talking to someone through facebook but she is not local. i really like to be in a group therapy and deal with my emotions. at times i just cry at night for no reason because why me.can u please help me? thank u for your time.
Sabine Kissee
19 Jun 2010, 11:47
Looking for Support in the Indianapolis Area. If anybody would like to chat for support my E-mail is Kissee2000@msn.com.

Sabine
Sandra Davis
15 Jun 2010, 10:51
I cannot seem to find a support group for rheumatiod arthtis. I live in central Texas. My ra is getting much worse and sometimes I wish I could talk to someone who feels like I do. I cannot work anymore I have a 5 year old that I can't keep up with. I am greatful that I have a very loving husband, but I need to speak with other people like me. Email me at botnika100@yahoo.com
Thanks Sandra
Carole Wilk
31 May 2010, 10:02
I am looking for a support group in the Delray Beach, FL, Boynton Beach, FL area. I have RA and am presently on Methotrexate (6 tabs once a week) I am allergic to cortisone, and so many other medications that I am afraid to take anything else in fear that I will get terrible reactions. When I get reactions to meds - it takes weeks sometimes months to clear up. Please email me if you know of any place that has a support group in the above areas. Thanks! A24KBabe@aol.com
Wayne T. Farrar
20 May 2010, 09:07
I am a spouse of a RA person that has been living with this for many years,My wifes condition has gotten worst over the years,She can not do anything for herself at all she ounce was a outgoing responsible person these things have changed.Today she has to have a care giver to come in three times a week this has drained me in every way,I tryed to find come counsel but with no luck, Iam at the end of my rope and do"nt know what to do,Please Help..

trisha
21 Apr 2010, 20:35
If someone would like to vent and talk with me I would love to chat my email address is pattybostic1987@gmail.com
trisha
21 Apr 2010, 20:31
Well, I have had RA for about 4 years now I am 41 years old and I feel so alone. I have several medical bills and a six year old. No one really understands RA until they actually have it or develop it later in life. I keep my faith that the good lord will help me through this difficult time. My family doesn't understand and they don't want to understand they find me as a complainer. I'd like to see them in my painful joints and skin for just a day for a taste of what I go through may be they would try to understand a little bit about it
Gianna Kirwan
09 Apr 2010, 15:56
I am 48 year old female was diagnosed with R/A 18 months ago I could hardly walk and very frightened , my Rheumy was excellent and very positive. I am on a lot of meds but am not as bad now. I am due to start Humira injections soon.I hope this will help even more. I have Aunts with this condition I never thought I would get it, and am sure it was caused by extreme stress in the preceding year. I am tired and have had to Make changes, there are a lot worse illnesses you could have so come on lets be positive, and be glad we did'nt live a hundred years ago! There would be no treatment at all. Enjoy the sun,the rain, a flower, being loved, its not so bad.
John
23 Mar 2010, 14:51
There is new type of pain medication that works different than aspirin type products. It works for pain in the lower back, neck or joints and is applied directly to the skin. This all natural non-prescription strength medication is powerful and is only OTC medication suggested to combat Level 2 pain. It will be appearing soon in your favorite drug store and is available now at Hanaford supermarkets in New England states and at certain Rite Aid. It is called COBROXIN and its worked great for me as I could hardly hold a pencil in my left hand before.
david leonard
23 Mar 2010, 07:36
Good morning, Cindi.

The Harris Poll would like to interview four people, next week, on Monday, March 29th, at any time of day that is convenient for you, concerning your opinion about treating your rheumatoid or psoriatic arthritis. The telephone interview will last no more than thirty minutes; you will be paid a cash honorarium of $75, as a thank-you for your time and trouble. You can live anywhere in the United States, as this is a telephone interview.

I need only one minute on the phone in order to set up this interview with you. Please call me at 347-302-9896, or if you prefer, let me know what would be a good time/number to reach you.

I promise that this is not a sales presentation of any sort--strictly medical opinion research. You will not be testing any products--all we're interested in is your opinion.

