Random Acts of Kindness

By Annette Beach

Have you ever been in awe after experiencing something that was simple and easy, yet at times didn't seem real? I was on the receiving end of a random act of kindness and, to this day, I still analyze the impact it had on me.

In 1995, I was scheduled for a day of testing at a nearby hospital to determine if I was a candidate for surgery. My day began at 7 a.m. with appointments staggered around the clock. The final test was at 2 p.m., with a 4 p.m. consultation to discuss the results.

Having a bit of time in between the last two appointments, I sat on a bench outside and became lost in my thoughts. I replayed the tests and wondered about the decisions I was about to face.

Not paying attention to the actions taking place around me, I didn’t notice the stranger who approached and stood before me. When I acknowledged him, he handed me a flower and said, "A face like yours should not look so sad." Then he walked away and never looked back.

I'm sure my expression changed when I took the flower because I was absolutely stunned! I'd like to think I smiled, but I can't say for sure because it all happened so fast. I sat there looking at this flower that was picked from the hospital flowerbed about ten feet from my bench. I was amazed how a simple act could instantly erase the thoughts and fears that consumed my mind, leaving me with a feeling of pure gratitude.

It may sound silly, but his kindness got me through the rest of the day. I cannot describe the man or tell you what kind of flower it was, but I do remember how it made me feel. The simplicity, the timing and the result continue to put a smile on my face 14 years later!

Have you ever been on the receiving end of a random act of kindness? What was the act and how did it make you feel? What random acts have you done to make others feel good? When you walk past someone (on the street, in a hallway, while shopping, etc.), are you the first to say “Hi” or do you respond after being greeted?