Pregnancy and raising children is a difficult decision for anyone considering a family, but if you have a chronic illness or disability, it can be downright terrifying!
If you are considering pregnancy or are parents-to-be, your mind is probably filled with questions that have no answers and your thoughts are flooded with concerns having no real predictable outcome. Physicians can advise, but no one knows for sure how our bodies will react to the change in medications, stopping treatments altogether or being pregnant.
To have a baby or not is one of the most important decisions a person or couple can make. Disease progression before, during and after pregnancy and the baby’s health while pregnant are the two greatest concerns. Taking precautions and communicating with those who’ve experienced it can be extremely helpful. There’s comfort knowing others have had similar experiences.
Stopping prescription drugs several months before conceiving is often required for both men and women taking high-risk medications. It can also be viewed as a test period to see how a person’s body will tolerate their disease without treatment.
For reasons unknown to doctors, researchers and mother- to-be, a large percentage of women diagnosed with arthritis go into remission during pregnancy. Wouldn’t it be nice if scientists could tap into why female bodies react this way and use the knowledge to find a cure?
A few years after being diagnosed with rheumatoid arthritis (RA) and because of the rare aggressiveness of my disease, the doctors presented me with a very short timeline and one chance to have a baby. Basically they said, “It’s now or never.” After reviewing health matters, considering the odds and feeling confident with our medical team, my husband and I chose, “now” (keeping in mind the "now" was more than 21 years ago).
Unfortunately, I did not experience "pregnancy remission." Everything about being pregnant was good except for the arthritis, which wreaked havoc on my insides. My body went into attack mode (more so than usual), causing damage throughout and the RA completely ate my thumb, deteriorating it to nothing. Approximately six months into my pregnancy, doctors offered to medicate me, but I refused. Since I only had one chance to have a baby and he seemed fine, medication with unknown effects was not worth the risk.
Although RA has created a multitude of challenges while raising my son and in every aspect of my life, overall, the pregnancy was an incredible experience!
Are you or have you considered having a baby? If so, what are your concerns? What advice has your doctor given you? If you’ve already given birth, how did your body react without medication? Did you experience pregnancy remission? Please share your questions or tips in the comment section below.































I am now more concerned with the care of the baby after he is born. I would like to walk with a stroller in the park, and go on outings, but I am worried I won't be able to do it without my heavily dependance of a cane. I am worried I won't be able to stand or walk in the house while holding the baby. I'm worried that I won't be able to run after the child. There is very little information out there regarding the care of young babies and children while suffering from debilitating arthritis.
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