Thank you and best regards,
David

_______________________
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Director
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[for The Harris Poll]
New York, NY 10128
Cel: 347-302-9896
alexis
19 Mar 2010, 10:20
hey i just found this site and i know exactly how y'all feel. one person said they felt like an 86 year old. that's me, i'm 26 and have a 2 year old and a 3 month old and i feel like a bad mom sometimes because i can't take care of my kids they way i would like to. just getting the girls dressed is a difficult task. i have been doing a little bit of my own research can then only thing that i have notice that really helps is exercise. i keep reading over and over that exercise is the key to living with RA. although, its a little hard to want to exercise when you can barly put your shoes on in the morning.i would love to find a support group in San Antonio, Texas!!!
cindy moran
12 Mar 2010, 21:35
additional thought:

maybe we could have a 'virtual support group'--and help/support each other via email.

for those with RA- if you're interested, plz contact me at

cjmoran@tampabay.rr.com

ps today's been a tough day for me, feel really bad,tired, meds not working well, trying hard to get out of the funk. want my 'old self' back. badly. Am currently on humira(wkly), methotrexate, sulfasalazine, mobic. Are the infusion drugs better/more expensive? Worth a try?
cindy moran
12 Mar 2010, 21:28
I, too, would like to be a part of a RA support group in the NE TAMPA BAY AREA. If anyone out there is interested, plz contact me at cjmoran@tampabay.rr.com. No one is going to go this for us--we must do it ourselves.

The frustrations, ups and downs etc., seem to be universal. Those without the disease and close to me are supportive and they do try to help, but without the first-hand knowledge of the disease. I would like to find some friends that truly understand. Maybe we could help each other.- Cindy 3/12/10
renee thomson
11 Mar 2010, 09:39
I am 49, female, diagnosed 5 years ago with the RA. first 2 years were too horribly painful and depressing to remember. I went thru all the other drugs first, to no avail. Nothing helped. Chemo, [methotrexate], a very dangerous drug. I am told now that has caused a .5 nodule on my lung. I have since stopped using that. I have been taking twice weekly injections of Enbrel the past 3 years. It does work, but not 100%. I still suffer from intense flair ups, fatigue,inmobility at times, etc. But, I would never want to feel the way i did the first 2 years without it.A support group would be helpful. anyone listening? just try everything you can to eleviate your pain. good luck
anon
06 Mar 2010, 03:36
i have raynauds disease but the last two months its felt worse and my joints ache, the pain locates in different joints each day and is getting me down. the doctors are doing more blood tests but say its possibly rheumatoid arthritis or another chronic rheumatoid condition. The not knowing is driving me crazy, its hard to stay positive when your aches and pains are a constant reminder something isn't right. Is there a support group out there for me? People say im being pessimistic but its hard for them to understand. Im in the north east of england and only 26 but feel 86
christa moorehouse
25 Feb 2010, 14:48
am moving to lansing,MI next month. Have just been diagnosed with RA and am devastated.Is there any support group up there that I can turn to? It almost feels like getting a death sentence what with the prognosis for a future life.
Teresa Kemp
15 Feb 2010, 09:39
wanting a support group in Fort Worth Texas
Colleen
11 Feb 2010, 01:46
I am also looking for a support group. RA is such a life changing disease. I was diagnosed 6 years ago and have gone from the relief knowing what was wrong with me and thinking that I could feel better to the absolute frustration of realizing this stupid disease is NOT going to go away and I will spend the rest of my life in pain. It is hard on me and hard on my husband as well. I have always been very active and been able to “keep the pace” with him on our small farm, building fences, barns, taking care of animals, etc . . . Now he plans his life around doing most everything by himself while I feel like crap and guilty for not participating in the up keep of our world. It is a hard and lonely spot to be in. I try to talk to my husband and even though he loves me, I know he really does not understand the pain, fatigue and frustration that is now my everyday life. I am on lots of meds which help sometimes; I go to physical therapy regularly and also exercise 2 to 3 times a week. Between that, this stupid RA and working fulltime my life is one painful foot in front of the other every day. I am disappointed that the Arthritis Organization does not have support groups as part of the local chapters, and I agree that fund raising seems to be the thrust of the organization. Even the doctors don’t have a support network set up. After my initial diagnosis (congratulations you have RA) to the appointments every 3 months I still walk out of the office feeling confused. Reading this article and the subsequent comments it is nice to know that other people with Rheumatoid feel the same but is it enough to be a catalyst for the Arthritis Organization to add support groups as part of their purpose? I hope so because we need help!
Pam
08 Feb 2010, 16:24
I am looking for a support group in Buffalo, NY.
I have FM and RA little to no health insurance and I'm on disability. What advice can I get to help me do my daily things, showing, doing my hair, cooking and lite housecleaning. Often I have flare ups in both hands.These days all I can do is stay in the house its to cold outside and walking hurts to bad to move. Life has to be more than this is there any hope.
Charles Donnelly
24 Jan 2010, 21:59
I am a husband to a Arthritic wife. It's been extremely frustrating on my part to see how she walks and not get around as well as most woman. I become angry and upset when I see other woman younger and older perform so well.

I have been doing a lot of praying for my wife and myself. Yes, we flare up that she does not want to go to Physical Therapy. She does a great deal of sleeping. She is missing out on life.


Frustrated Husband
Peter Johnson
19 Jan 2010, 08:32
Where are the support groups????
Marcia Young
06 Jan 2010, 12:55
1 year ago I was a happy health farm wife. I could lift hay bale, feed sacks, even animals if I had to. Then one day I passed out in the barn yard. My goats surroumded me and continued to nudge me until I was able to get up. from that day my life changed, I was so sick, so weak, I went to the doc, they took out my gall bladder, I got worse. after 3 months of testing I was finally given a diagnosis of RA. Today I can bearly lift a coffee cup. I hurt everywhere, all the time. bedtime is torture,getting out of bed is worse. an I won't even go into what it's like just trying to get off the toilet. I'm angry,I'm sad, I miss my life. I rarely leave the house because it hurts too bad to go down the steps. The meds perscribed made me violently ill, and my hair fell out, I simply can't take them. sometimes I just don't want to go on. I need someone to talk to that understands. my husband and family just think I'm being a baby and that I need to "suck it up,and move on" I would, if I could move! I'm only 53, I don't want to spend the rest of my life like this. Is there any hope? Thanks for letting vent.
Renee
18 Dec 2009, 08:48
I just turned 29 and have been dealing with this disease for 4 years now. I went into anaphlactic shock after taking Avelox (an antibiotic) and 5 months later I developed Reumatoid Arthritis. I lost my job last month. I could go on and on. Basically, I have allowed RA to ruin almost every aspect of my life and I can't find a support group in the Seattle area.

Also, I do try to make goals for myself and that seems to help somewhat... good luck to anyone who reads this.
Angel
29 Nov 2009, 18:11
looking for a support group
Tina Dietrich
24 Nov 2009, 21:02
Anyone know of any R/A support groups in the Lansing MI area?
Meridith Farmer
22 Nov 2009, 00:48
Hello, name is Meridith and I was just diagnosed with RA earlier this year. I am 37 years old and am still working as the lead receptionist in a medical office 40+ hours per week. I am adjusting to earlier bedtimes, haven't yet gotten on a regular exercise program and have made some minor changes to my diet. I am so sorry to see all the frustration from all of you above! But for whatever it's worth, I just picked up a book by M.E.A. McNeil called "Rheumatoid Arthritis: The First Year (Everything you need to Learn & Do)". I am finding it extremely informative and helpful. For any of you willing to step out and start a support group in your area (because it sounds like they don't exist anymore!) maybe this would be a good place to start, reading it with others.
EMS
16 Oct 2009, 10:23
Hello My name is Rochelle & i work for EMS research in London. We have been asked to conduct some research in September with Rheumatoid arthritis patients who are currently being prescribed HUMIRA & are using an auto injector pen. You will be paid to take part & it will be an opportunity to be able to have a say in the way your condition is managed and if you feel the Auto Injector Pens can be improved. If anyone is interested, please could you either email my colleague arthritis@ems.eu.com or call her on 0208 996 0498. Please be assured that any details given to us will be kept completely confidential & will not be passed onto any third party Many thanks for your time Regards
nanci
21 Aug 2009, 09:34
I too, am a sufferer of RA. I was diagnosed 4 years ago. I am currently injecting myself once a week with enbrel which has helped me a great deal. I still have flair ups but not as often.....mostly due to the fact that Im afraid to move most joints that can trigger the flair up. I've learned to accept the pain ( although, no one ever really learns to accept it ) but the emotional aspect of this disease has changed my life completly. I am always depressed, and yes, angry, and take it out on those who love me most. It saddens me that I have changed so much because of the horrible disease, and I am looking for a support group that can help me with the emotional side of it all. Bless you all that are suffering from this disease..and let's hope they come up with some mental support for us all.
Karla Hinkel
01 Aug 2009, 13:50
Hello,my name is Karla and I was diagnoised with RA four years ago, due to not having insurance I had to stop seeing a Dr. I now am on disability due to my condition, just 2 months ago I was told I have fibro on top of the RA. No one understands the pain that I live with and they think I can get over it by complete exercise. That is not so if you cannot walk well. I live in a rural section of Indiana and can travel to Indianapolis but looking for a support group has not been available to me. I need the physical, and mental support as I feel I am loosing my mind. I am on antidepressants and have been on them for four years. If anyone knows of any groups in my area PLEASE let me know.
Therese Biehler
07 Jul 2009, 09:54
25years ago, when I got my diagnosis, there were some good support groups, and even some very good educational sessions by the Arthritis Foundation. But now it seems that the only thing the Foundation does is plan these :Walks, Runs, etc. to get money for research. Research is needed, I don't deny it. But what about the now!!!!! I pray that the foundation reads all these commets and can do something to help us!
mindy ventola
28 Jun 2009, 11:53
I too am looking for a support group. My son has had JRA since the age of 6 & is now 27. He is miserable &I just don't know how to help him & it upsets me. I'm interested in learning how you income limitations being on disability. He is just about living in poverty because he doesn't know what is out there as far as benefits. He's limited in what he can do as far as jobs. Any suggestions? I'd appreciate anyone's input. Thanks
Ria
10 Jun 2009, 10:47
I live in the Salisbury, MD area and have called several organizations for help in locating a local arthritis support group with no success. My rheumatologist has no new treatment plan for me and gives me no hope for any new/upcoming treatment options. I was diagnosed with osteo-arthritis many years ago and this past spring the pain has greatly intensified. I am very interested in finding a support group in my area.
Mary
20 May 2009, 17:15
Hi My name is Mary and i was told back in 1989 i have RA and as year go on it get worth ,and i'm looking for a support group to help , i.am get frustratred and mad at my self for the pain i have every day ,i do talk with my doctor and he said try a support group in my area but i have found one yet .my family and friend dont understand the pain every day ,i pray AND ask GOD TO HELP ME EACH DAY.
I.M ASK FOR HELP THE DOC SAID TALKING WITH OTHER WHO HAVE RA WILL HELP.
THANK YOU FOR LISTENING MARY
Tammi
12 May 2009, 18:47
i was diagnosed with ra when i was 16 im 29 now i was curious about support groups a friend of mine introduced me to this site
Jeannie Anderson
05 May 2009, 10:10
I have rheumatoid arthritis that developed into a rare condition called vasculitis. I would love to find an online support group. Seems something shared helps.
Thanks for any information.
Jeannie
Theresa Neligh
25 Apr 2009, 17:02
Hello, Is there a fibro group in Russellville Arkansas, The one group has been disbanned. I can create one if it is needed.
Rita Webber
21 Apr 2009, 11:20
I am 53 years old with FM and RA. The Arthritis Foundation here in Los Angeles used to have meetings for those people afflicted with other arthritic conditions other than FM. Now there are none when I contacted two branches here in the LA area. I can find FM meetings but nothing for the other arthritic conditions that people may have. If anyone knows of any RA or other groups for people with arthritis please let me know. There are so many people out there with RA, OA and the other hundred arthritic conditions out there and we are in pain. I need support from others who have the same condition I have. I have considered starting up a support group for people with RA since the Arthritis Foundation does not offer them. I am in a lot of pain and having difficulty coping with the RA and need others to talk to.
Allie
13 Apr 2009, 23:20
Hello. I need help. My relative has been struggling with Rheumatoid Arthritis for a couple of years now. She tells me I cannot understand her pain and the changes that are occurring internally and externally with her body. She is right to say that I do not understand what she is going through. She is willing to go to a support group with me if I find one. I have yet to find a self help group in the Northern NJ area ( willing to travel south, west, east for her support group if need be). The rheumatoid arthritis gene runs in the family. I am fearful that I will suffer from this disease in the future especially when it has affected the majority of the women in my family. I am desperate for help because she is a good woman that at one point enjoyed life. She has some good days but they often seem rare when the flare ups ( that last at times a week) out weigh that one good day. I have faith that there is help out there. Any information would be greatly appreciated.------Allie.
Joanne Schaut
04 Mar 2009, 15:06
I am frustrated trying to find a support group for Rheumatoid Arthritis. I live in Burien, Washington. My doctor recommended contacting the Arthritis Foundation - and here I am, reading above that I should contact the doctor. I have searched area hospitals for support group recommendations, and found none.

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